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发帖数: 4346 | 1 Sometimes, I am ashamed that I couldn't come out to some of my long-term and
close friends including my
parents. I found I especially had a hard with married couples and some male
friends who have known me for a
long time. I feel like I was worried that they would become disappointed
about me and would feel offended.
But I realized it was completely unnecessary. Most of my friends whom I came
out with became much closer to
me and I felt much more like myself when I hang out with them. On the other
hand, I pushed away some
friends simply because I had a hard time coming out to them. It is really
strange. I think If I did, they would not
mind but somehow it was just hard for some people.
I wish I would have more courage to come out to people that I care about in
the future. It is really nothing
wrong of being one true self and good friends will respect that. |
c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 2 I think true friends won't judge you on living your life authentically. good
luck! |
e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 3 放心吧，出啊出的你就习惯了。我的朋友要是不认同是他们自己有问题，我可以免费咨
询，在我有空的前提下。
今天还在想呢，下周开始带戒指上班。
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e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 4 很多人也许只是表面上保证言行politically right，但是真正想通需要时间。这就ok
了。我自己想明白也花了不少时间，可以理解。
有一个朋友的反应是，you don't have to tell me your personal life. It's like
what's the color of your underwear. ---- come on! 是这人先问到我找bf的问题
的。当大家真心还是假意的关心我婚嫁问题的时候，就没人觉得这个是个人隐私了。
还有的人，对我是les没有问题，他们couple两个和我玩的还是很好。但有一次午饭时
讨论到same-sex marriage，居然反应是，这个如果提倡会导致人类灭绝的。 ---- 我
觉得是我科普工作做的还不够深入。
有人会说。。。对于你是我没什么意见，但想到我女儿，希望她长大不要变成les。
最近听说我们二楼有个希腊女生怀孕了，未婚，没人知道父亲是谁，但据说她总是说we
怎样怎样。个子小小的，平时一向短发，穿件灰色套头衫上班，不算很T，但绝对不女
性化。也许吧。。。 |
