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发帖数: 213 | 1 我和他交往了一年多，连关系都发生了，而且还不知道是太幸运还是不幸运，一次就居然怀孕了，因为没有心理准备，最后做了人流。
在交往期间还带着他见我爸妈，朋友聚会也都参加。现在时间长了，周围朋友都起哄让我们在一起在一起，可是我男朋友一点没有结婚的意思，至少在我看来是这样的，几次我都主动提及这个事情，可是他都笑一笑，说还太早，可是都1年多了，该发生的都发生了，何况还是我的第一次，他这种不置可否的态度真的让人很着急。
前几天实在忍不住了我就听朋友的主意，在和他一起吃饭的时候主动掏出戒指跟他求婚，让我所料不及的是他还是一脸忧郁，然后甩出一句话，说我这是逼婚，说他还没有准备好，都年龄太小了，可是我已经24了，他也27了，还小么?要多大年龄对他来说才合适呢? | l****5
发帖数: 5865 | | j*********o
发帖数: 14 | 3 it is ok.. just leave him. whether you want to regain confidence or to get
him back, nothing works better than you focus on your own things. Cherish
your other relationships and invest in your career. Your attention on him
never buys his affection, never.
If you are a smart girl, you would calmly end things with him while you put
yourself in the things that bring happiness to you : a hobby, your career,
your family and friends, or who knows, another guy. Guys love happy girls
who are not focused on the guy, but on something she herself enjoys.
But most girls won't listen to this. You most likely will try again and
again to make him love you more and to marry you, until you are exausted and
have wasted another 2 years.
Do the smart thing, walk away. |
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