J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 1 爱情
“I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
幸福
"When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
publisher of Forbes magazine
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春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
来似乎就在等着长大时候可以找到那个能够给我们幸福的另一半。“执子之手，与子偕
老”，有的时候遥远的像不可企及的童话，却深深的扎根在我们的心里，只要活着我们
就不愿意放弃。
找寻爱情和幸福的时候，您问过自己了解自己麽？您知道幸福的获得只能靠自己麽？您
足够喜欢和接受自己麽？您知道什么样的她或他才可以给自己幸福麽？
曾经的我有过困惑，有过痛苦。当自己性格的弱点在亲密的两性关系里暴露时，我不知
所措。当有一天我发现我更了解自己，并且知道怎么做的时候，我开心极了。幸福不是
一个捉摸不定，难以获得的东西。它就在那里，属于我们每一个人。
走过冬天的阴霾，遇到那个让我更加喜欢自己接受自己的他时，我深深爱上了他。爱原
来就是那种发自内心温暖和煦的感觉。心里有爱，原来可以脱口而出“我爱你‘。
当我发现自己因为他的存在而超自己期望的方向改变时，我感到了幸福。
爱情来到时候，我们的心能感受到它的存在。自然升起的喜悦，就是幸福。
找到对的那个人，心会平静踏实，这种幸福才可以持续。
祝大家都有属于自己的美好爱情和幸福！：-） |
a******y
发帖数: 884 | 2 sf!
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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a******y
发帖数: 884 | |
p******e
发帖数: 4263 | 4 zan
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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a******y
发帖数: 884 | 5 The kind of 'love' Roy describes is actually conditional love.. But what
kind of love is unconditional anyway? :)
Still, I have to respectfully disagree with him because I think his kind of
'love' can be really dangerous down the road as it is dependent on how the
other party makes us feel..
To me, to love is to treasure and cherish a person as who he really is. If
he makes me feel wonderful, great; if not, i'd still love and appreciate his
very presence. Well, it may be just me.. after all, I am an alien, from
another planet :) |
T********e
发帖数: 3677 | 6 zan
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 7 Nice!
Love between a man and a woman usually is conditional love.
Unconditional love is loving-kindness or compassion, but it also
needs to be cultivated. We ourselves firstly must be strong enough
to give love to others.
To love is actively do sth on another person, it is giving.
Love should be sth in between, built by both parts, and it needs balance.
I think I know what the personality difference is between us, at least
about love. :-)
of
his
【在 a******y 的大作中提到】
: The kind of 'love' Roy describes is actually conditional love.. But what
: kind of love is unconditional anyway? :)
: Still, I have to respectfully disagree with him because I think his kind of
: 'love' can be really dangerous down the road as it is dependent on how the
: other party makes us feel..
: To me, to love is to treasure and cherish a person as who he really is. If
: he makes me feel wonderful, great; if not, i'd still love and appreciate his
: very presence. Well, it may be just me.. after all, I am an alien, from
: another planet :)
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a******y
发帖数: 884 | 8 Yes, I agree love should be balanced
You are an exemplary scorpio and I am a model aquarius :) We represent two
extremes especially when it comes to love. But it's the difference that
makes it tempting ;)
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: Nice!
: Love between a man and a woman usually is conditional love.
: Unconditional love is loving-kindness or compassion, but it also
: needs to be cultivated. We ourselves firstly must be strong enough
: to give love to others.
: To love is actively do sth on another person, it is giving.
: Love should be sth in between, built by both parts, and it needs balance.
: I think I know what the personality difference is between us, at least
: about love. :-)
:
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J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 9 “It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love
without giving.” - Richard Braunstein
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to
let it come in” - Morrie Schwartz, American educator and author
I think you are extraverted feeling type, which is exactly my weakness. :p
Hug!
【在 a******y 的大作中提到】
: Yes, I agree love should be balanced
: You are an exemplary scorpio and I am a model aquarius :) We represent two
: extremes especially when it comes to love. But it's the difference that
: makes it tempting ;)
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 10 赞颂你的爱情和幸福！
谢谢你的祝福！
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 11 欢迎正方、反方发言！
of
his
【在 a******y 的大作中提到】
: The kind of 'love' Roy describes is actually conditional love.. But what
: kind of love is unconditional anyway? :)
: Still, I have to respectfully disagree with him because I think his kind of
: 'love' can be really dangerous down the road as it is dependent on how the
: other party makes us feel..
: To me, to love is to treasure and cherish a person as who he really is. If
: he makes me feel wonderful, great; if not, i'd still love and appreciate his
: very presence. Well, it may be just me.. after all, I am an alien, from
: another planet :)
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 12 赞！
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: Nice!
: Love between a man and a woman usually is conditional love.
: Unconditional love is loving-kindness or compassion, but it also
: needs to be cultivated. We ourselves firstly must be strong enough
: to give love to others.
: To love is actively do sth on another person, it is giving.
: Love should be sth in between, built by both parts, and it needs balance.
: I think I know what the personality difference is between us, at least
: about love. :-)
:
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 13 精彩，继续！
【在 a******y 的大作中提到】
: Yes, I agree love should be balanced
: You are an exemplary scorpio and I am a model aquarius :) We represent two
: extremes especially when it comes to love. But it's the difference that
: makes it tempting ;)
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H********y
发帖数: 311 | 14 谢谢。
幸福是奢侈品。
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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S*******d
发帖数: 368 | 15 It's not necessarily pro or con; rather, I think I see the difference
between ideal concepts of love between spouses or partners according
to the dedication-driven Chinese model and the more pragmatic
American model. Am I right or am I correct? :-)
【在 L*******t 的大作中提到】
: 欢迎正方、反方发言！
:
: of
: his
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x*****a
发帖数: 7797 | 16 我还是更喜欢：“I love you because you are you."
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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S*******d
发帖数: 368 | 17 Problem is: Your ideals about "you" may change over time;
so does the characters of the actual "you."
【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】
: 我还是更喜欢：“I love you because you are you."
:
: Forbes,
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x*****a
发帖数: 7797 | 18 55555555, 就不能有谁 Love me because I am who I am?
【在 S*******d 的大作中提到】
: Problem is: Your ideals about "you" may change over time;
: so does the characters of the actual "you."
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a********a
发帖数: 272 | 19 re这个。豹兄v5
【在 S*******d 的大作中提到】
: It's not necessarily pro or con; rather, I think I see the difference
: between ideal concepts of love between spouses or partners according
: to the dedication-driven Chinese model and the more pragmatic
: American model. Am I right or am I correct? :-)
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J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 20 haha.赞狼兄！
【在 S*******d 的大作中提到】
: Problem is: Your ideals about "you" may change over time;
: so does the characters of the actual "you."
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J*******k
发帖数: 3298 | 21 Well said!
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: Nice!
: Love between a man and a woman usually is conditional love.
: Unconditional love is loving-kindness or compassion, but it also
: needs to be cultivated. We ourselves firstly must be strong enough
: to give love to others.
: To love is actively do sth on another person, it is giving.
: Love should be sth in between, built by both parts, and it needs balance.
: I think I know what the personality difference is between us, at least
: about love. :-)
:
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N****f
发帖数: 25759 | 22 I yam what I yam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHBt9mHq-5c
【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】
: 55555555, 就不能有谁 Love me because I am who I am?
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x*****a
发帖数: 7797 | 23 yum, yum.
【在 N****f 的大作中提到】
: I yam what I yam.
: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHBt9mHq-5c
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J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 24 We are changing at every moment. There is no 'I'. haha
【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】
: 55555555, 就不能有谁 Love me because I am who I am?
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s******l
发帖数: 1524 | 25 祝福!
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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H*****s
发帖数: 979 | 26 “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
with you.”
good one
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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S*******n
发帖数: 12762 | 27 赞啊赞
Forbes,
【在 J******s 的大作中提到】
: 爱情
: “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am
: with you.” - Roy Croft, poet
: 幸福
: "When what we are is what we want to be, that's happiness" - Malcolm Forbes,
: publisher of Forbes magazine
: ------------------
: 春天，温暖和煦; 人生，幸福美丽。
: 虽然每一个人都是特别的，在被创造时都被赋予了属于自己的特质，但是我们活着都有
: 一个共同的期望，就是幸福。男人，女人是构成世界的两个性别，缺一不可。我们生下
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c********t
发帖数: 5226 | 28 Yes, I love you if you are the one I am who I am
【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】
: 55555555, 就不能有谁 Love me because I am who I am?
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 29 求翻译
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: Yes, I love you if you are the one I am who I am
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c********t
发帖数: 5226 | 30 她说的那个是神（’我是我所是的‘ 是神（耶稣）说的话），
神爱世人，我自然爱神， 答案满意不？
【在 h*********r 的大作中提到】
: 求翻译
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 31 100分
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: 她说的那个是神（’我是我所是的‘ 是神（耶稣）说的话），
: 神爱世人，我自然爱神， 答案满意不？
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