y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 1 提一些社交礼节,希望大家同勉之。首先讲一下参加活动的:
天有不测风云,人有旦夕祸福,报名参加活动者有可能因为一些意外不能如期赴约。大
家都是成年人,这些都是可以理解的。可是,作为一个有礼貌有担待的成年人,不能如
期赴约者应该尽早通知组织者。您可以说,"啊,我有这个事儿,所以有可能会迟到。
"当然,您也可以说,"啊,我有那个事儿,所以不能到了。"
对于没有礼貌, 没有担待的成年人,我们也没有办法,只好不再理他们。 |
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 5 社交场合中遇到新认识的人,请先自我介绍。
你可以说,"我叫XX,在什么什么地方居住,喜欢什么什么东西, 请问你呢?"
请您不要一上来就调查户口,这样很容易引起对方的防备心理,不容易让对方有愉快的
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b***u 发帖数: 12010 | 6 搬板凳认真听。。。
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 社交场合中遇到新认识的人,请先自我介绍。 : 你可以说,"我叫XX,在什么什么地方居住,喜欢什么什么东西, 请问你呢?" : 请您不要一上来就调查户口,这样很容易引起对方的防备心理,不容易让对方有愉快的 : 心情。
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b********r 发帖数: 7725 | 7 在网上Bully他人的有礼貌有担待的成年人
“只好不再理他们”
谢谢理解
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 提一些社交礼节,希望大家同勉之。首先讲一下参加活动的: : 天有不测风云,人有旦夕祸福,报名参加活动者有可能因为一些意外不能如期赴约。大 : 家都是成年人,这些都是可以理解的。可是,作为一个有礼貌有担待的成年人,不能如 : 期赴约者应该尽早通知组织者。您可以说,"啊,我有这个事儿,所以有可能会迟到。 : "当然,您也可以说,"啊,我有那个事儿,所以不能到了。" : 对于没有礼貌, 没有担待的成年人,我们也没有办法,只好不再理他们。
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b**********0 发帖数: 1447 | 8 做人要宽容
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 提一些社交礼节,希望大家同勉之。首先讲一下参加活动的: : 天有不测风云,人有旦夕祸福,报名参加活动者有可能因为一些意外不能如期赴约。大 : 家都是成年人,这些都是可以理解的。可是,作为一个有礼貌有担待的成年人,不能如 : 期赴约者应该尽早通知组织者。您可以说,"啊,我有这个事儿,所以有可能会迟到。 : "当然,您也可以说,"啊,我有那个事儿,所以不能到了。" : 对于没有礼貌, 没有担待的成年人,我们也没有办法,只好不再理他们。
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g*******a 发帖数: 31586 | 9
不对 做人要肥而不骄
【在 b**********0 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 做人要宽容
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b********r 发帖数: 7725 | 10 那就该叫走走油
【在 g*******a 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : 不对 做人要肥而不骄
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 11 最后,讲最重要的一点:请少说负面的言语,然后少说几句私人感受。
每人兴趣爱好都不同,有人爱甜,有人喜辣,请尽量不要说批评的言语,因为许多许多
人都很敏感。
请不要说什么"哎呀,美国的蛋糕甜得腻死了,难吃,根本咽不下去。"因为你不知道
对方是不是会在家里照着方子做甜得腻死了的蛋糕。。。少发表一句负面言语对你来说
根本不痛不痒,但是对初次见面的敏感人士很有可能造成负面印象。 |
y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 12 以德抱怨,何以报德?
【在 b**********0 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 做人要宽容
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 15 AMERICA IS A FREE NATION, WHAT MAKES THIS COUNTRY GREAT IS THAT PEOPLE ARE
FREE TO EXPRESS THEIR TRUE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. SO FORGET ABOUT THE
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS CRAP, AND STAND UP FOR YOUR OWN THOUGHTS. 'CORRECTNESS
' CAN CHANGE OVER TIME, BUT IT IS ALWAYS A GOOD THING TO BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR
OWN IDEAS. THIS IS WHAT SET US FREE. |
b***u 发帖数: 12010 | 16 有人喜欢做鲁迅,觉得好玩儿
【在 s*******7 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嗯,多说正面的言语
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t*******y 发帖数: 11968 | 17
CORRECTNESS
YOUR
干嘛都大写?
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : AMERICA IS A FREE NATION, WHAT MAKES THIS COUNTRY GREAT IS THAT PEOPLE ARE : FREE TO EXPRESS THEIR TRUE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. SO FORGET ABOUT THE : POLITICAL CORRECTNESS CRAP, AND STAND UP FOR YOUR OWN THOUGHTS. 'CORRECTNESS : ' CAN CHANGE OVER TIME, BUT IT IS ALWAYS A GOOD THING TO BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR : OWN IDEAS. THIS IS WHAT SET US FREE.
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 18 TO EMPHAYSIZE ON HER OPNION!
【在 t*******y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : CORRECTNESS : YOUR : 干嘛都大写?
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t*******y 发帖数: 11968 | 19
她是丫头? 大写跟吵架似的
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : TO EMPHAYSIZE ON HER OPNION!
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 20 HUH?
我不喜欢吵架:(
【在 t*******y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : 她是丫头? 大写跟吵架似的
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 21 You're always free to express yourself, but you're forgetting Newton's law
of physics - every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Sure, you can always spite out whatever you truly feel like, but are you
willing to take the consequences? Do you want to tell ugly people that they
're ugly and have them hate you? When you live in a society, you must bind
to norms.
CORRECTNESS
YOUR
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : AMERICA IS A FREE NATION, WHAT MAKES THIS COUNTRY GREAT IS THAT PEOPLE ARE : FREE TO EXPRESS THEIR TRUE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. SO FORGET ABOUT THE : POLITICAL CORRECTNESS CRAP, AND STAND UP FOR YOUR OWN THOUGHTS. 'CORRECTNESS : ' CAN CHANGE OVER TIME, BUT IT IS ALWAYS A GOOD THING TO BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR : OWN IDEAS. THIS IS WHAT SET US FREE.
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 22
BECAUSE I WRITE ALL MY WORDS IN CAPS FOR A LIVING
【在 t*******y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : 她是丫头? 大写跟吵架似的
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 23 可是非常不幸~~~那些人多半没有鲁迅的才华~~~
【在 b***u 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 有人喜欢做鲁迅,觉得好玩儿
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 24 THEN YOU MUST MAKE BIG BUCKS!
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : BECAUSE I WRITE ALL MY WORDS IN CAPS FOR A LIVING
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b**********0 发帖数: 1447 | 25 ur comments are contradictory. if u concede that everyone is different,
then there's no really common courtesy. the coutesy that u think are common
may not be common in other people's eyes
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 最后,讲最重要的一点:请少说负面的言语,然后少说几句私人感受。 : 每人兴趣爱好都不同,有人爱甜,有人喜辣,请尽量不要说批评的言语,因为许多许多 : 人都很敏感。 : 请不要说什么"哎呀,美国的蛋糕甜得腻死了,难吃,根本咽不下去。"因为你不知道 : 对方是不是会在家里照着方子做甜得腻死了的蛋糕。。。少发表一句负面言语对你来说 : 根本不痛不痒,但是对初次见面的敏感人士很有可能造成负面印象。
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 26
HOWEVER, THE WORLD DOES NOT RUN THAT WAY.
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : THEN YOU MUST MAKE BIG BUCKS!
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 27 还好你们还写的是英文不是大写拼音
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : THEN YOU MUST MAKE BIG BUCKS!
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t*******y 发帖数: 11968 | 28
我不知道这是干什么的
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : HOWEVER, THE WORLD DOES NOT RUN THAT WAY.
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 29 SCREW THE COMMEN NORMS, LET'S CREATE OUR OWN RULES AND MAKE OUR OWN HISTORY!
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : HOWEVER, THE WORLD DOES NOT RUN THAT WAY.
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 30 我说的是"每人兴趣爱好都不同"
"每人兴趣爱好都不同"不等于人没有共同点
common
【在 b**********0 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : ur comments are contradictory. if u concede that everyone is different, : then there's no really common courtesy. the coutesy that u think are common : may not be common in other people's eyes
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 31
HISTORY!
COMMON NORMS ARE BORN TO BE CHALLENGED AND OVERCOME, THIS IS WHAT MAKES US
MORE SUPERIOR THAN OTHER CREATURES.
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : SCREW THE COMMEN NORMS, LET'S CREATE OUR OWN RULES AND MAKE OUR OWN HISTORY!
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b********r 发帖数: 7725 | 32 那皇帝的新装里的那个小孩德积大了
其实豆腐西施倒是不少
【在 s*******7 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嗯,多说正面的言语
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y*e 发帖数: 9799 | 33 你们创造历史吧~ 姐姐我剪头发去了~~
HISTORY!
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : SCREW THE COMMEN NORMS, LET'S CREATE OUR OWN RULES AND MAKE OUR OWN HISTORY!
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 34 THEN I WANT TO CHALLENGE THE UNCHANLLEGABLE, AND BREAK THE UNBREAKABLE,
LEAVE MY NAME IN THE HISTORY AND MAKE OTHERS ENVY ME!
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : HISTORY! : COMMON NORMS ARE BORN TO BE CHALLENGED AND OVERCOME, THIS IS WHAT MAKES US : MORE SUPERIOR THAN OTHER CREATURES.
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 35 sorry xiao jiejie, shui le your post again. |
m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 36
AGLEE
HERE IS ANOTHER STORY. DERMAN, THE WRITER OF 'MY LIFE AS A QUANT', VISTED
SLAC YEARS AGO TO BSO IN FRONT OF ALL OTHER PHYSICISTS HOW RICH HE IS. AFTER
HE TALKED ABOUT ALL KINDS OF MATH MODELS, A CHINESE SCIENTIST CHALLENGED
HIM: WHY YOU MAKE SO MUCH MONEY WITHOUT ANY CONTRIBUTE TO THE REAL ECONOMY?
DERMAN DID NOT EVEN ANSWERED THE QUESTION AND SHOWED SO MUCH ARROGANCE. NOW,
AFTER THE FINANCIAL MELTDOWN, WHO IS THE HERO?
【在 b********r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 那皇帝的新装里的那个小孩德积大了 : 其实豆腐西施倒是不少
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b***u 发帖数: 12010 | 37 WEIIIIIIIIIIIII~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : THEN I WANT TO CHALLENGE THE UNCHANLLEGABLE, AND BREAK THE UNBREAKABLE, : LEAVE MY NAME IN THE HISTORY AND MAKE OTHERS ENVY ME!
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 38 i just realized that after staring the CAP LETTERS for a short period, i
feel like throwing up...:(
AFTER
?
NOW,
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : AGLEE : HERE IS ANOTHER STORY. DERMAN, THE WRITER OF 'MY LIFE AS A QUANT', VISTED : SLAC YEARS AGO TO BSO IN FRONT OF ALL OTHER PHYSICISTS HOW RICH HE IS. AFTER : HE TALKED ABOUT ALL KINDS OF MATH MODELS, A CHINESE SCIENTIST CHALLENGED : HIM: WHY YOU MAKE SO MUCH MONEY WITHOUT ANY CONTRIBUTE TO THE REAL ECONOMY? : DERMAN DID NOT EVEN ANSWERED THE QUESTION AND SHOWED SO MUCH ARROGANCE. NOW, : AFTER THE FINANCIAL MELTDOWN, WHO IS THE HERO?
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b***u 发帖数: 12010 | 39 WHAT?!!!! YOU EAT TONS OF FOOD AND WANTS TO THROW UP?????
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : i just realized that after staring the CAP LETTERS for a short period, i : feel like throwing up...:( : : AFTER : ? : NOW,
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 40 en, i just had lunch, now i feel like throwing up :(
the opposite of weiiii wuuuu
【在 b***u 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : WHAT?!!!! YOU EAT TONS OF FOOD AND WANTS TO THROW UP?????
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b********r 发帖数: 7725 | 42 hero? remarkable?
try not to be a joke first.
although most of time they are just slightly different.
AFTER
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NOW,
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : AGLEE : HERE IS ANOTHER STORY. DERMAN, THE WRITER OF 'MY LIFE AS A QUANT', VISTED : SLAC YEARS AGO TO BSO IN FRONT OF ALL OTHER PHYSICISTS HOW RICH HE IS. AFTER : HE TALKED ABOUT ALL KINDS OF MATH MODELS, A CHINESE SCIENTIST CHALLENGED : HIM: WHY YOU MAKE SO MUCH MONEY WITHOUT ANY CONTRIBUTE TO THE REAL ECONOMY? : DERMAN DID NOT EVEN ANSWERED THE QUESTION AND SHOWED SO MUCH ARROGANCE. NOW, : AFTER THE FINANCIAL MELTDOWN, WHO IS THE HERO?
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 43
THAT IS NOT A JOKE.
IF U WATCH THE VIDEO ON SLAC'S WEBSITE AND SEE HOW ARROGANT DERMAN WAS IN
THE FIRST PLACE, THEN YOU THINK ABOUT THE FACT THAT DERMAN WAS FORCED TO
RETIRE, U WILL FELL SO GREAT ABOUT THAT CHINESE SCIENTIST.
【在 b********r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : hero? remarkable? : try not to be a joke first. : although most of time they are just slightly different. : : AFTER : ? : NOW,
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b********r 发帖数: 7725 | 44 hehe
later you will have some sample.
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : THAT IS NOT A JOKE. : IF U WATCH THE VIDEO ON SLAC'S WEBSITE AND SEE HOW ARROGANT DERMAN WAS IN : THE FIRST PLACE, THEN YOU THINK ABOUT THE FACT THAT DERMAN WAS FORCED TO : RETIRE, U WILL FELL SO GREAT ABOUT THAT CHINESE SCIENTIST.
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j******3 发帖数: 18319 | 45 没办法,赚钱多就是牛啊.
仔细想想,他们赚钱其实是因为找到了市场的漏洞,有机制上的,也有人性本身造成的.
反过来说,现在那么多rocket scientist也不研究怎么造火箭了,都去华尔街挖矿.
我也相信这个趋势会改变,真正的科学会得到人们的尊重.但就近期看,金融行业的吸引
力还是相当大.
AFTER
?
NOW,
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : THAT IS NOT A JOKE. : IF U WATCH THE VIDEO ON SLAC'S WEBSITE AND SEE HOW ARROGANT DERMAN WAS IN : THE FIRST PLACE, THEN YOU THINK ABOUT THE FACT THAT DERMAN WAS FORCED TO : RETIRE, U WILL FELL SO GREAT ABOUT THAT CHINESE SCIENTIST.
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 46
时势造英雄,认清这个,就该闷声发大财,而不是跳出来说自己最NB。出来混,迟早要
还的,自己跳出来说NB,现在形势变了,岂不是变成了SB。当然,如果他再跳出来,公
开收回以前说过的那些话,我还当他是好汉。
【在 j******3 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 没办法,赚钱多就是牛啊. : 仔细想想,他们赚钱其实是因为找到了市场的漏洞,有机制上的,也有人性本身造成的. : 反过来说,现在那么多rocket scientist也不研究怎么造火箭了,都去华尔街挖矿. : 我也相信这个趋势会改变,真正的科学会得到人们的尊重.但就近期看,金融行业的吸引 : 力还是相当大. : : AFTER : ? : NOW,
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m*****5 发帖数: 23482 | 48
我也觉得太甜
还好这是住在纽约,不用非要买美国店的蛋糕
【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我真的觉得美国的蛋糕甜的腻死了,难以下咽。
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f*******m 发帖数: 5008 | 49 我检讨,我容易说些个人感受
但我可从来不说什么什么东西不好啊负面的东西的
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r*******n 发帖数: 1739 | 50 这个也太敏感了点吧
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 最后,讲最重要的一点:请少说负面的言语,然后少说几句私人感受。 : 每人兴趣爱好都不同,有人爱甜,有人喜辣,请尽量不要说批评的言语,因为许多许多 : 人都很敏感。 : 请不要说什么"哎呀,美国的蛋糕甜得腻死了,难吃,根本咽不下去。"因为你不知道 : 对方是不是会在家里照着方子做甜得腻死了的蛋糕。。。少发表一句负面言语对你来说 : 根本不痛不痒,但是对初次见面的敏感人士很有可能造成负面印象。
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r***r 发帖数: 143 | 51 发表自己的喜好,不觉得有什么offensive.lz说得貌似自相矛盾。只要没有正面直接攻
击他人,不能算是什么非正常社交礼节。喜欢对号入座的,自己先套上真空罩再出门。 |
l*******c 发帖数: 316 | 52 赞这句。老好人其实最烂了。
【在 y*e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 以德抱怨,何以报德?
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