m*****t 发帖数: 1987 | 1 大家是怎么判别究竟是因为孤独想和一个人在一起呢,还是因为爱想和一个人在一起? |
T*******r 发帖数: 1633 | 2 蛋疼
【在 m*****t 的大作中提到】 : 大家是怎么判别究竟是因为孤独想和一个人在一起呢,还是因为爱想和一个人在一起?
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p*******r 发帖数: 266 | 3 When you are confused, it is probably not love.
A few quotes may help you to judge, :)
Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside.
Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.
True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.
You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving.
The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of.
At the touch of love, everyone bec
【在 m*****t 的大作中提到】 : 大家是怎么判别究竟是因为孤独想和一个人在一起呢,还是因为爱想和一个人在一起?
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m*****t 发帖数: 1987 | 4 你这些是不是太学院派了,或者说是太罕见了。咱们小人物虽然没有惊天地动鬼神的爱
,却也有可能寻得到平平常常的爱吧。就是这爱和怕孤独有时候似乎不好分。
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【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】 : When you are confused, it is probably not love. : A few quotes may help you to judge, :) : Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside. : Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit. : Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place. : True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen. : You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. : The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of. : At the touch of love, everyone bec
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p*******r 发帖数: 266 | 5 哈哈
怕孤独的时候该去忍受孤独, 等哪一天不怕孤独了,这时候喜欢一个人就不需要分别
了吧?
【在 m*****t 的大作中提到】 : 你这些是不是太学院派了,或者说是太罕见了。咱们小人物虽然没有惊天地动鬼神的爱 : ,却也有可能寻得到平平常常的爱吧。就是这爱和怕孤独有时候似乎不好分。 : : .
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c*********m 发帖数: 185 | 6 年少轻狂的时候多半因为爱
成年之后陪伴就更重要了,不一定是决定性的原因,但是一定是一个原因
所以,感情越大越谈不清楚 |
m*****t 发帖数: 1987 | 7 你那个怕什么就忍受什么的做法,也是比较理想化的,多数人大概都会找捷径的。比如
如果怕孤独,就想排除孤独,而不是忍受孤独,比如找个伴儿什么的,而且如果有一天
真的不怕孤独了,大概要爱上一个人也会不那么容易了,毕竟俩个人是需要磨合的。
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】 : 哈哈 : 怕孤独的时候该去忍受孤独, 等哪一天不怕孤独了,这时候喜欢一个人就不需要分别 : 了吧?
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m*****t 发帖数: 1987 | 8 人是群居动物,越老越怕孤独,所以找伴儿的因素随着年龄的增加也越来越大。
【在 c*********m 的大作中提到】 : 年少轻狂的时候多半因为爱 : 成年之后陪伴就更重要了,不一定是决定性的原因,但是一定是一个原因 : 所以,感情越大越谈不清楚
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s*******d 发帖数: 1079 | 9 Well said! Cant agree more. Is this your own feeling or simply quote from somewhere?
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【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】 : When you are confused, it is probably not love. : A few quotes may help you to judge, :) : Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside. : Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit. : Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place. : True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen. : You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. : The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of. : At the touch of love, everyone bec
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w********e 发帖数: 7186 | 10 还真是这么回事儿。
年轻的时候,还真没想过费这么大的心思去追一个人。
【在 m*****t 的大作中提到】 : 人是群居动物,越老越怕孤独,所以找伴儿的因素随着年龄的增加也越来越大。
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