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发帖数: 133 | 1 我一人带娃，现在快一岁了。先生一到两个月飞来看我们几天。我白天上班，小孩去
daycare。我是医生，现在我没有夜班，没有周末oncall去医院，daycare只有周一到周
五。没有别人在周围可以帮忙。我平常工作很忙，nonstop appointments in clinic。
但是比起周末我一人带娃，工作其实更轻松。work is predictable and task
oriented, you are trained to do it, it is not 24/7. it is easier to be a
good engineer/doctor/chief, than be a good parent. being a parent is a
different game. children have different personalities/reaction/behavior.
being a full time parent is physically demanding - child needs constant
attention unless during sleep (if in crib), mentally demanding - needs love/
patience especially when you are tired and psychological isolation staying
home with children with decreased social contact, and sometimes not being
appreciated.
for me being a parent is more fulfilling than staying in career. after we
sort out the current obligation, i plan to be a stay home mom. it will be
the most difficult job for me. | i*****r
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