n*********2
发帖数: 1760 | 1 去接女儿的时候，老师看到我说： "we have to work on Sharon." I must look very
surprised ans a little shocked. She said:" Don't worry. It doesn't mean a
bad thing. She was reading a book in the quiet center. A boy went to groung(
?)her face. Like this " Roar..." She just cried loadly. We told her she need
using her voice to tell that boy: I don't like you do this. Stop doing this
...We also worked on the boy. He is a tough one. We told him that you should
not roar to somebody's face. That hurt her feeling. Especially when she is
reading a book. She is focused on her book. You may scared her. You should
say sorry to her. Look her eye and say sorry. He did say sorry and Sharon
did calm down. We told her to say no. She did say that. We will keep working
on this to teach her use her voice."我也知道女儿胆子小，爱哭，本来也不觉得
这是什么大事, 一个小孩子搞怪把另一个孩子吓哭了。但是老师一个劲强调：Use your
voice, we need let somebody else know our voice.老师还是挺当回事的。老师的
说法是让别人听到我们的声音很重要，对自己对别人都很重要。让我想起最近大家讨论
的那个JM秀。我跟同事聊。我没有看过他的秀，我同事看过，他说我不说她就忘了：“
Don't take it serious, it just a joke" "You don't want somebody else to
correct your kids. It is not JM's problem to correct the kid. It is his
parents. Where he got the idea."她觉得大众没有责任教育而且不应该去教育一个孩
子，而是他的父母的责任。”以前觉得搞签名啊游行啊可能有点夸大了，通过跟女儿老
师的谈话，觉得我们是应该这么做。 |
S*******s
发帖数: 13043 | |
l********e
发帖数: 1220 | 3 才发现自己的阅读理解有问题，楼主对老师没有意见。我又激动错了。
我记得是不是后来JK还是软绵绵的说了一句：如果我们把所有债主都杀了，就没人肯借
钱给我们了。这可能不算是纠正孩子，但是不得不说，如果对这样大事大非的问题都没
有人愿意从正面来告诉孩子正确的答案，或者他的答案是绝对错误的，那也就怪不得这
个孩子以后把自己债主（可能包括借给他学生贷款的美国政府）都给突突了。 |
R*********i
发帖数: 7643 | 4 我觉得游行不是针对这个孩子，也不直接针对他父母。是ABC不应该照样播出。 |
i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 5 好老师啊
用心教育你家闺女
用适当的方式和适当的语言 speak up for herself and stand up for herself
very
groung(
need
this
should
is
working
【在 n*********2 的大作中提到】
: 去接女儿的时候，老师看到我说： "we have to work on Sharon." I must look very
: surprised ans a little shocked. She said:" Don't worry. It doesn't mean a
: bad thing. She was reading a book in the quiet center. A boy went to groung(
: ?)her face. Like this " Roar..." She just cried loadly. We told her she need
: using her voice to tell that boy: I don't like you do this. Stop doing this
: ...We also worked on the boy. He is a tough one. We told him that you should
: not roar to somebody's face. That hurt her feeling. Especially when she is
: reading a book. She is focused on her book. You may scared her. You should
: say sorry to her. Look her eye and say sorry. He did say sorry and Sharon
: did calm down. We told her to say no. She did say that. We will keep working
|
S***e
发帖数: 4426 | 6 老师很不错啊～
very
groung(
need
this
should
is
working
【在 n*********2 的大作中提到】
: 去接女儿的时候，老师看到我说： "we have to work on Sharon." I must look very
: surprised ans a little shocked. She said:" Don't worry. It doesn't mean a
: bad thing. She was reading a book in the quiet center. A boy went to groung(
: ?)her face. Like this " Roar..." She just cried loadly. We told her she need
: using her voice to tell that boy: I don't like you do this. Stop doing this
: ...We also worked on the boy. He is a tough one. We told him that you should
: not roar to somebody's face. That hurt her feeling. Especially when she is
: reading a book. She is focused on her book. You may scared her. You should
: say sorry to her. Look her eye and say sorry. He did say sorry and Sharon
: did calm down. We told her to say no. She did say that. We will keep working
|
T*******i
发帖数: 4442 | 7 我没看懂你写的。 老师告诉你对不喜欢的事情要大胆说No， 你同事说教育别的孩子不
是你的责任，而是他父母的责任。 你是怎么把这两点关联 并得出游行是正确的结
论的？ |
n*********2
发帖数: 1760 | 8 老师很好，以前还纠结要不要换daycare，以前的老师也很喜欢我们家妞，她告诉我，
我女儿超级sweet，很happy只有当别人抢她玩具的时候她才大哭。老公坚持换到大学的
daycare，换过来我就跟老师讲了这个concern老师说她会work on it。 Communication
is very important and is what she is focusing on.老师还是很注重孩子的发展的。
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: 好老师啊
: 用心教育你家闺女
: 用适当的方式和适当的语言 speak up for herself and stand up for herself
:
: very
: groung(
: need
: this
: should
: is
|
n*********2
发帖数: 1760 | 9 可能没有什么逻辑，就是觉得老师那句不断的重复的话：“you need use your voice.
we need let somebody hear our voice if we don't like that." 很多美国人就是
把那个当个笑话，但是它确实让有的人感觉受伤害了，你也可以说这些人有点太敏感了
，但是你感受到被伤害了，却不说出来，以后别人还是会这么做，觉得没什么。我觉得
感觉不妥，受伤害了就应该发出自己的声音。真是昨天跟老师聊之前没有这么强的感受
，看满版讨论这个还觉得是不是扩大化了。
【在 T*******i 的大作中提到】
: 我没看懂你写的。 老师告诉你对不喜欢的事情要大胆说No， 你同事说教育别的孩子不
: 是你的责任，而是他父母的责任。 你是怎么把这两点关联 并得出游行是正确的结
: 论的？
|
i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 10 你同事不在receiving end
他的关于joke的话，你要当joke 去听
Communication
的。
【在 n*********2 的大作中提到】
: 老师很好，以前还纠结要不要换daycare，以前的老师也很喜欢我们家妞，她告诉我，
: 我女儿超级sweet，很happy只有当别人抢她玩具的时候她才大哭。老公坚持换到大学的
: daycare，换过来我就跟老师讲了这个concern老师说她会work on it。 Communication
: is very important and is what she is focusing on.老师还是很注重孩子的发展的。
|
|
|
T*******i
发帖数: 4442 | 11 kids world is simple. for us chinese we live in america. it is a much more
complicated case.
of course we should say no to those arrogant white people. actually, all
asians should united in america. the only qurstion is when and how.
that is why i am not very sure about this parade. i dont think it is a good
chance for us to take advantage of.
voice.
【在 n*********2 的大作中提到】
: 可能没有什么逻辑，就是觉得老师那句不断的重复的话：“you need use your voice.
: we need let somebody hear our voice if we don't like that." 很多美国人就是
: 把那个当个笑话，但是它确实让有的人感觉受伤害了，你也可以说这些人有点太敏感了
: ，但是你感受到被伤害了，却不说出来，以后别人还是会这么做，觉得没什么。我觉得
: 感觉不妥，受伤害了就应该发出自己的声音。真是昨天跟老师聊之前没有这么强的感受
: ，看满版讨论这个还觉得是不是扩大化了。
|
b*****e
发帖数: 85 | 12 Well, you can wait for a better chance, which will never come. Majority
people think this is THE chance.
more
good
【在 T*******i 的大作中提到】
: kids world is simple. for us chinese we live in america. it is a much more
: complicated case.
: of course we should say no to those arrogant white people. actually, all
: asians should united in america. the only qurstion is when and how.
: that is why i am not very sure about this parade. i dont think it is a good
: chance for us to take advantage of.
:
: voice.
|
x*****i
发帖数: 4035 | 13 老师很好啊
你们在家可以和娃演示一下，比如你演她，她演捣乱的同学，你做给她看应该怎样说No
very
groung(
need
this
should
is
working
【在 n*********2 的大作中提到】
: 去接女儿的时候，老师看到我说： "we have to work on Sharon." I must look very
: surprised ans a little shocked. She said:" Don't worry. It doesn't mean a
: bad thing. She was reading a book in the quiet center. A boy went to groung(
: ?)her face. Like this " Roar..." She just cried loadly. We told her she need
: using her voice to tell that boy: I don't like you do this. Stop doing this
: ...We also worked on the boy. He is a tough one. We told him that you should
: not roar to somebody's face. That hurt her feeling. Especially when she is
: reading a book. She is focused on her book. You may scared her. You should
: say sorry to her. Look her eye and say sorry. He did say sorry and Sharon
: did calm down. We told her to say no. She did say that. We will keep working
|
m***o
发帖数: 1367 | |
p******m
发帖数: 312 | 15 在老美的耳朵里，jimmy是说joke，但对我们就是威胁言论-种族灭绝论。在美国还有比
这个更严重的吗。我们要发出声音，让别人知道hey, this is not a joke.游行就是这
个目的。 |
c*******k
发帖数: 1308 | |
m******d
发帖数: 481 | |
