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y****s
发帖数: 132
1
用事实去说服对方,或者让对方用事实说服自己。还可以怎么回答更好?
H****y
发帖数: 2992
2
First, relax, and tell them that conflicts are everywhere, and are not
always bad things. You shouldn't give up your own interests too soon. Sit
down with the other party, talk, talk, face the problem, do not dodge it.
Hopefully, eventually you can reach a point that's beneficial or at least
acceptable for both parties. The reason it's not always a bad thing because
it does frequently maximize the output. That's the mature attitude. The pro'
s attitude. A lot of Americans feel that Chinese are too nice/passive, which
is not what they always look for.
y****s
发帖数: 132
3
Thank you very much!

because
pro'
which

【在 H****y 的大作中提到】
: First, relax, and tell them that conflicts are everywhere, and are not
: always bad things. You shouldn't give up your own interests too soon. Sit
: down with the other party, talk, talk, face the problem, do not dodge it.
: Hopefully, eventually you can reach a point that's beneficial or at least
: acceptable for both parties. The reason it's not always a bad thing because
: it does frequently maximize the output. That's the mature attitude. The pro'
: s attitude. A lot of Americans feel that Chinese are too nice/passive, which
: is not what they always look for.

o**********y
发帖数: 334
4
mark
真是高人的回答:)
H****y
发帖数: 2992
5
不敢当,再次声明,“高人”这个账户是我老公用来在未名打牌压气场的,给我霸占了。

【在 o**********y 的大作中提到】
: mark
: 真是高人的回答:)

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