s**********t
发帖数: 455 | 1 This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
worth a separate post.
我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
花钱很自责的。。
When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
just like you. What makes her stand out is that she has spent a lot more
time and money than others in figuring out how to look her best. That look
didn't come free and easy. If you want to look stunning, you have to be
committed to a life-long learning process, because there is always room for
improvement. There is a huge amount of knowledge and know-how in attaining
an outstanding style. To acquire this knowledge and reach that level of
sophistication takes many years. 牌子，款式，颜色are only a small fraction
of it. You need to read more, think more, observe more, and try more. And
in this process, you will develop your own style that goes with your
personality. You can't rush this process. Also, you need to hang out with
better dressed people -- if you surround yourself with sloppy dressers, you
tend to dress like them.
怎么能让自己买到喜欢的衣服，而不是每次都看人家穿得好？主要是实践的问题！！买
东西时不会挑！！怎么能学会买衣服,挑衣服？有时候很不得问别人你这衣服在哪买的
。怎么才能会买衣服？
When you observe others, pay extra attention to those who have a similar
physique as yours. If you're a 5ft4 Asian, don't imitate the way a 6ft
blonde dresses. But again, simple imitation rarely works well, and it's
superficial. What you really need is a sense of style, a general idea of
what is good and what is bad. To acquire that sense you have to resist the
temptation of following the current seasonal "fashion" and immerse yourself
in classic, time-proven looks. Maybe you should watch all the movies by
Grace Kelly, Liz Taylor, Audrey Hepburn, Sophia Loren, Sophie Marceau, etc.,
so you can learn how beautiful women dress, move, talk, and carry
themselves. This might sound silly, but it's necessary. Nobody is
naturally born elegant and stylish. It's like learning a new sport or new
language.
Once you form your own sense and belief, shopping for clothes becomes very
easy. You will start to pay more attention to the cut, texture, color, than
brand names and other superfluous things.
1。去之前心里有没有打算，想不想具体想买什么？还是全是凭感觉来？
You can't 全是凭感觉来, nor can you always have an idea of 具体想买什么.
But you should always have a general idea of what looks good on you. For
example, you should know what colors/shape to avoid. You should also
remember what's in the wardrobe, and think how a new item can work with what
you already have. For example, if you see a pair of shoes you really like,
before you buy them, you should think about what kind of pants/skirts/tops
would complete the entire look. And if you don't already have those other
pieces, you will probably never want to wear them (and if you do wear them,
they will look awkward on you). The daily shoe pic posted on this board are
a perfect illustration of how little people think about the complete outfit
when they buy shoes on an impulse.
2。衣服brands这么多，应该怎么看的？每一家都看，只注意单品，不注意brand？还是
有选择的看？那这个“选择”是凭什么呢？
I'd say pick your price range, and then forget about brands. Brands don't
make you, clothes do.
3。每个brand里面又有这么多衣服上架，挑选时怎么才能选中自己心爱的？是走马观花
还是有目的而去？店里那么多衣服，怎么才能不看花眼，有的放矢？？
If I were you, I'd browse plenty of magazines/catalogs before hitting the
mall. If you just dive into the shops and browse blindly without a purpose,
you are very likely to end up with stuff that you will never wear. | s******z
发帖数: 72 | 2 Thank you for the great post.
If you're a 5ft4 Asian, don't imitate the way a 6ft blonde dresses. | s**********t
发帖数: 455 | 3 Then you will have to read more magazines, blogs, etc. with Asian models. I
don't think the stores only sell "white"
clothes. You just need to know what to get.
Btw, you probably get all the attention in a place like that -- you are the oriental exotic womam among all the blondes.
flatter those tall
【在 s******z 的大作中提到】
: Thank you for the great post.
: If you're a 5ft4 Asian, don't imitate the way a 6ft blonde dresses.
| G***a
发帖数: 27294 | 4 When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking
woman just like you.
－－－这句话我不同意啊。都能让人觉得ｓｔｕｎｎｉｎｇ的姑娘，不论啥人种，去掉
化妆和打扮，
肯定也是长得好看的，肯定不是average
一般人追求“看上去精神”就行，追求stunning实在太。。。
probably
woman
【在 s**********t 的大作中提到】
: This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
: worth a separate post.
: 我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
: 的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
: 。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
: 一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
: 身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
: 花钱很自责的。。
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
| b****e
发帖数: 412 | 5 赞楼主写专栏的能力。
woman
【在 s**********t 的大作中提到】
: This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
: worth a separate post.
: 我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
: 的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
: 。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
: 一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
: 身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
: 花钱很自责的。。
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
| y**u
发帖数: 7459 | 6 我同意。化妆和打扮虽然重要，但到底不是万能，
【在 G***a 的大作中提到】
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking
: woman just like you.
: －－－这句话我不同意啊。都能让人觉得ｓｔｕｎｎｉｎｇ的姑娘，不论啥人种，去掉
: 化妆和打扮，
: 肯定也是长得好看的，肯定不是average
: 一般人追求“看上去精神”就行，追求stunning实在太。。。
:
: probably
: woman
| p*********l
发帖数: 26270 | 7 赞同LZ说的多观察多思考多尝试
扮靓也是学问，不能光跟着别人PG后面走，不能光看牌子和流行款式，重要的是用心去
琢磨 | f****f
发帖数: 306 | 8 Exactly, "Being a woman doesnt automatically make one a lady."
Its really not something we are born with but something we need to take a
long time to learn.
woman
【在 s**********t 的大作中提到】
: This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
: worth a separate post.
: 我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
: 的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
: 。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
: 一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
: 身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
: 花钱很自责的。。
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
| f****f
发帖数: 306 | 9 I think what lz is referring to is one with a whole package. You can be born
to be a pretty woman. Yet, to be a stunning package, it really involves a
lot of effort. And its also possible for average-looking woman.
Maybe Im very proactive, but I think life is more of your "choice". You
choose to look attractive/unattractive, choose to be single/happily married
or choose to be an intelligent individual/someone's package.
【在 G***a 的大作中提到】
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking
: woman just like you.
: －－－这句话我不同意啊。都能让人觉得ｓｔｕｎｎｉｎｇ的姑娘，不论啥人种，去掉
: 化妆和打扮，
: 肯定也是长得好看的，肯定不是average
: 一般人追求“看上去精神”就行，追求stunning实在太。。。
:
: probably
: woman
| p***h
发帖数: 1462 | 10 越写越没有新意了。
而且严重怀疑email的真实性，竟然还有人问这么多这么傻的问题。
woman
【在 s**********t 的大作中提到】
: This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
: worth a separate post.
: 我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
: 的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
: 。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
: 一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
: 身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
: 花钱很自责的。。
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
| x*********n
发帖数: 28013 | 11 楼主，男士的work pants什么牌子性价比高，fit好啊？ | s******6
发帖数: 270 | 12 great post, I shall remind myself of the advices when I want to buy what
others look good
woman
【在 s**********t 的大作中提到】
: This email showed up in my inbox a few days ago, and I think it's probably
: worth a separate post.
: 我都是看人家穿啥都好看，自己去买，总是买不着喜欢的。 也常看时尚杂志blog什么
: 的。 但是每次都是看别人穿的好，惊艳一下。自己看到的衣服，从来没有让自己惊艳
: 。怎么回事？？？？？不知道自己应该怎么选衣服。按牌子，按款式，颜色？？？看了
: 一些网上建议，感觉都是纸上谈兵。不知道自己缺什么，该买什么，怎么买。20出头，
: 身材往差了说中等。是因为买东西给自己限制太多的缘故吗？我花钱很省，还是学生，
: 花钱很自责的。。
: When you see a stunning woman on the street, you need to realize that
: without all the styling and makeup, she is probably an average looking woman
| s**********t
发帖数: 455 | 13 Buy them at discount stores (Off Fifth, Nordstrom Rack, etc.) and get them
altered to get the desired fit for $20.
Most pants are un-wearable without alteration any way.
【在 x*********n 的大作中提到】
: 楼主，男士的work pants什么牌子性价比高，fit好啊？
| t*****g
发帖数: 33 | 14 good post.
any comment on the fibric/material/texture of women business pants? any comment on women
business casual in summer? thanks. |
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