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发帖数: 18403 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 回答CHINESE：1-2-3
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 20:20:40 2015, 美东)
1. Teach how to descalate situation :
Do not overreact when a kid makes racist remarks.
Do not overreach by intervening for your child, you are
taking a valuable opportunity for your child to learn
an important lesson.
let kids be kids. tell your child to prepare 3 calm/funny
come backs to the common slurs, schoolyard taunts.
fight and flight response are both problematic. Do not
escalate situation, but learn to descalate the situation.
EQ靠锻炼
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/SanFrancisco/34392887.html
2. kids have to learn to recognize taunting, bullying behavior
and how to team up (i should emphasize "team up")
so that they do not get picked (individually) by bullies.
霸凌algorithm和反霸凌：职场必读
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Seattle/33102351.html
3. 平常要积极维护老中的名誉。
老板当着我面说中国政府拼命攻击美国网站
http://www.mitbbs.com/article/JobHunting/32971595_0.html
集资集力帮老中做好PR，偷懒后果不堪设想
http://www.mitbbs.com/clubarticle_t2/ITRelief/31128195.html
suggested response:
A.
nice. tell them Jedi is Chinese.
Yoda is Chinese. Obi-wan is Chinese.
When they use the Force, they are being Chinese :-)
B. 发信人: digitalcat (running through the winter), 信区: Parenting
标 题: Re: 征“You're Chinese"的得体答复 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 07:04:38 2015, 美东)
Yeah, no shit, Sherlock.
C. 可以说。“SOOO... WHAT？。。。。”
如果听见别的小朋友被BULLY，
说： “LEAVE HIM ALONE。”，学会
帮人解围。 学会有几个同盟。
D. 发信人: wuyueliuhuo (wuyueliuhuo), 信区: Parenting
标 题: Re: 征“You're Chinese"的得体答复 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 30 13:27:34 2015, 美东)
Sure. So, How Indian are you? I mean American Indian, not Indian American.
E. http://www.mitbbs.com/clubarticle/Dcbang_On_Education/31352497_0.html
F. When they say: Go back to China.
Tell the white kid: Go back to Africa, or go back to the Ice age.
Tell the black kid: go back to NBA
etc. etc.
Your purpose is NOT to make other kids (racist or not) angry or threatened.
Remember, your kid needs to learn to handle tough situations,
learn to surprise, amuse, and descalate, and win respect.
The best way to win respect in the long term is to help out
worthy friends and to always stick up for each other. | l***o
发帖数: 7937 | 2 只要亮出天朝和包子习的招牌，对方立马就跪了。
【在 o**********e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
: 发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
: 标 题: 回答CHINESE：1-2-3
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 20:20:40 2015, 美东)
: 1. Teach how to descalate situation :
: Do not overreact when a kid makes racist remarks.
: Do not overreach by intervening for your child, you are
: taking a valuable opportunity for your child to learn
: an important lesson.
: let kids be kids. tell your child to prepare 3 calm/funny
| o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 3
远水救不了近火。
小孩子上学的时候，
连父母老师都来不及
救援。
【在 l***o 的大作中提到】
: 只要亮出天朝和包子习的招牌，对方立马就跪了。
| c**l
发帖数: 9003 | 4 看了这么多这件事的回帖，这个是唯一靠谱的
【在 o**********e 的大作中提到】
:
: 远水救不了近火。
: 小孩子上学的时候，
: 连父母老师都来不及
: 救援。
| o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 5 谢谢CALL。 鉴于这两天时事，
有感而发。 憋的我不说不行。 | o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | | T*******a
发帖数: 23033 | 7 俗话说，秀才遇上兵。尼玛美帝是兵，我族是秀才。
【在 o**********e 的大作中提到】
: ding
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