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h*******o 发帖数: 16 | 1 2003年到今天,终于快毕业了.还没找到工作,煎熬中.
不是今天才想到的,而是一直都在想,为了这个phd,真的失去的比得到的多。
我的勇气,自信,聪明,快乐,好人缘好像都在phd的日子中失去了。我开始觉得命
运不掌握在自己的手里,怕老板,不敢和同事交流,怀疑自己,记忆力下降,中间还差
点得忧郁症。不止一次想放弃,之所以没有放弃,一方面对自己的否定让自己不知道何
去何从,一方面,我怕如果真的放弃了,我无法再站起来了,永远都会有一个心理阴影
--被自己打败了。
当然,失去的还有一个女生最宝贵的6年。
有时就有得,得到是不愉快的经历和并不扎实的专业知识。
路总是要走下去,不管有多差,也要走下去。写这些是希望能找到从前的自己,用自己
的脚重新站起来。虽然我也不知道要用多久。 | m*****2 发帖数: 19 | 2 I think you think too much and worry too much! Then all the things you
worried make you have more bitterness toward life. Life is life filled with
imperfection and flaws. We always think if we didn't do that our live would
be better, however you may want to think if you weren't there what you life
would be. All those bitterness block your vision and prevent you from
enjoying the real life and the real you. Make some friends or do something..
.don't sit there think about something already happen |
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