r*******7
发帖数: 1144 | 1 据说Tenure track的最多能在这三项中选两项，然后还有很高的概率两个都搞砸。大家
说说呢。 |
r*******7
发帖数: 1144 | 2 Life大概是个人追求，比如个人爱好和生活情趣，甚至个人身心健康等。而family多指
责任和关系的维系等等。当然这三者本来就是相辅相成的。但是顾此失彼大概是我毕业
后这几年的常态. |
F********y
发帖数: 7139 | 3 family > life > career，在有冲突的时候
【在 r*******7 的大作中提到】
: 据说Tenure track的最多能在这三项中选两项，然后还有很高的概率两个都搞砸。大家
: 说说呢。
|
d**i
发帖数: 199 | 4 If career fails, you can still find other ways out, which may be even
better than being a professor. But if family fails, the negative impact is in the long term, especially to the next generation...
I heard someone at a top notch university failed the tenure and divorced.
【在 F********y 的大作中提到】
: family > life > career，在有冲突的时候
|
z*******2
发帖数: 2643 | 5 I heard someone at a top notch university succeeded the tenure and divorced.
in the long term, especially to the next generation...
【在 d**i 的大作中提到】
: If career fails, you can still find other ways out, which may be even
: better than being a professor. But if family fails, the negative impact is in the long term, especially to the next generation...
: I heard someone at a top notch university failed the tenure and divorced.
|
g********r
发帖数: 8017 | 6 邪恶等式 career = life
正常等式 life = family
所以 career＝life＝family |
f******n
发帖数: 176 | 7 还没拿到tenure, 但是相信这三者皆可得到。其实他们并不冲突，好的balance会给你
各方面带来好的benefit. 一心只工作的人没有完整的人生，你的life, family包含多
么丰富的内容。在你孩子小的时候花心思的培养，陪玩，会给他的人生有一辈子积极的
影响。Enjoy life, enjoy life, life not equal to career or job at all.
My two cents. |
