m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 1 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的
话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。
"I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to
their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes,
sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means
he will understand these concepts a little bit slower.
I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but
they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20
month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her
fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
frustrated. I don't want my boy to think that books and journals are iPads
that no longer function."
BTW, 我和那个家长的娃都是21个月左右。 |
a*****e 发帖数: 4936 | 2 21m太小了。
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 3 多大合适呢?怎么保证娃不上瘾呢?
【在 a*****e 的大作中提到】 : 21m太小了。 : : to : shapes, : means : but : 20
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a*****e 发帖数: 4936 | 4 我也不知道多大合适啊。但觉得21m还是多动动多和爸爸妈妈交流比多用这种先进武器
好些吧。
【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 多大合适呢?怎么保证娃不上瘾呢?
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r***n 发帖数: 1089 | 5 i prefer conventional ways of teaching too. My son's emotions will get out
of control if he spends too much time on TV, ipads, or things like that.
Besides, the more he plays with electronic devices, the easier he gets bored.
Now he watches TV or plays with ipads only once or twice every week. And he
does not feel bored that often. Moreover, he picks up a pen to draw, uses a
scissor to cut snow flakes, concentrates on buiding something, or reads a
book.
So my too cents, keep them away from TV, ipads, iphone as much as possible
and take them outdoors to do sports. |
n****y 发帖数: 6260 | 6 你娃儿多大了?可以用剪刀?
bored.
he
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【在 r***n 的大作中提到】 : i prefer conventional ways of teaching too. My son's emotions will get out : of control if he spends too much time on TV, ipads, or things like that. : Besides, the more he plays with electronic devices, the easier he gets bored. : Now he watches TV or plays with ipads only once or twice every week. And he : does not feel bored that often. Moreover, he picks up a pen to draw, uses a : scissor to cut snow flakes, concentrates on buiding something, or reads a : book. : So my too cents, keep them away from TV, ipads, iphone as much as possible : and take them outdoors to do sports.
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 7 多谢多谢,这个跟我的想法一致。
用剪刀剪东西对fine motor skill要求很高啊,你儿子可真棒!
bored.
he
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【在 r***n 的大作中提到】 : i prefer conventional ways of teaching too. My son's emotions will get out : of control if he spends too much time on TV, ipads, or things like that. : Besides, the more he plays with electronic devices, the easier he gets bored. : Now he watches TV or plays with ipads only once or twice every week. And he : does not feel bored that often. Moreover, he picks up a pen to draw, uses a : scissor to cut snow flakes, concentrates on buiding something, or reads a : book. : So my too cents, keep them away from TV, ipads, iphone as much as possible : and take them outdoors to do sports.
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y***y 发帖数: 4957 | 8 孩子远离任何形式的SCREEN总是好的,但是我们做不到,所以就尽量控制把。 |
r***n 发帖数: 1089 | 9 5 le
【在 n****y 的大作中提到】 : 你娃儿多大了?可以用剪刀? : : bored. : he : a
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m**k 发帖数: 18660 | 10 看法不同,有人愿意接受新东西。有人喜欢传统。
传统比较保守,相对安全。
btw.我听说很多聪明娃都喜欢电脑,包括游戏。。
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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c****i 发帖数: 7933 | 11 新东西也没有不好,有人担心日后上学不能专心读黑白的文字书,我觉得不读就不读。
今后学校的教材也应该是彩色交互式,来帮助学生理解。也许未来世界就是动画和多媒
体的天下,学习就应该轻松。如果某一个学科不能轻松学习,我们就给中国人、印度人
发签证就好了,自然会有上赶着来做牛做马的。再过30年Microsoft Office只剩一个
PowerPoint就够了。你看很多人都不一定会Word和Excel,只靠PowerPoint打天下。 |
c********3 发帖数: 441 | 12 娃娃就该出去和别的小朋友在大自然环境玩耍。。。。动手就是训练脑。。。 |
p******8 发帖数: 2565 | 13 其实最主要的是眼睛容易看坏了,每天玩几个小时iPAD的话,眼睛很快就完蛋.其次是姿
势,iPAD是完全不符合人体工学的设计,小孩拿不动,放着看容易驮背和颈椎出问题.
教育的方式倒是其次。 |
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c****y 发帖数: 416 | 15 小孩ipad用多了会比较笨,电脑和电子游戏机也是一样有害 |
M*********e 发帖数: 1988 | 16 我们的态度是:不让ipad变成我们“偷懒”的工具,但是也不是特意的不让孩子接触。
时代变化了,新的工具新的方式就自然的让孩子去接触。
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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l******s 发帖数: 3045 | 17 ipad进行早教很必要,但不是全部,绝对不让其接触是绝对错误的。 |
l******s 发帖数: 3045 | 18 只是因为feeling frustrated when moving pictures on magazine就拒绝ipad,这个
理由是荒唐的,因为孩子的教育曲线就是由frustrated到happy螺旋反复的过程。 |
w********t 发帖数: 18315 | 19 我的想法是,不主动引进这类电子产品给他,等他要求了,我也会想办法让他自己争取
才得到,不会一要就给,至于教育我选择电视荧屏 ,比较大对眼睛比较好,偶尔也会
用电脑,好处是容易控制,ipad太方便了,不容易控制开关
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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t*******r 发帖数: 3271 | 20 这个言论也太2了.....那话怎么说的来着....明明自己生活在最底层, 却有统治阶级的
思想
【在 c****i 的大作中提到】 : 新东西也没有不好,有人担心日后上学不能专心读黑白的文字书,我觉得不读就不读。 : 今后学校的教材也应该是彩色交互式,来帮助学生理解。也许未来世界就是动画和多媒 : 体的天下,学习就应该轻松。如果某一个学科不能轻松学习,我们就给中国人、印度人 : 发签证就好了,自然会有上赶着来做牛做马的。再过30年Microsoft Office只剩一个 : PowerPoint就够了。你看很多人都不一定会Word和Excel,只靠PowerPoint打天下。
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H*H 发帖数: 1465 | 21 I saw some kids playing iPad (around 5 years old). They cannot focus on one
thing but switch among apps all the time. To me, this is not acceptable. I
know kids cannot focus as good as adults, but I don't want to encourage this
behavior...I may wait till his school introduces such electronic devices. |
V***a 发帖数: 11942 | 22 你媳妇儿已经上瘾了,天天喊着ipad ipad,只好哄她说ipad坏了,爸爸修。现在每天
控制在15分钟左右。
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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PT 发帖数: 148 | 23
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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PT 发帖数: 148 | 24 你们都没说到点子上。近距离长时间看电子屏幕伤眼睛啊。
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【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : 今天早上送娃去daycare,碰到另一个家长,我们不知为啥聊到了ipad. 以下是我说的 : 话(大意的概括)。我想听听这里的家长对这个问题的看法。 : "I am not sure when parents should introduce educational apps on an iPad to : their kids. Right now, I would rather teach my boy all about colors, shapes, : sizes and numbers,etc, with conventional toys and books, even if that means : he will understand these concepts a little bit slower. : I know kids younger than my son who are much more advanced in knowledge, but : they spend hours on an iPad each day. There is a youtube video showing a 20 : month old girl trying to move pictures on a magazine around with her : fingers, and when she found out that could not be done, she became very
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w****r 发帖数: 243 | 26 恩,我们的concern也是这个
现在是偶尔玩儿一玩儿
【在 t***z 的大作中提到】 : 我觉得主要是对孩子眼睛不好。。。
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L******n 发帖数: 859 | 27 我家妞也爱ipad和整天看动画片,我觉得挺好的,唯一担心的是她的眼睛。。。一般玩
ipad,我用timer设定30分钟,铃声一响就不能玩了,她很配合。。
而且ipad是我家grocery shopping利器,没ipad的话买个菜得累死 |
s*****7 发帖数: 1142 | 28 我打算能拖多久就拖多久---电脑电视IPAD等,传统的玩具更健康些--个人以为。 |
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a******t 发帖数: 979 | 30 nod nod!!!!!
【在 p******8 的大作中提到】 : 其实最主要的是眼睛容易看坏了,每天玩几个小时iPAD的话,眼睛很快就完蛋.其次是姿 : 势,iPAD是完全不符合人体工学的设计,小孩拿不动,放着看容易驮背和颈椎出问题. : 教育的方式倒是其次。
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q******s 发帖数: 289 | 31 前不久刚看过一篇文章,说硅谷的这些精英们的小孩,很多小时候都送到一个专门的私
立学校,在这个学校,娃都不让用电脑,IPAD这些东东,就用很传统的教学工具。
好像还说很多这些硅谷大牛的娃都八九十岁了,还不怎么会用电脑。家长都很有意的不
让娃接触电脑电视这些电子产品。
不过不知道这篇文章的真实性哈。 |
a******s 发帖数: 821 | 32 "ipad是我家grocery shopping利器,没ipad的话买个菜得累死"
housewife求解怎么使?
有什么app?
【在 L******n 的大作中提到】 : 我家妞也爱ipad和整天看动画片,我觉得挺好的,唯一担心的是她的眼睛。。。一般玩 : ipad,我用timer设定30分钟,铃声一响就不能玩了,她很配合。。 : 而且ipad是我家grocery shopping利器,没ipad的话买个菜得累死
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a*w 发帖数: 4495 | 33 让孩子玩iPad,自己好专心shopping。
【在 a******s 的大作中提到】 : "ipad是我家grocery shopping利器,没ipad的话买个菜得累死" : housewife求解怎么使? : 有什么app?
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r*f 发帖数: 39119 | 34 小气鬼说,不怕摔了? 而且坐shopping cart里也不好拿啊
【在 a*w 的大作中提到】 : 让孩子玩iPad,自己好专心shopping。
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a*w 发帖数: 4495 | 35 小气鬼可以买iPhone嘛。
【在 r*f 的大作中提到】 : 小气鬼说,不怕摔了? 而且坐shopping cart里也不好拿啊
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r*f 发帖数: 39119 | 36 作为货真价实的小气鬼, iphone都不考虑,哈哈
【在 a*w 的大作中提到】 : 小气鬼可以买iPhone嘛。
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 37 You didn't get my point. The important thing is not that the girl gets
frustrated, is that she may lose interest in real books.
【在 l******s 的大作中提到】 : 只是因为feeling frustrated when moving pictures on magazine就拒绝ipad,这个 : 理由是荒唐的,因为孩子的教育曲线就是由frustrated到happy螺旋反复的过程。
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 38 What if the world is not how you picture it in 5-10 years?
【在 c****i 的大作中提到】 : 新东西也没有不好,有人担心日后上学不能专心读黑白的文字书,我觉得不读就不读。 : 今后学校的教材也应该是彩色交互式,来帮助学生理解。也许未来世界就是动画和多媒 : 体的天下,学习就应该轻松。如果某一个学科不能轻松学习,我们就给中国人、印度人 : 发签证就好了,自然会有上赶着来做牛做马的。再过30年Microsoft Office只剩一个 : PowerPoint就够了。你看很多人都不一定会Word和Excel,只靠PowerPoint打天下。
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a******s 发帖数: 821 | 39 可以考虑ipod touch,就只玩玩游戏
【在 r*f 的大作中提到】 : 作为货真价实的小气鬼, iphone都不考虑,哈哈
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 40 Oops, hopefully she is not stubborn.
Your son-in-law is very very stubborn :-)
【在 V***a 的大作中提到】 : 你媳妇儿已经上瘾了,天天喊着ipad ipad,只好哄她说ipad坏了,爸爸修。现在每天 : 控制在15分钟左右。 : : to : shapes, : means : but : 20
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r*f 发帖数: 39119 | 41 等他们自己有要求再说,呵呵
【在 a******s 的大作中提到】 : 可以考虑ipod touch,就只玩玩游戏
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b****r 发帖数: 17995 | 42 电脑屏幕的变化太多了,娃太早用了这个,我觉得会对其他真实的世界失去兴趣 |
E*P 发帖数: 526 | 43 是呀,这也是我最担心的
【在 p******8 的大作中提到】 : 其实最主要的是眼睛容易看坏了,每天玩几个小时iPAD的话,眼睛很快就完蛋.其次是姿 : 势,iPAD是完全不符合人体工学的设计,小孩拿不动,放着看容易驮背和颈椎出问题. : 教育的方式倒是其次。
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o******y 发帖数: 743 | 44 我自己搞计算机的,看着iPad,iPhone上的app,觉着基于“内容”设计、真的有教育意
义的东西很少,大多都是实际在训练孩子如何用手点和翻来翻去。我自己观察我家小朋
友玩iphone,如果我不看着,很少能在我想让他用的东西上停留很久,如他用软件练写
字也是一个一个的往下走,没有时间思考、反思。所以对于计算机,我觉着少用,挑着
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a********r 发帖数: 810 | 45 其实如果家长能跟孩子玩的话,他们也就对ipad不感兴趣了。我家娃用ipad时间挺长的
,确实对眼睛不好,要控制了。还好她对电视什么的不感兴趣,对书还是很感兴趣的。 |
m**k 发帖数: 18660 | 46 啊,家里wifi都不能装
【在 p**f 的大作中提到】 : 整天让娃辐射在wifi下,很好吗?
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L******n 发帖数: 859 | 47 晕,没app
就是娃在shopping cart里玩ipad,周围堆满grocery,经常买到最后她都没处放脚。如
果不给她玩,她就闹着从车里出来,然后满超市跑
【在 a******s 的大作中提到】 : "ipad是我家grocery shopping利器,没ipad的话买个菜得累死" : housewife求解怎么使? : 有什么app?
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L******n 发帖数: 859 | 48 我在淘宝花几百人刀买了个Case,有三种不同角度的支撑。。。。平常在家她就立在桌
子上玩,在购物车里就底下垫上菜
【在 r*f 的大作中提到】 : 小气鬼说,不怕摔了? 而且坐shopping cart里也不好拿啊
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L******n 发帖数: 859 | 49 眼睛是个大问题,我家我和我LG都近视,我闺女这眼睛看来好不了了。。。。
还是得家长多陪玩,少看电视和ipad |