s********n
发帖数: 4346 | |
s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 2 没事儿连身高还要要求一下？ 为什么啊？
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: T在大家心中和男人差不多？
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u********e
发帖数: 554 | 3 T要是和男人差不多，那我干脆转直算了。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 没事儿连身高还要要求一下？ 为什么啊？
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z****d
发帖数: 321 | |
s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 5 可是为什么大家需要T的身高， 等。 而且说P会微笑就行了。
【在 u********e 的大作中提到】
: T要是和男人差不多，那我干脆转直算了。
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z**********2
发帖数: 6143 | 6 谁这么说的？
再说需要身高就是像男人么？。。。。。。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 可是为什么大家需要T的身高， 等。 而且说P会微笑就行了。
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 7 就是从择偶标准看， 似乎T更象男人被女人选。
【在 z**********2 的大作中提到】
: 谁这么说的？
: 再说需要身高就是像男人么？。。。。。。
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z**********2
发帖数: 6143 | 8 大家都是互相挑的，男人也挑女人，女人也挑男人，剩T绝对不会是身高的问题
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 就是从择偶标准看， 似乎T更象男人被女人选。
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k***a
发帖数: 62 | 9 在這, 我感覺女人分成2部份, 一部份就像男人一樣, 另一部份要很女人.
相處的模式是一男一女. (也有可能我感覺錯誤). |
s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 10 That is true! What I meant was that the gender polarity between T and P
resembled those in man and woman.
It is just interesting. I didn't know this until I came to this bbs.
Before, I just knew that I liked woman. T for me sounds more like a fashion
trend or certain hair style. For example, I woulld look at a style with checker shirt
with vans off the wall shoes and a short haircut with semi-long bangs and
would say, look, that is so "T".
【在 z**********2 的大作中提到】
: 大家都是互相挑的，男人也挑女人，女人也挑男人，剩T绝对不会是身高的问题
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L*******t
发帖数: 77 | 11 还好吧 女人都是外贸协会的 买个水果也想挑个漂亮的 至少人家没有要求收入身份吧
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 没事儿连身高还要要求一下？ 为什么啊？
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 12 我没又简单说身高这一项。只是个观察。
份吧
【在 L*******t 的大作中提到】
: 还好吧 女人都是外贸协会的 买个水果也想挑个漂亮的 至少人家没有要求收入身份吧
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e******e
发帖数: 418 | 13 要求身高的人，是外貌协会吧。男人找女人也有要求身高的啊。
高个女生身材比例好。。。 |
T*********n
发帖数: 1361 | 14 靠，我要转p,
今年的目标之一就是工作的时候不要臭脸，要多微笑，要多谄媚，要多小娇羞。。。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 可是为什么大家需要T的身高， 等。 而且说P会微笑就行了。
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I**********U
发帖数: 374 | 15 支持，满足市场需求。。。LOL
其实，不要太钢筋水泥的就可以了。在工作上多微笑对自己有利喔！
。。
【在 T*********n 的大作中提到】
: 靠，我要转p,
: 今年的目标之一就是工作的时候不要臭脸，要多微笑，要多谄媚，要多小娇羞。。。
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L*******E
发帖数: 353 | 16 这个大家需要重新定义一下！
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: T在大家心中和男人差不多？
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l*******s
发帖数: 1140 | 17 每个人都有自己的标准吧，没有必要因为别人的标准和自己不同就质疑人家。 |
w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 18 你啥标准？
【在 l*******s 的大作中提到】
: 每个人都有自己的标准吧，没有必要因为别人的标准和自己不同就质疑人家。
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l*******s
发帖数: 1140 | 19 矮丑穷。
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 你啥标准？
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 20 blush
【在 l*******s 的大作中提到】
: 矮丑穷。
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e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 21 男人。。女人。。。人的性格特征就那么多种
做拉拉也不代表对人性的彻底颠覆，改天换日，面目全非。。。 |
r****a
发帖数: 1350 | 22
truth
【在 z**********2 的大作中提到】
: 大家都是互相挑的，男人也挑女人，女人也挑男人，剩T绝对不会是身高的问题
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T****i
发帖数: 196 | 23 还是跟市场严重失衡有关吧，P找对象比T容易的多，自然挑选的余地更大。
只是不知道T多P少究竟是多大比例，1比5？是不是有中国特色的TP主义呢？ |
e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 24 To me, being a lesbian means the freedom of choice. Free to choose whatever
I like, feminine or masculine, not just one way or the other, but both.
If someone is looking for manly personality from a T, it doesn't mean a
surrender to traditional gender role. How do you define a man or a woman?
The role itself is evolving overtime. Is house-husband a real man? As long
as the decision is made by free choices and own will, that's a good decision
.
I thought LZ is against labeling, but looks like it's realy hard to get rid
of ... |
w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 25 简单的说，t就是既有胸又有怀
【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】
: To me, being a lesbian means the freedom of choice. Free to choose whatever
: I like, feminine or masculine, not just one way or the other, but both.
: If someone is looking for manly personality from a T, it doesn't mean a
: surrender to traditional gender role. How do you define a man or a woman?
: The role itself is evolving overtime. Is house-husband a real man? As long
: as the decision is made by free choices and own will, that's a good decision
: .
: I thought LZ is against labeling, but looks like it's realy hard to get rid
: of ...
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e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 26 好事儿都让你们占了哈～
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 简单的说，t就是既有胸又有怀
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 27 I am fascinated about it. All you said is right. I don't mind such labeling
and certainly don't' mind individual preferences. . But i guess sometimes I
find it a little strange to associate certain stereotypical trait of a
straight man to T and a stereotypical trait of a straight woman to P in
terms of role in a relationship.
whatever
decision
rid
【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】
: To me, being a lesbian means the freedom of choice. Free to choose whatever
: I like, feminine or masculine, not just one way or the other, but both.
: If someone is looking for manly personality from a T, it doesn't mean a
: surrender to traditional gender role. How do you define a man or a woman?
: The role itself is evolving overtime. Is house-husband a real man? As long
: as the decision is made by free choices and own will, that's a good decision
: .
: I thought LZ is against labeling, but looks like it's realy hard to get rid
: of ...
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 28 And you know I always use a provocative 楼 to let you gals water interesting
discussions:)
whatever
decision
rid
【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】
: To me, being a lesbian means the freedom of choice. Free to choose whatever
: I like, feminine or masculine, not just one way or the other, but both.
: If someone is looking for manly personality from a T, it doesn't mean a
: surrender to traditional gender role. How do you define a man or a woman?
: The role itself is evolving overtime. Is house-husband a real man? As long
: as the decision is made by free choices and own will, that's a good decision
: .
: I thought LZ is against labeling, but looks like it's realy hard to get rid
: of ...
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 29 Another thing of being T is that it is much more salient. I would be able to
count how many "Ts" are there in a spot (such as a cafe) but won't be able
to do so for "Ps".
【在 T****i 的大作中提到】
: 还是跟市场严重失衡有关吧，P找对象比T容易的多，自然挑选的余地更大。
: 只是不知道T多P少究竟是多大比例，1比5？是不是有中国特色的TP主义呢？
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e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 30 almost impossible if standstill alone..
to
able
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: Another thing of being T is that it is much more salient. I would be able to
: count how many "Ts" are there in a spot (such as a cafe) but won't be able
: to do so for "Ps".
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 31 。。。明明是被你们占了
【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】
: 好事儿都让你们占了哈～
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m******u
发帖数: 372 | |
e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 33 My theory is that Ts grow up in a hetero-dominated society, it's easier to
adapt to man's role if woman's role doesn't fit, especially when they are
facing straight girls. The expectation determines the outcome. When they are
surrounded by people with same orientation, the competition is no longer
from men but Ts, diversity will become the key to win. We need a relaxed
environment to foster the healthy mind development of T :D
labeling
I
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: I am fascinated about it. All you said is right. I don't mind such labeling
: and certainly don't' mind individual preferences. . But i guess sometimes I
: find it a little strange to associate certain stereotypical trait of a
: straight man to T and a stereotypical trait of a straight woman to P in
: terms of role in a relationship.
:
: whatever
: decision
: rid
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c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 34 bso, 好哥奔一个！
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 简单的说，t就是既有胸又有怀
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 35 hoho
【在 c*****e 的大作中提到】
: bso, 好哥奔一个！
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f**********r
发帖数: 110 | |
c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 37 表害羞
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: hoho
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e***h
发帖数: 2791 | 38 赞。 抱抱
are
【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】
: My theory is that Ts grow up in a hetero-dominated society, it's easier to
: adapt to man's role if woman's role doesn't fit, especially when they are
: facing straight girls. The expectation determines the outcome. When they are
: surrounded by people with same orientation, the competition is no longer
: from men but Ts, diversity will become the key to win. We need a relaxed
: environment to foster the healthy mind development of T :D
:
: labeling
: I
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m***n
发帖数: 1721 | 39 据我接触下来，凡是国内就弯的TP stereotype特别严重，在国外才发现自己弯的就比
较free style。
非常不喜欢国内的TP文化！ |
L******k
发帖数: 33825 | 40 那是因为他们对LGBT群体的无知罢了！
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: T在大家心中和男人差不多？
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Y***1
发帖数: 829 | 41 记得版里有人说过，喜欢t就像喜欢吃素肉，都是豆腐做的。追求神形兼备，又没有肉
类暗藏的有害物质。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: T在大家心中和男人差不多？
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