a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: yuanliny ( 雪花), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 小三问题现在真成了国内的大问题了，再不采取措施恐怕要出社会问题
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jun 27 18:00:25 2012, 美东)
近的人，自己身边的亲戚好几个都小三，小四养着，有的没有固定的包养对象，但常年
嫖。
这说的是中年的，年轻一代的，同学中背着女友或老婆嫖娼的，劈腿的也不要太多。
再看发生的女老师撞死无辜小女孩的例子，又是与小三有关系。
这社会是怎么了，真的道德沦丧到这种程度了？
玩弄几个女性或者为了钱和所谓的爱情就真的成了可以炫耀的资本了？
如果确实交了不合适的对象或者结婚后发现不合适，大可以分手或离婚，再重新寻找合
适的对象。没有必要在婚内出轨或者交往过程中出轨。
如果纯粹就是花心想玩，自己一个人单着，别祸害好人。
真为国内现在的这种社会风气担忧。
大家说都有什么办法没有。 |
m*******y
发帖数: 14292 | 2 having affairs is a habit. unbreakable habit. leave it or try to live with
it. |
a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 3 The question is why? It looks like this wasn't a big problem when Mao was in
power..
【在 m*******y 的大作中提到】
: having affairs is a habit. unbreakable habit. leave it or try to live with
: it.
|
n****a
发帖数: 2525 | 4 因为那时人都没钱啊，连衣服都很少有彩色的
温饱思淫欲啊
in
【在 a*o 的大作中提到】
: The question is why? It looks like this wasn't a big problem when Mao was in
: power..
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m*******y
发帖数: 14292 | 5 what that has to do with mao? at mao's time, people are legal to have more
than one wife.
in
【在 a*o 的大作中提到】
: The question is why? It looks like this wasn't a big problem when Mao was in
: power..
|
i*****g
发帖数: 2564 | 6 Bad example. You forgot how many 小三，小四 Mao had.
in
【在 a*o 的大作中提到】
: The question is why? It looks like this wasn't a big problem when Mao was in
: power..
|
a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 7 When one husband one wife became legal?
【在 m*******y 的大作中提到】
: what that has to do with mao? at mao's time, people are legal to have more
: than one wife.
:
: in
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 8 是温饱了，没其它事情可以思，就淫欲了吧。。
【在 n****a 的大作中提到】
: 因为那时人都没钱啊，连衣服都很少有彩色的
: 温饱思淫欲啊
:
: in
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 9 he was the King and had a lot, but it wasn't a big problem in the society as
now..
【在 i*****g 的大作中提到】
: Bad example. You forgot how many 小三，小四 Mao had.
:
: in
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i*****g
发帖数: 2564 | 10 China currently does not have a strong leader like him; so current
leadership can't control the lower level like Mao can.
His motto is do what I said not what I do. That doesn't work with folks
these days.
Even the sport Yoga is taken a hit in the past few weeks because of their
leaders' sex scandals.
as
【在 a*o 的大作中提到】
: he was the King and had a lot, but it wasn't a big problem in the society as
: now..
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 11 Mao was smart in controlling the party and people. In order to control
people's actions, he had to control their minds first. There were no gods
but him. No colleges, no history to learn. Didn't he burn all the books? and
send all 知青 to farm and grow crops...He knew if civilians know more, they
will only against him more. It's just the way to treat animals in a farm,
if they don't follow your rules, you beat them.
Well, as time goes by, leaderships have been changed. No one is believing
what Mao forced everyone to believe. How many of these higher officials are
still believing communism while they send their kids overseas to study.
For common people, as they are getting richer and richer, and their goals
have been accomplished, which is to earn a lot of money. They need to kill
their time. However, they don't have anything to believe or persistent
interests like those in the west. They need to find things to do for fun, to
compete and to give impression to people around them. Suddenly, finding
college girls as small three is popular, just like young girls having LV
bags in their arms on the streets...The general moral status in the society
has been completely upside down. TV shows are reflections of real lives,
while real stories are influenced by TV shows in China. An official is proud
to have a young, knowledgeable and beautiful girl as small three, and the
girl is proud as small three to attach to such a powerful person. If these
people are all singles, that's find. Enjoy their lives But married? the
value and the notion as a family has been destroyed? Read the news, these
kinds of stories pop up everywhere, and most of them with sad endings. But
people are still pursuing that kind of moment of happiness. Why?
Americans are very open, but if they know you have a family, most of college
girls are not interested in you.
【在 i*****g 的大作中提到】
: China currently does not have a strong leader like him; so current
: leadership can't control the lower level like Mao can.
: His motto is do what I said not what I do. That doesn't work with folks
: these days.
: Even the sport Yoga is taken a hit in the past few weeks because of their
: leaders' sex scandals.
:
: as
|
i*****g
发帖数: 2564 | 12 Moral value can come in many forms.
Doesn't need to have a strong ideology or religion to control the minds.
Even in America, we push for family value and not religion itself.
Sometime, it is just simple as Treat others like how you want to be treated,
and behave like how you want to teach your children to behave.
and
they
are
【在 a*o 的大作中提到】
: Mao was smart in controlling the party and people. In order to control
: people's actions, he had to control their minds first. There were no gods
: but him. No colleges, no history to learn. Didn't he burn all the books? and
: send all 知青 to farm and grow crops...He knew if civilians know more, they
: will only against him more. It's just the way to treat animals in a farm,
: if they don't follow your rules, you beat them.
: Well, as time goes by, leaderships have been changed. No one is believing
: what Mao forced everyone to believe. How many of these higher officials are
: still believing communism while they send their kids overseas to study.
: For common people, as they are getting richer and richer, and their goals
|
a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 13 Ideologies and religions control the minds are much better than political
believes. The churches used to be more powerful and richer than governments
in the west. A lot of taxi drivers in China hang a small portrait of Mao
inside taxis, 避邪。 He's been worshiped as god, but not clearly defined as
the same in religion.
The best selling books in the world of all time is Mao's "little red book(毛
主席语录)", Bible comes the second.
treated,
【在 i*****g 的大作中提到】
: Moral value can come in many forms.
: Doesn't need to have a strong ideology or religion to control the minds.
: Even in America, we push for family value and not religion itself.
: Sometime, it is just simple as Treat others like how you want to be treated,
: and behave like how you want to teach your children to behave.
:
: and
: they
: are
|
a******e
发帖数: 5411 | 14 what is your habit?
【在 m*******y 的大作中提到】
: having affairs is a habit. unbreakable habit. leave it or try to live with
: it.
|
a******e
发帖数: 5411 | 15 i think people are just so bored, they just want to have some fun while they
still can w/o eating viagra. |
m*****5
发帖数: 23482 | 16 国人就这么点出息，消费范围太有限了，要是以做奥数题为乐，就不会整天想着搞七粘
三了
按照群体心理学的说法，人扎堆以后要么特WS，要么特高尚，毛时代把人搞的太高尚，
现在WS那是叫做出来混迟早要还
等WS腻味了，又会想高尚了，等高尚腻味再WS，最后发现，还是傲娇着最舒服 |
a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 17 也有很多的娱乐，譬如吃喝玩乐，嫖赌饮吹。
【在 m*****5 的大作中提到】
: 国人就这么点出息，消费范围太有限了，要是以做奥数题为乐，就不会整天想着搞七粘
: 三了
: 按照群体心理学的说法，人扎堆以后要么特WS，要么特高尚，毛时代把人搞的太高尚，
: 现在WS那是叫做出来混迟早要还
: 等WS腻味了，又会想高尚了，等高尚腻味再WS，最后发现，还是傲娇着最舒服
|
x**8
发帖数: 1165 | 18 小三问题是一夫一妻制和人性冲突的产物。
这个唯一有效的解决办法就是纳妾合法化。
小三的问题是只有一个位置，所以要争抢。要是各得其所的话，不会有这样死去活来的
斗争了。
古代就没有这个小三问题。 |
