i**e 发帖数: 19242 | 2 来看看作者对resilience的定义:
Resilience embraces the ability of a child to deal more effectively with
stress and pressure, to cope with everyday challenges, to bounce back from
disappointments, adversity, and trauma, to develop clear and realistic goals
, to solve problems, to reelate comfortably with others, and to treat
oneself and others with respect.
瓦,好本事都被resilient child 占全了。有了这些本事,想进10个球就进12个,进不
了12个人家也有本事cope :)
不过,从这个定义看,金子们天才们其实是不需要发展这些能力的;奥,对了,忘了父
母了!金子的父母们,为了孩子们的成长,一定要多给天才孩子stress,pressure, |