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r*****e 发帖数: 4598 | 1 [首先道歉]
根据读书会第二次集体讨论的要求,对我会会规做出修改:
在读书会成立之初,由于考虑到青年人的阅历等原因,对年龄做出了限制。大家集体讨
论认为,经验阅历的分享本身就是一种对人生的提炼,不应该限制参加者的年龄。因此
,特将读书会会员年龄的限制一项取消。读书会的大门向所有人敞开,真诚欢迎老中青
的参与跟分享。对我工作的不周,向大家真诚道歉!
My apology to all of you for this age limit rule, let’s do it again and
make it right. I welcome all of you to join us anytime☺
[活动总结+申请包子]
青年读书会于上周末2012年7月21日举行了第二次读书活动,书友们在H同学的主持下热
烈讨论了《曾国藩家训札记---郦波老师评说》的热点内容及其实践意义。 大家用重新
讨论了“一书不尽,不读新书”、“最败人的两个字”、“用人四条”、“戒多言,不
纠缠,少争辩”以及“内短于心,自为主持 – 心中有定见”等非常有实际意义的主张
及其在日常生活工作中的应用,收获颇丰。非常感谢H同学的热情主持和积极启发,也
感谢大家活跃发言、各抒己见。
这世上如果有一样东西分给别人后没有变少自己反而拥有更多的话,那就是思想!现把
H同学的读书总结文档附上,仅供大家参考,希望对大家有帮助。(在二楼)
[下期预告](预计时间8/18/2012 Sat.)
第二次读书会上,书友们提议做一期心智成熟的历程,如下书籍作为我们四周后的读书
讨论内容。分别是:
1.《少有人走的路》[美] M·斯科特·派克 译者: 于海生 吉林文史出版社 2007.
内容简介:这本书处处透露出沟通与理解的意味,它跨越时代限制,帮助我们探索爱的
本质,引导我们过上崭新,宁静而丰富的生活;它帮助我们学习爱,也学习独立;它教
诲我们成为更称职的、更有理解心的父母。归根到底,它告诉我们怎样找到真正的自我
。正如开篇所言:人生苦难重重。M·斯科特·派克让我们更加清楚:人生是一场艰辛
之旅,心智成熟的旅程相当漫长。但是,他没有让我们感到恐惧,相反,他带领我们去
经历一系列艰难乃至痛苦的转变,最终达到自我认知的更高境界。
(豆瓣 http://book.douban.com/subject/1775691/)
English Version:
《The Road Less Traveled》M. Scott Peck 1978, it is a description of the
attributes that make for a fulfilled human being, based largely on his
experiences as a psychiatrist and a person. He concludes that "the miracles
described indicate that our growth as human beings is being assisted by a
force other than our conscious will" (Peck, 1978/1992,[6] p281).
(Wiki http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M._Scott_Peck)
Key Note Speaker: Sophie
下载:Dropbox link https://www.dropbox.com/sh/ibnqwk7u7okf7ys/dUr3-JhA2C?m
2. 《吾国吾民》林语堂 江苏文艺出版社2010
内容简介 《吾国吾民》 又名《中国人》,是林语堂在西方文坛的成名作与代表作。该
用坦率幽默的笔调、睿智通达的语言娓娓道出了中国人的道德、精神状态与向往,以及
中国的社会、文艺与生活情趣。由于该书将中国人的性格、心灵、理想、生活、政治、
社会、艺术剖释得非常美妙,并与西方人的性格,理想、生活等做了相应的广泛深入的
比较,在海内外引起轰动,美国许多知名人士推崇。
(豆瓣 http://book.douban.com/subject/4241023/)
English Version:
《My Country and My People》 by Lin Yu Tang In this atmosphere of change,
the present intellectual youth of China has grown up. Where the fathers
imbibed the doctrine of Confucius and learned the classics and revolted
against them, these young people have been battered by many forces of the
new times. They have been taught something of science, something of
Christianity, something of atheism, something of free love, something of
communism, something of Western philosophy, something of modern militarism…
http://books.google.com/books/about/My_Country_and_My_People.html?id=Ri69L6Rsm9AC
Key Note Speaker: H同学
以下两本没有中文版本:
3. 《A Thousand Country Roads》Robert James Waller 2002
It is the epilogue to The Bridges of Madison County which was published in
1992. The book was written in order to appeal to fan interest in the story
of Robert Kincaid and Francesca Johnson after their four-day affair.
The story relates what happened to Robert Kincaid and Francesca Johnson
following their passionate and ill-fated love affair in The Bridges of
Madison County. Kincaid initially finds himself with just memories of a
lonely existence and of Francesca Johnson, whom he felt a great passion for.
Pushed by these memories and desiring to give meaning to his life, Kincaid
takes to the road again. A Thousand Country Roads explores his development
as he explores himself and the world around him on his journey.
Key Note Speaker: 小萨同学
4. 《Boundaries: When to Say YES, When to Say NO, To Take Control of Your
Life》 Henry Cloud,John Townsend, 1992
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A
boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we
are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are
not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us
determine who may touch us and under what circumstances – Mental, Emotional
, Spiritual…When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask: - Can
I set limits and still be a loving person? - What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries? - How do I answer
someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money? - Aren't boundaries
selfish? - Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries
? …
Key Note speaker: 生鱼片 and Roselle
Note:
To facilitate the communication, our group will gradually introduce
bilingual discussion in Chinese and English. Hopefully we can communicate
better and understand more.
对书籍的分享将在稍后内部协调后跟大家公布,请Key Note Speaker与我联络具体细节
。我们需要两位志愿者做内联工作,请大家踊跃报名! | r*****e 发帖数: 4598 | 2 感谢H同学的分享!
曾国藩家训札记 -- 郦波老师评说
上部 一.谁来拯救笨小孩儿 - 勤能 补拙
二.不可一日不读书
– 修身 (人生观/价值观); 立业 (以图自卫其身).
-- 读经典 (经过时间检验的前人的思想和智慧);
--“一书不尽,不读新书” 。入乎其内,出乎其外;读通,读透;札记
-- 培养个人的读书兴趣和方向
三.撑起两根穷骨头 – 齐家,为官/家之道
受不得穷,立不得品;受不得曲,做不得事。
四.守得一个静字 – 淡泊明志,宁静致远。遇事淡定,从容。
五.最败人的两个字 – 大才之人败在傲,平庸之人败在惰。居家立业,皆此为道。
六.小家里的大智慧(家经) – 和,睦,孝
七.养活一团春意思 – 生活中,保持盎然春意的思想和心灵,生活情趣。
八.人但有恒,事无不成
– 自立,自信,自省
九.居官当坚忍,忠诚
十.用人必先知人,成万事之根本
十一。用人四条 - 广收,慎用,勤交,严决
十二。作育人才,以图自强
十三。无愧于兄弟(家人)
十四。自立立人,自达达人
下部
一.逆来顺受之法
二.戒多言,不纠缠,少争论
三.先晓事,后办事
四.合众人之私,以成一人之功
五.扬善于公庭,归过于私事
六.上场当念下场时
七.挺经 – 刚的智慧
八.内短于心,自为主持 - 心中有定见
九.五到与五勤 – 身,眼,手,口,心。行动和实践。
十. 男儿要倔强
– 艰险之时,坚忍住才能成非常事业。
--立志之倔强,自我塑造之倔强
– 屡败屡战
十一。困而知,勉而行 – 执行力
先静之,再思之,五六分把握,即做之。
全局观,细节决定成败。
凡专注,投入,必有所成就。
十二。有主义的团队
十三。流水高山心自知 | q******n 发帖数: 5262 | 3 很不错,谢谢
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 感谢H同学的分享! : 曾国藩家训札记 -- 郦波老师评说 : 上部 一.谁来拯救笨小孩儿 - 勤能 补拙 : 二.不可一日不读书 : – 修身 (人生观/价值观); 立业 (以图自卫其身). : -- 读经典 (经过时间检验的前人的思想和智慧); : --“一书不尽,不读新书” 。入乎其内,出乎其外;读通,读透;札记 : -- 培养个人的读书兴趣和方向 : 三.撑起两根穷骨头 – 齐家,为官/家之道 : 受不得穷,立不得品;受不得曲,做不得事。
| r*****e 发帖数: 4598 | 4 嘻嘻 绿水呼叫青山 手机上给你消息 收到了么?
【在 q******n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 很不错,谢谢
| L****n 发帖数: 3545 | 5 Good ! Support Roselle ?
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嘻嘻 绿水呼叫青山 手机上给你消息 收到了么?
| r*****e 发帖数: 4598 | 6 欢欢每次都回帖支持,谢谢欢欢!
【在 L****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Good ! Support Roselle ?
| L****n 发帖数: 3545 | 7 Then introduce me a girl ba !
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 欢欢每次都回帖支持,谢谢欢欢!
| r*****e 发帖数: 4598 | 8 哈哈 好!
各位美女们注意啦,这位小帅,人品一流,相貌英俊,性格开朗,幽默风趣,办事认真
,井井有条。心理承受力好,在悬崖峭壁的山间小路上被俺们极尽能是的折腾,也依然
沉着镇定,木有把车开到山沟里去!
mm们,这位是罪恶之都的版主哟,集正义与邪恶一身,融沧桑与稳重一体,是难得的稀
世珍品哟!机不可失,赶快私信他吧 ^_^
PS 有reference的好人,才是真的好人!
【在 L****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Then introduce me a girl ba !
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【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 哈哈 好! : 各位美女们注意啦,这位小帅,人品一流,相貌英俊,性格开朗,幽默风趣,办事认真 : ,井井有条。心理承受力好,在悬崖峭壁的山间小路上被俺们极尽能是的折腾,也依然 : 沉着镇定,木有把车开到山沟里去! : mm们,这位是罪恶之都的版主哟,集正义与邪恶一身,融沧桑与稳重一体,是难得的稀 : 世珍品哟!机不可失,赶快私信他吧 ^_^ : PS 有reference的好人,才是真的好人!
| s********n 发帖数: 53 | | q******n 发帖数: 5262 | 11 木有~
你好好读书,电子聊天以后再学。
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嘻嘻 绿水呼叫青山 手机上给你消息 收到了么?
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