在(四)里面贴了ADVISE的第一部分，下面还有
2. Helping the firstborn adjust to the new sibling
--> When talk to the baby, try to talk about how wonderful the older
sibling is. This makes the older sibling feel recognized and important to
the infant's life.
--> Parents can interpret the baby's behavior in a positive light to the
older sibling ;"See how the baby smiles when you talk to her. She likes
listening to you."
--> Participate in baby's care -- Provide opportunities for the older
child to play with d
