c********7
发帖数: 6 | 1 I were born in 70s and consider myself as rather conservative. Dated someone
who is of my age and a good match in career and education level, but cannot
let myself go since I feel he was not serious although I did like him. I
defy to have sex with him. And later he admitted that he only wants to be
friends with benefits. Now I moved to another city, and found he ( a
bschool professor) is in a relationship with an entering MBA student from
south america, who just arrived this country in August and doesn't appear as
attractive, a big woman although She is around 20 years younger than him.
I am a bit upset. Do man know at first sight whether he would like to have a
relationship with someone? Feel a bit rejected. Do women who easily accept
man physically appear more attractive. Quite confused as the world has
changed too fast? Or I am just not feeling secured enough to accept or
embrace someone who I like...... As a conservative, I think, love and sex
cannot be separated. | t******f
发帖数: 2109 | 2 Every man is different.
Keep looking if he is not your type of tea.
If you are looking for a match in career and education level, you probably
can get that, the rest you are looking for is not guaranteed in the package.
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: I were born in 70s and consider myself as rather conservative. Dated someone
: who is of my age and a good match in career and education level, but cannot
: let myself go since I feel he was not serious although I did like him. I
: defy to have sex with him. And later he admitted that he only wants to be
: friends with benefits. Now I moved to another city, and found he ( a
: bschool professor) is in a relationship with an entering MBA student from
: south america, who just arrived this country in August and doesn't appear as
: attractive, a big woman although She is around 20 years younger than him.
: I am a bit upset. Do man know at first sight whether he would like to have a
: relationship with someone? Feel a bit rejected. Do women who easily accept
| b*****7
发帖数: 631 | 3 Every man likes sexy woman. It's determined by nature. They have an urge to
eject sperm so that they get chance to carry on his genes.
Since most women would be able to satisfy this need, men does look into
other area of a woman. E.g. cooking good food, good looking,
ability to take care of family etc.
Man thinks using both brain and dick. A wise man knows when he should
control his dick.
Looks like you controled your feeling too much. Relationship is something
worth pursuing. Next time you find someone you like, better cherish that
feeling and let the guy know. | y*******g
发帖数: 1270 | 4 first date? nooooo, only if the sex is what he just wants. keep away from
him.
for serious relationship, better to do it after dating for a while, say 3~6
months. |
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