y*****p
发帖数: 733 | 1 想换daycare了，要提前2周的written notice。
如何做才能让娃这2周还能得到照顾。 |
P***s
发帖数: 11672 | 2 这个，多虑了吧
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: 想换daycare了，要提前2周的written notice。
: 如何做才能让娃这2周还能得到照顾。
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j*****u
发帖数: 546 | |
t**f
发帖数: 2360 | |
y****u
发帖数: 2053 | 5 想多了吧，除非是很差的daycare。我提前1个月就告诉director，其间好几个老师还跟
我确认好几次，客套表示舍不得我娃。最后一天还弄个欢送poster，送了几本书和一个
相框，里面还有全班合影。我娃一向拍照的时候臭脸，唯独那张是笑着的，还不知道老
师拍了多少次成功的呢。我挺感动的。老师也眼泪汪汪的。。。
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: 想换daycare了，要提前2周的written notice。
: 如何做才能让娃这2周还能得到照顾。
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y*****p
发帖数: 733 | 6 You were really lucky.
My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
stoping cring when driving home.
【在 y****u 的大作中提到】
: 想多了吧，除非是很差的daycare。我提前1个月就告诉director，其间好几个老师还跟
: 我确认好几次，客套表示舍不得我娃。最后一天还弄个欢送poster，送了几本书和一个
: 相框，里面还有全班合影。我娃一向拍照的时候臭脸，唯独那张是笑着的，还不知道老
: 师拍了多少次成功的呢。我挺感动的。老师也眼泪汪汪的。。。
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l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 7 cft,反正也就2周了，忍忍
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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t**f
发帖数: 2360 | 8 pat pat
看来你是因为老师不好要换幼儿园，如果老师真的不好就早点不要去了，免得孩子受苦
而且要和director说明白是因为老师太差，抱怨的家长多了，这样的老师也会被清理掉的
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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y****u
发帖数: 2053 | 9 这样是会让人心里不舒服，怎么说老师都应该过来接孩子，特别是孩子在哭的时候。
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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m****y
发帖数: 3437 | 10 写信，表扬幼儿园好，老师好，指出退出实非得已。以后有机会还来，还会推荐给别
人，等等。
当然如果你们觉得这幼儿园有什么重大不好的地方，就别纠结这两星期，直接交钱
但走人得了。
另，平时也可以给幼儿园写信表扬一下老师啥的，比如逢年过节时，不要光是有问
题才写信。人家老师累一天，知道你appreciate，会很高兴的。
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: 想换daycare了，要提前2周的written notice。
: 如何做才能让娃这2周还能得到照顾。
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h*****z
发帖数: 4732 | 11 小孩子哭，老师不哄，是正常的。那种孩子哭，老师特别耐心慢慢哄的，可遇不可求啊
你这个情况，换学校，也不会改变多少。
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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y*****p
发帖数: 733 | 12 这家是这里最好也最贵的了,很干净,小朋友们也很高兴,还是什么机构credit的.
可惜他们对新来的小孩不够尽心,我的娃也是太不省心.
【在 m****y 的大作中提到】
: 写信，表扬幼儿园好，老师好，指出退出实非得已。以后有机会还来，还会推荐给别
: 人，等等。
: 当然如果你们觉得这幼儿园有什么重大不好的地方，就别纠结这两星期，直接交钱
: 但走人得了。
: 另，平时也可以给幼儿园写信表扬一下老师啥的，比如逢年过节时，不要光是有问
: 题才写信。人家老师累一天，知道你appreciate，会很高兴的。
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t**f
发帖数: 2360 | 13 你娃多大了？我看到的是2岁以下刚来老哭的老师会抱，3岁以上的就不太搭理了 |
l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 14 不会把，一般新送的小孩都会哭一哭，我闺女换班都哭的厉害，老师就和我商量，再等
2个月，等她的小朋友都一起升班了，大家一起到新班去这样比较好。后来果然好很多。
【在 h*****z 的大作中提到】
: 小孩子哭，老师不哄，是正常的。那种孩子哭，老师特别耐心慢慢哄的，可遇不可求啊
: 你这个情况，换学校，也不会改变多少。
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y*****p
发帖数: 733 | 15 我也担心这个阿.
我以前发过帖子,我们这里是1:8,现在班里16人满.娃2岁,在那里2周,不太被照顾.
生病前一天在daycare 哭闹累了，是在outdoor swing 上睡着了。第2天就病了3周到现
在。
【在 h*****z 的大作中提到】
: 小孩子哭，老师不哄，是正常的。那种孩子哭，老师特别耐心慢慢哄的，可遇不可求啊
: 你这个情况，换学校，也不会改变多少。
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h*****z
发帖数: 4732 | 16 我家娃，刚去的时候，也是这种情况。后来，我们换了个班（因为夏天放假，那个班的
老师带大孩子的camp），一去新班，先拍老师马屁，说了一堆好话。娃早上哭，坚决不
逗留，老师爱怎么处理怎么处理。接着的节日，送礼自然是少不了的了。
我家娃，从５月哭到过完holloween，不过那以后就再也没哭过，老师也很喜欢她。
哭是一个过程，你可以和老师谈一下，不要轻易的换地方。
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: 我也担心这个阿.
: 我以前发过帖子,我们这里是1:8,现在班里16人满.娃2岁,在那里2周,不太被照顾.
: 生病前一天在daycare 哭闹累了，是在outdoor swing 上睡着了。第2天就病了3周到现
: 在。
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S****p
发帖数: 3928 | 17 说的你可能不爱听。
刚开始送daycare， 生病很正常。就是从一个daycare换到另一个，也会生病，一个班
升到另一个
班也会生病。因为接触到新的病毒，都过一遍就好了。这和daycare 老师照顾的仔细不
仔细没有太
大关系，有人就有病毒。
看你娃多大，如果你娃不到两岁，送的时候，老师一般会抱一下，让你可以脱身。
如果你孩子2-3岁了，这时候班上老师和孩子比例可能是1：6.尤其是早上老师少，而且
比较忙。如
果你还在，孩子哭，老师一般不会上来管。你可以把孩子领给老师，然后走。老师一般
不会抱，会让
孩子坐在她旁边，给他读书，或者安排别的活动。我觉得你直接带去给director很不好。
说实话，那种家长在就很热情的老师不见得真的是好老师。这么大的孩子，一个哭就抱
在怀里，老师
抱不动，抱不过来不说，也没法管别的孩子。
还有就是家长太情绪化了也影响孩子的情绪。每天高高兴兴的去，放下说i love u,
have fun,
bye bye 就走人，不要拖。
建议是不急着换daycare, 看daycare好不好，看里面的小朋友高兴不高兴。然后就是多
和老师交
流，帮助孩子适应。
stay
sat
I
asked
good
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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g*********9
发帖数: 3528 | 18 这样的父母，不和当班老师合作，抱着给钱买服务的态度，很难和任何daycare搞好关
系。
现在的daycare,付钱马上走人是上策。指望再好好照顾是指望不上了。
【在 S****p 的大作中提到】
: 说的你可能不爱听。
: 刚开始送daycare， 生病很正常。就是从一个daycare换到另一个，也会生病，一个班
: 升到另一个
: 班也会生病。因为接触到新的病毒，都过一遍就好了。这和daycare 老师照顾的仔细不
: 仔细没有太
: 大关系，有人就有病毒。
: 看你娃多大，如果你娃不到两岁，送的时候，老师一般会抱一下，让你可以脱身。
: 如果你孩子2-3岁了，这时候班上老师和孩子比例可能是1：6.尤其是早上老师少，而且
: 比较忙。如
: 果你还在，孩子哭，老师一般不会上来管。你可以把孩子领给老师，然后走。老师一般
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l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 19 没觉得lz不和老师合作啊，我娃送去dayare drop off有时候也要哭闹一下，老师都是
迅速抱过去然后让我快走。特别是2岁的班，苦闹了抱抱不是很正常，3岁班老师才一般
不大抱了。
【在 g*********9 的大作中提到】
: 这样的父母，不和当班老师合作，抱着给钱买服务的态度，很难和任何daycare搞好关
: 系。
: 现在的daycare,付钱马上走人是上策。指望再好好照顾是指望不上了。
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c*******e
发帖数: 1756 | 20 需要个过程
我儿子去daycare2周后，发烧9天，2周没有去，后来再去，哭的特别厉害，比头两周还
凶。去接几次，宝宝都躺在地上，要么哭，要么发呆，老师也没有管了。那个星期是最
黑暗的一个星期，我发了这个帖子：
http://www.mitbbs.com/article0/Parenting/31529543_0.html
大家都劝我换地方。我也开始觉得这个daycare不好，老师不好了，不过我坚持了
但是那一周过了以后，一切都好起来了，我又发了这个帖子
http://www.mitbbs.com/mitbbs_my_article.php?userid=cannahere&type=1
儿子适应了以后，我送了一些中国的小礼品，就是中国结之类的给老师，略表感谢和这
段时间她们的辛苦，她们很高兴，去了几次，对儿子也很好。
上周末儿子又高烧了，烧到41度，不过2天就好了。到目前为止，儿子已经去daycare一
个半月了，我觉得上daycare还是很好的，宝宝适应了以后也变得活泼了一些
【在 y*****p 的大作中提到】
: You were really lucky.
: My daughter has been there for just 2 weeks. Then she was sick and stay
: home for 3 weeks. Today I dropped her off to school. When I sent her
: there, two teachers were there. My daughter started crying. They just sat
: there without doing anything, even when I was still in the classroom. I
: held My daughter and left the classroom and find the director. She asked
: one teacher to hold her for a while. I don't know whether this is a good
: move, cause it may make them not happy. But I was so mad. I couldn't
: stoping cring when driving home.
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