r*f
发帖数: 731 | 1 那说清了hanzo就受得了了吗？
不说的话对某些真不在意的人倒没什么，
可是遇到了在意的人，他心里总是
耿耿于怀的，那日子能特和谐吗？
你们这些小孩真有意思。
其实生活哪有那么多理论啊。
象电影Annie Hall 里面，woody Allen 不明白别人为什么看起来
那么幸福和谐，于是他在大街上抓住一对儿就问：
“看样子你们生活的很幸福，嗯，你们，你们怎么会这么幸福呢？”
那一对儿中的女的看了看他(觉得他怪神经的)，说：“我吧，我就是一个特肤浅的人，
我讲不出什么道道儿来。”
她的男朋友赶紧接碴说：“我也就是这么一个俗仁，俗人，呵呵”。
其实“俗人”的生活也没什么不好，呵呵 | n*h
发帖数: 30 | 2 hehe, mlc ah, I agree with hanzo...
yes, you are responsible only for yourself for the past, but that doesn't mean
you don't have obligation to tell the one you love. I don't like the word 交代,
because it is not like that. I would not care how many bf my love had before,
and who they are, and the detailed story between them. I would not care that my
love keeps something that belongs to some memory of her and someone else. But
I do think if there is something like she got married before, I have th | n*h
发帖数: 30 | 3
he would 受得了sooner or later. think about it, if he heard about it later
from other ppl, what would he think? don't forget, marriage is not something
counted by days, it is counted by years. if there is not 信任和体贴, the
marriage would not last long. 与其最后一蹋糊涂, 不如一开始就说清楚. at least
give the other a chance to think about it and make other choice while still
young. Life is something to enjoy, not something to waste.
hehe, I am also 俗人, but a little bit 小资... hehe
【在 r*f 的大作中提到】
: 那说清了hanzo就受得了了吗？
: 不说的话对某些真不在意的人倒没什么，
: 可是遇到了在意的人，他心里总是
: 耿耿于怀的，那日子能特和谐吗？
: 你们这些小孩真有意思。
: 其实生活哪有那么多理论啊。
: 象电影Annie Hall 里面，woody Allen 不明白别人为什么看起来
: 那么幸福和谐，于是他在大街上抓住一对儿就问：
: “看样子你们生活的很幸福，嗯，你们，你们怎么会这么幸福呢？”
: 那一对儿中的女的看了看他(觉得他怪神经的)，说：“我吧，我就是一个特肤浅的人，
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