r*m 发帖数: 16380 | 1 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很
多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多.
报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻
子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50%
挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的
公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen
)称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果
截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。” |
l******a 发帖数: 16364 | 2 我妈年轻的时候包干所有家务,50岁以后反弹报复社会,经常训斥我爸,现在我爸已经
被教育的能干很多基本家务了。。。
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Hansen
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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b*******c 发帖数: 20683 | 3 BS
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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G***G 发帖数: 16778 | 4 should marry a robot
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Hansen
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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e******g 发帖数: 2336 | 5 这也好算打性别平等的嘴巴?
性别平等和婚姻稳定没有一毛钱关系。不平等的关系常常更稳定,因为弱势的一方没有
选择的权利。当一个婚姻两个人都有选择离婚的权利的时候,离婚的可能性自然会更大。
继续做调查还会发现,女性没有独立谋生能力的家庭离婚率更低,低到她们宁可忍受丈
夫长久的家庭暴力或者频繁的出轨也要维持一个家庭。
不如我们就干脆剥夺所有女童的受教育权,剥夺所有妇女的劳动权继承权选举权,甚至
直接剥夺她们的离婚权,然后再给男性们娶多个妻子的权利,多好啊,女人们想离婚但
是没有法律依据,男人们有权利离婚但是大部分不会觉得有这个必要,离婚率一定会创
历史新低。
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Hansen
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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a**********u 发帖数: 28450 | 6 我操,原文在哪里?赶紧得让老婆看看
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Hansen
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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b***b 发帖数: 13249 | 7 呵呵! 地位暴露贴!
我一直以为你在家里很牛捏, 看你现在这么急不可待地要要老婆看帖的样子,呵呵呵呵
呵呵!
【在 a**********u 的大作中提到】 : 我操,原文在哪里?赶紧得让老婆看看 : : . : Hansen
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t******t 发帖数: 2404 | 8 这明显的是哪个想偷懒的老公干完活苦思冥想编出来的嘛。 |
a*********y 发帖数: 321 | 9 秀原文, Daily Telegraph找了一圈没找到。找不到的话只能当是谣言。 谣言给老婆
看没说服力。
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Hansen
【在 r*m 的大作中提到】 : 据英国《每日电讯报》9月27日报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示,很 : 多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多. : 报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻 : 子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50% : 挪威研究人员发现在生活中达成的公平对双方的亲密关系有害无益。家庭生活中的 : 公平和生活质量几乎没有关系,甚至成反比。研究人员托马斯·汉森(Thomas Hansen : )称:“人们可能认为对于一些所谓男女不公平的家庭,他们的离婚率更高,但是结果 : 截然相反。而且数据清晰显示,男性在家干的家务越多,双方离婚率越高。”
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b*****h 发帖数: 821 | 10 http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couple
he-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html
In what appears to be a slap in the face for gender equality, the report fou
nd the divorce rate among couples who shared housework equally was around 50
per cent higher than among those where the woman did most of the work.
揥hat we抳e seen is that sharing equal responsibility for work in the home d
oesn抰 necessarily contribute to contentment,said Thomas Hansen, co-author
of the study entitled 揈quality in the Home
The lack of correlation between equality at home and quality of life was sur
prising, the researcher said.
揙ne would think that break-ups would occur more often in families with less
equality at home, but our statistics show the opposite,he said.
The figures clearly show that 搕he more a man does in the home, the higher t
he divorce rate,he went on.
揗aybe it抯 sometimes seen as a good thing to have very clear roles with lot
s of clarity ... where one person is not stepping on the other抯 toes,he s
uggested.
揟here could be less quarrels, since you can easily get into squabbles if bo
th have the same roles and one has the feeling that the other is not pulling
his or her own weight.
But the deeper reasons for the higher divorce rate, he suggested, came from
the values of 搈oderncouples rather than the chores they shared.
揗odern couples are just that, both in the way they divide up the chores and
in their perception of marriageas being less sacred, Mr Hansen said. 揑n
these modern couples, women also have a high level of education and a well-p
aid job, which makes them less dependent on their spouse financially.
They can manage much easier if they divorce,he said. Norway has a long tra
dition of gender equality and childrearing is shared equally between mothers
and fathers in 70 per cent of cases.
But when it comes to housework, women in Norway still account for most of it
in seven out of 10 couples. The study emphasised women who did most of the
chores did so of their own volition and were found to be as 揾appythose in
搈oderncouples.
Dr Frank Furedi, Sociology professor at the University of Canterbury, said t
he study made sense as chore sharing took place more among couples from midd
le class professional backgrounds, where divorce rates are known to be high.
揟hese people are extremely sensitive to making sure everything is formal, l
aid out and contractual. That does make for a fairly fraught relationship,
he told the Daily Telegraph.
揟he more you organise your relationship, the more you work out diaries and
schedules, the more it becomes a business relationship than an intimate, lov
ing spontaneous one.
揟hat tends to encourage a conflict of interest rather than finding harmonio
us resolutions.He said while the survey applied to Norway, he was confiden
t the results would be the same in the UK.
揑n a good relationship people simply don抰 know who does what and don抰 par
ticularly care. 揢nless marriage is a relationship above anything else, then
whenever there are tensions or contradictions things come to a head. You ha
ve less capacity to forgive and absorb the bad stuff.
The survey appeared to contradict another recent one across seven countries
including Britain that found that men who shouldered a bigger share of domes
tic responsibilities had a better sense of wellbeing and enjoyed a better wo
rk-life balance.
The researchers expected to find that where men shouldered more of the burde
n, women抯 happiness levels were higher. In fact they found that it was the
men who were happier while their wives and girlfriends appeared to be largel
y unmoved.
Those men who did more housework generally reported less work-life conflict
and were scored slightly higher for wellbeing overall.
Experts suggested that, while this may be partly because they felt less guil
ty, the main reason could be that they had simply learnt the secret of a qui
et life.
【在 a*********y 的大作中提到】 : 秀原文, Daily Telegraph找了一圈没找到。找不到的话只能当是谣言。 谣言给老婆 : 看没说服力。 : : . : Hansen
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