j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 1 Post By：6/5/2012 4:23:00 AM
北京放到后面说，大家说的一线城市比较多，我说说小城镇。
1. 婚姻非常不稳定，我有4个表哥表姐，有2个已经离婚，另外两个婚姻也有问题。
小城镇离婚现象太普遍了，婚外情大家也都很看得开，不管有钱没钱外面都有人，就连
开三轮的也不例外。
家庭观念都很淡漠。尤其是男的，不管家也不管孩子，整天外面吃吃喝喝。40出头的也
不怎么care孩子的教育，对将来也没啥想法和规划，存钱和养老就更不想了。归根结底
就是受教育程度不够，没有信仰和追求。我北京的同学就一个离婚的都没有。
2. 啃老是很普遍的现象，老人也乐意让他们啃啃。结婚都是男方家里出房子，女方家
里出车。好在小地方房子不贵，但是儿子娶媳妇，老人勒紧裤腰带也要拿15-20万，生
了孩子也是老人给带。我很担心这代80、90后的独生子女们，到了他们的父母需要人照
顾的时候，他们会不会有能力舍不舍得给父母花钱呢？
3. 公务员还是最popular的，税务、司法、公安、电力、银行、电信这些地方都非常抢
手，没有10万块都进不去。进去了也照样要花钱买官，价目都是公开的。
4. 城市建设很好，我们那个小的县级市都盖二三十层的高楼，也有在建的五星级宾馆
。高层带电梯的商品房都要4000多一平米。
我怀疑建了那么多的高楼能卖出去吗，家里人跟我说，现在周边的农村地都被征用得差
不多了，年轻人结婚没人愿意在农村住，都跑到城里买房子，建得多也都照样能卖。
5. 环境污染很可怕。有人说回到北京不适应，我回到北京闻到熟悉的尾气都倍感亲切
。我有亲戚所在的小镇子那才叫污染，那个地方是个矿区，天永远是灰蒙蒙的，漫天的
粉尘。每次回去都给我呛得不行，我亲戚一家都习惯了，没觉得很糟糕。那个地方的自
来水水垢特别大，水管口都结了厚厚一层，烧完的水能沉降好多杂质。我还记得小时候
那里有个水库，一到夏天男孩子们就去水库里摸鱼，我这次回去的时候水库已经都干了。
6. 表弟表妹们都很敢花钱，通信工具统统iphone，他们不会弄wifi，iphone也就是个
打电话的工具。大家也都纷纷买了车，一个表弟搞房地产建设算是混得最好的，家里宝
马奥迪都有。自己没钱的都靠双方父母资助，开6、7万的车，日子过得都很滋润。想想
我在北京的时候，都没舍得买车 |
n***g
发帖数: 5027 | |
y******y
发帖数: 676 | 3 同感。所以我回去一点儿也不避讳自己是生活最艰辛的那个，大家都对我同情，反倒是
没人计较我没给亲戚们准备礼物了。 |
j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 4 it's sad that nobody in china calculates the divorce rate in china.. i bet
it maybe close to 50%, especially among 80 hou4, 90 hou4. because ppl now
are richer and more "sexually liberated" and live longer, but strangely,
they are still forced to get married early in their lives. so it would be
very hard to be together for 10, 20, 30 years |
m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 5
未必哎，离婚女还是难嫁的，为这个也死赖着不离婚吧
大不了鸡鸭成群呗
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: it's sad that nobody in china calculates the divorce rate in china.. i bet
: it maybe close to 50%, especially among 80 hou4, 90 hou4. because ppl now
: are richer and more "sexually liberated" and live longer, but strangely,
: they are still forced to get married early in their lives. so it would be
: very hard to be together for 10, 20, 30 years
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S*****B
发帖数: 404 | 6 你真忧国忧民
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: it's sad that nobody in china calculates the divorce rate in china.. i bet
: it maybe close to 50%, especially among 80 hou4, 90 hou4. because ppl now
: are richer and more "sexually liberated" and live longer, but strangely,
: they are still forced to get married early in their lives. so it would be
: very hard to be together for 10, 20, 30 years
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 7 well, that depends on the chinese family court system ba... in america, most
kids go with the mother in a divorce. i am not sure what's it like in
china. if a woman is divorce but the kids go with the dad, what's her
disadvantage?
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】
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: 未必哎，离婚女还是难嫁的，为这个也死赖着不离婚吧
: 大不了鸡鸭成群呗
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n***g
发帖数: 5027 | 8 国内好多名存实亡的婚姻
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: it's sad that nobody in china calculates the divorce rate in china.. i bet
: it maybe close to 50%, especially among 80 hou4, 90 hou4. because ppl now
: are richer and more "sexually liberated" and live longer, but strangely,
: they are still forced to get married early in their lives. so it would be
: very hard to be together for 10, 20, 30 years
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m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 9
most
if guys can get younger women, why they want to marry old women?
most chinese women stop cultivating their wisdom after 25, after that, they
do not age, they rot. why men want to marry a rotten fruit as stupid as
young chick?
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: well, that depends on the chinese family court system ba... in america, most
: kids go with the mother in a divorce. i am not sure what's it like in
: china. if a woman is divorce but the kids go with the dad, what's her
: disadvantage?
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 10 because divorced guys are older, and they need someone to take care of them,
wipe their ass when they get sick...
how many stupid 20 year old chicks are willing to marry some old guy and
wipe his ass?
not every one is a murdoch...
they
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】
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: most
: if guys can get younger women, why they want to marry old women?
: most chinese women stop cultivating their wisdom after 25, after that, they
: do not age, they rot. why men want to marry a rotten fruit as stupid as
: young chick?
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m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 11
them,
20th chick will marry old guy with money, and hire nurse to wipe his ass
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: because divorced guys are older, and they need someone to take care of them,
: wipe their ass when they get sick...
: how many stupid 20 year old chicks are willing to marry some old guy and
: wipe his ass?
: not every one is a murdoch...
:
: they
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 12 but most ppl are middle class, not rich
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】
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: them,
: 20th chick will marry old guy with money, and hire nurse to wipe his ass
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m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 13
then they end up cursing each other, troll on tianya, but stick with each
other
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: but most ppl are middle class, not rich
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y******y
发帖数: 676 | 14 我觉得国内离婚率和在不在大城市没有关系。和你的社交圈子，家庭背景有关系。 我
10年前在北京工作的时候，有个同事当时40多岁，她有三个siblings, 全都离婚了。
她倒是没有离。我们单位也很少有离的。我的三个表姐表妹，国内省会城市，全离了。
另外一边的8个表亲，有农村的， 有县城的， 有省会城市的，没有一个离的。
不过年轻一代离婚更随便倒是真的，我妈一同事的孩子我看着长大的，人大毕业的，在
北京从事金融工作， 刚30出头，已经结第三次婚了。 |
a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 15 I am sure there are statistics, you just need to do some research.
【在 j**4 的大作中提到】
: it's sad that nobody in china calculates the divorce rate in china.. i bet
: it maybe close to 50%, especially among 80 hou4, 90 hou4. because ppl now
: are richer and more "sexually liberated" and live longer, but strangely,
: they are still forced to get married early in their lives. so it would be
: very hard to be together for 10, 20, 30 years
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m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 16
我见过最极品的是两地分居2年，妞回国结婚，结果当晚男就去嫖了，然后第二天就离
婚了
【在 y******y 的大作中提到】
: 我觉得国内离婚率和在不在大城市没有关系。和你的社交圈子，家庭背景有关系。 我
: 10年前在北京工作的时候，有个同事当时40多岁，她有三个siblings, 全都离婚了。
: 她倒是没有离。我们单位也很少有离的。我的三个表姐表妹，国内省会城市，全离了。
: 另外一边的8个表亲，有农村的， 有县城的， 有省会城市的，没有一个离的。
: 不过年轻一代离婚更随便倒是真的，我妈一同事的孩子我看着长大的，人大毕业的，在
: 北京从事金融工作， 刚30出头，已经结第三次婚了。
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y******y
发帖数: 676 | 17 太过分了。
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】
:
: 我见过最极品的是两地分居2年，妞回国结婚，结果当晚男就去嫖了，然后第二天就离
: 婚了
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