L****n
发帖数: 64 | 1 今天老公告诉我，放学接孩子时候，老师说，有2个男孩和儿子不知说了什么，他就当
着大家面把裤子，包括内
裤都脱了。老师很紧张，朱要怕女孩子看见。老公事后问，他说不知道这样不对，要他
别和我说。孩子六岁，评
是告诉他，不能让人touch 私处，没想到提醒不能露。我们是否失职了？？ | K*******A
发帖数: 821 | 2 不用太紧张吧, 也别吓到孩子. 学校那边跟老师讲,会好好教育孩子, 也希望老师理解
孩子可能也只是觉得好玩, 无恶意的(相信老师也是这么想的).
回家慢慢跟孩子唐吧, 不要让孩子觉得自己真的做了什么天大的坏事.
多谢提醒,我回头也得跟娃唐去. 俺家娃有种倾向臭美他的小内裤,得扼杀在摇篮里. | g******n
发帖数: 53185 | 3 是儿子得打一顿，趁现在还小，打一打没人管，还能长心眼儿
【在 L****n 的大作中提到】
: 今天老公告诉我，放学接孩子时候，老师说，有2个男孩和儿子不知说了什么，他就当
: 着大家面把裤子，包括内
: 裤都脱了。老师很紧张，朱要怕女孩子看见。老公事后问，他说不知道这样不对，要他
: 别和我说。孩子六岁，评
: 是告诉他，不能让人touch 私处，没想到提醒不能露。我们是否失职了？？
| W*****e
发帖数: 384 | 4 Maybe the two boys dared him to do that. You know, it's a boy thing. When
someone dares him to do it, even if he didn't think it was right (he might
not even thought about it at all), he would have to do that. That is weak
in boys' eyes. He might be laughed at or something from then on.
I think you should find out what happened. If they in deed dared him (I
suspect that's the case), teach him that he needs to have confidence in his
judgment. He should not do something he thinks is wrong just because
someone dared him to do it. Then go into about the private part not to be
touched or seen by other people. But not too much of this last part, you
should focus on the first part. No matter what you do, he didn't do
anything wrong to do what other boys dared him to do, as he didn't know.
Repeated offense is not good, but first time is just ignorance.
Good luck.
【在 L****n 的大作中提到】
: 今天老公告诉我，放学接孩子时候，老师说，有2个男孩和儿子不知说了什么，他就当
: 着大家面把裤子，包括内
: 裤都脱了。老师很紧张，朱要怕女孩子看见。老公事后问，他说不知道这样不对，要他
: 别和我说。孩子六岁，评
: 是告诉他，不能让人touch 私处，没想到提醒不能露。我们是否失职了？？
| t*******e
发帖数: 247 | 5 你们有小孩的， 如果小孩太调皮了，都会打吗？
还是偷偷的打,不留下一片痕迹。。。
【在 g******n 的大作中提到】
: 是儿子得打一顿，趁现在还小，打一打没人管，还能长心眼儿
| L****n
发帖数: 64 | 6 Thanks wild one. Very helpful. 我们没打过他。 |
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