s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 1 What is counted as flirt? |
m******1
发帖数: 19713 | 2 甲：吃了吗？
乙：刚吃完。
-----这叫正常对话
甲：吃了吗？
乙：这取决于你问哪方面的饥渴。。
-----这叫FLIRT
我靠，我太闲了。。 |
M******n
发帖数: 43051 | 3 汗，原来我成天都在flirt
【在 m******1 的大作中提到】
: 甲：吃了吗？
: 乙：刚吃完。
: -----这叫正常对话
: 甲：吃了吗？
: 乙：这取决于你问哪方面的饥渴。。
: -----这叫FLIRT
: 我靠，我太闲了。。
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 4 How about telling someone she is good looking? Very beautiful?
Sometimes, a casual flirt, such as complementing someone's clothes or just
say" you look so nice today", can be quite charming.
【在 m******1 的大作中提到】
: 甲：吃了吗？
: 乙：刚吃完。
: -----这叫正常对话
: 甲：吃了吗？
: 乙：这取决于你问哪方面的饥渴。。
: -----这叫FLIRT
: 我靠，我太闲了。。
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M******n
发帖数: 43051 | 5 那叫礼貌...?
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: How about telling someone she is good looking? Very beautiful?
: Sometimes, a casual flirt, such as complementing someone's clothes or just
: say" you look so nice today", can be quite charming.
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 6 It all depends. on the tone, context....etc.
【在 M******n 的大作中提到】
: 那叫礼貌...?
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 7 It counts as flirt if you would only say it to a pretty girl, but not an
unattractive wsn.
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: What is counted as flirt?
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 8 But I don't say these to wsn. I would just be very polite with wsn.
By the way, I found flirting is easier with someone you like but not too
much into.
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: It counts as flirt if you would only say it to a pretty girl, but not an
: unattractive wsn.
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 9 then you are flirting :)
I make fun of people, but I don't flirt.
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: But I don't say these to wsn. I would just be very polite with wsn.
: By the way, I found flirting is easier with someone you like but not too
: much into.
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T*****i
发帖数: 523 | 10 Flirt 这可得两厢情愿才能进行下去的事业
就像暧昧 你知我知 红刹了旁人的脸 拆了一方就不成立了 |
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 11 True. but it doesn't have to be so serious. It can just be some fun time.
No one will be unhappy to know they are appreciated and liked, especially in
a slightly romantic way.
【在 T*****i 的大作中提到】
: Flirt 这可得两厢情愿才能进行下去的事业
: 就像暧昧 你知我知 红刹了旁人的脸 拆了一方就不成立了
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 12 er...I would be uncomfortable if I don't like that person in a romantic way.
in
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: True. but it doesn't have to be so serious. It can just be some fun time.
: No one will be unhappy to know they are appreciated and liked, especially in
: a slightly romantic way.
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 13 have to be careful of "making fun" to women. I found it a turn off if some
guy try very hard to joke with me.
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: then you are flirting :)
: I make fun of people, but I don't flirt.
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 14 礼貌就是很规矩但是有距离感的有好。
【在 M******n 的大作中提到】
: 那叫礼貌...?
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 15 It needs to be mutual too. I like to make fun of people who also make fun of
me in return. Of course it has to be fun, not mean, though sometimes it's
fun to be mean :D
some
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: have to be careful of "making fun" to women. I found it a turn off if some
: guy try very hard to joke with me.
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 16 of course, mutual would be the best.
But slightly off balance is not a big deal, especially if you know this
person won't do anything else but casual flirting.
of
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: It needs to be mutual too. I like to make fun of people who also make fun of
: me in return. Of course it has to be fun, not mean, though sometimes it's
: fun to be mean :D
:
: some
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 17 share share some example ba
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: of course, mutual would be the best.
: But slightly off balance is not a big deal, especially if you know this
: person won't do anything else but casual flirting.
:
: of
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 18 I don't know. I found my straight female friend really enjoys my complement.
Of course I enjoy theirs. That is it. It makes life so much colorful. I
don't think most of these complements are flirting. But if they are, not a
big deal.
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: share share some example ba
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 19 说白了，不省油
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: I don't know. I found my straight female friend really enjoys my complement.
: Of course I enjoy theirs. That is it. It makes life so much colorful. I
: don't think most of these complements are flirting. But if they are, not a
: big deal.
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M******n
发帖数: 43051 | 20 取决于人...
有些人要对我flirt我就会觉得浑身不自在
in
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: True. but it doesn't have to be so serious. It can just be some fun time.
: No one will be unhappy to know they are appreciated and liked, especially in
: a slightly romantic way.
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B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 21 来，给笑一个
【在 M******n 的大作中提到】
: 取决于人...
: 有些人要对我flirt我就会觉得浑身不自在
:
: in
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 22 为什么要省油？ 如果你能给一个人的生活带来一点色彩， 又没有任何不好的企图，也
没问题啊，
哎呀呀，我本来讨论一个轻松话题，纯技术，不想讨论任何严肃的方向。。。哈哈。
Flirt is such a cute word. But I guess in chinese culture it means something
negative. Not sure whether it is true.
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 说白了，不省油
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M******n
发帖数: 43051 | 23 这也算flirt么...
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: 来，给笑一个
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x**j
发帖数: 1678 | |
B*********k
发帖数: 3110 | 25 我就是想体验一下鸡皮疙瘩。。
【在 M******n 的大作中提到】
: 这也算flirt么...
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 26 。。。。。那是flirt的一种。。。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 为什么要省油？ 如果你能给一个人的生活带来一点色彩， 又没有任何不好的企图，也
: 没问题啊，
: 哎呀呀，我本来讨论一个轻松话题，纯技术，不想讨论任何严肃的方向。。。哈哈。
: Flirt is such a cute word. But I guess in chinese culture it means something
: negative. Not sure whether it is true.
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C*F
发帖数: 91 | 27 可爱的闷骚，
这算不算？
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: But I don't say these to wsn. I would just be very polite with wsn.
: By the way, I found flirting is easier with someone you like but not too
: much into.
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O**y
发帖数: 5393 | |
s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 29 您还有什么高招？
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 。。。。。那是flirt的一种。。。
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 30 我没招，都听q说的
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 您还有什么高招？
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m***n
发帖数: 1721 | 31 flirty的人比较容易和人暧昧。总觉得这样的人在trying to see what they can get
out of it.
如果对方一笑了之，那就是幽默就是flirt，如果对方当了真，也许就顺了水推了舟。 |
d**w
发帖数: 2474 | 32 +1
【在 B*********k 的大作中提到】
: then you are flirting :)
: I make fun of people, but I don't flirt.
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 33 我倒是觉得其实也可以是一种社交方式。 没有什么特别的目的。
get
【在 m***n 的大作中提到】
: flirty的人比较容易和人暧昧。总觉得这样的人在trying to see what they can get
: out of it.
: 如果对方一笑了之，那就是幽默就是flirt，如果对方当了真，也许就顺了水推了舟。
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 34 我其实对为什么要Flirt, Flirt的人啥意图，一点都不不感兴趣。
我感兴趣的是大家有没有什么技巧体会可以交流。
哈哈
发现大家一讨论问题就很用以道德判断，一道德判断，就没意思了。
我喜欢这句台词：
调情总是应该很认真，而爱情，常常不能太严肃。。
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 我倒是觉得其实也可以是一种社交方式。 没有什么特别的目的。
:
: get
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x**j
发帖数: 1678 | 35 技巧交流得有具体例子,要不你开个贴,大家跟,有家有口的都别认真,纯灌水玩.
【在 s********n 的大作中提到】
: 我其实对为什么要Flirt, Flirt的人啥意图，一点都不不感兴趣。
: 我感兴趣的是大家有没有什么技巧体会可以交流。
: 哈哈
: 发现大家一讨论问题就很用以道德判断，一道德判断，就没意思了。
: 我喜欢这句台词：
: 调情总是应该很认真，而爱情，常常不能太严肃。。
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