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mei2013 (婧) 于 (Sun Dec 29 22:28:34 2013, 美东) 提到:
非常感谢大家的帮助, 也非常感谢lanfear为我修改email.刚刚找到了学校的Non-
Discrimination & Anti-Harassment Statement and Policy并且好好读了一下.根据学
校policy,学校鼓励立即report这种情况.
"Anyone who believes that a student or staff member has possibly been or is
the victim of discrimination or harassment is encouraged to immediately
report the situation to an appropriate staff member such as a teacher,
counselor or administrator. Any employee who suspects discrimination or
harassment must report the behavior to his/her immediate superior"
policy link: http://policy.ccs.k12.in.us/policies/238
根据大家的意见和school policy,对谈话要点和email做的如下改动,
面谈要点:
1, 首先表明this kind of racist language is unacceptable, it is very
offensive and disturbing.it has very bad impact and influence.we are very
worried and concerned.
2, make the point of we understand that Carmel Clay Schools are working hard
to maintain an education and work environment which is free from all forms
of discrimination and harassment
3, Discuss the non-discrimination school policy and the appropriate steps to
report and stop the harassment.
4, (removed)
email draft
Dear Mrs.XXX,
I hope you have a nice winter break and happy holidays.
Recently it came to my knowledge that my daughter has been subject to racial
discriminatory language and comment in school. A classmate of hers made
repeated offensive comment to her.
She was saying offensive language such as Chinese people are bad, Chinese
people are mean to my daughter almost everyday, and this is very disturbing
and make my daughter feel sad.
We understand that Carmel Clay Schools are working hard to maintain an
education and work environment which is free from all forms of
discrimination and harassment.We would really like to know how school
handles such incident. Please arrange an appointment so that we can talk
about this issue face to face. It would be very helpful if Mrs.YYY(Principal
) could attend as well.
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大家好,首先祝大家节日愉快.我女儿现在小学一年级,性格外向, 喜欢交朋友,基本上和
谁都可以玩.寒假期间, 她无意中告诉我同桌的一个白人女孩老是对她说Chinese
people are bad, Chinese people are mean, they eat meat with germs.我问她这个
女孩是不是常常这么说, 她说almost everyday.女儿性格外向,这方面大大咧咧, 我问
她怎么回话的, 她说就是说this is not nice.
我觉得这个问题很严重, 打算给老师写信要求面对面谈谈,同时也希望校长参加这个面
谈.面谈时准备讨论下面几点:
1, 首先表明this kind of racist language is unacceptable, it is very
offensive
and disturbing.it has very bad impact and influence.we are very worried and
concerned
2, my daughter does not know how to defend herself and this kind of language
hurt her feelings and it might have very bad consequence.
3, what school can do to prevent this kind of racist behavior from happening
4, this girl need to apologize to my daughter and promise not to do this
again in written
在写给老师要求面谈的信中,准备不写出这个白人女孩的名字和她说的话,
Dear Mrs.XXX,
I hope you have a nice winter break and happy holidays, we had a very good
time with family and we really enjoy the holidays.
I happen to get to know that my daughter was attacked by racist language
almost everyday at school by her classmate S(first letter of the girl's name
). S is a girl and according to my daughter she was saying some very
offensive language to my daughter almost everyday. we are very concerned and
worried. so we would like to talk to you and get some advice.
Could you arrange an appointment so that we can talk about this issue face
to face? It would be very helpful if Mrs.YYY(Principal) could attend as well.
Best regards,
My Name and My wife's name
希望大家能帮我看看改改我准备在面谈中谈的几点和给老师的信,敬请群策群力,帮忙看
看有什么不妥和不足的地方.我们准备在开学的第一天给老师发信.
另外一点背景信息,我们在midwest,学校在greatschools.org打的9分.
谢谢大家.
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ATCGu (Second Chance) 于 (Sun Dec 29 22:47:15 2013, 美东) 提到:
关注，帮顶。想听有见识的父母解析。
and
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kathylee (茗茗) 于 (Mon Dec 30 00:36:13 2013, 美东) 提到:
co-关注。。。
另：为什么给老师的信不写出具体是那个女孩呢？
and
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mei2013 (婧) 于 (Mon Dec 30 00:59:11 2013, 美东) 提到:
我们不是很清楚应该是直接report to police 还是学校. 所以信里想先看看学校的态
度. 这里也想听听大家的意见.
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syan (我是薯条她娘亲~) 于 (Mon Dec 30 01:45:36 2013, 美东) 提到:
至少要把那个女生的原话写上啊
写这种信一定要尽量描述事实，而不是随便先扣帽子
正常人看到这种言论自然会得出种族歧视的结论
你不描述客观事实，却扣帽子下结论是很吃亏的做法
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maoboli (良月) 于 (Mon Dec 30 10:26:03 2013, 美东) 提到:
agree.
you may list the time, date, location of an such incident. Describe the
exact scene. also include how does it hurt your daughter and your family's
feeling.
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wingsheart (我心飞翔) 于 (Mon Dec 30 10:35:42 2013, 美东) 提到:
我不懂，不过也觉得应该直接写名字和原话
并且直接扣种族歧视的帽子
因为这女孩说的话就是这个意思
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lanfear (二是会传染的) 于 (Mon Dec 30 11:05:17 2013, 美东) 提到:
我来抛个砖吧。
Dear Mrs.XXX,
I hope you have a nice winter break and happy holidays.（第一段是场面话不要
写太多）
Recently it came to my knowledge that my daughter has been subject to racial
discriminatory language and comment in school. A classmate of hers made
repeated offensive comment regarding Chinese people.
As you might know, we are proud of our heritage and want to raise our
daughter that way. We are very concerned such comment would hurt my daughter
's feeling as well as set a bad example for the school where diversity
should be cherished.
We would really like to know how school handles such incident. Please
arrange an appointment so that we can talk about this issue face to face. It
would be very helpful if Mrs.YYY(Principal) could attend as well. (直接要求
跟老师见面，这个是你们的权利）
Best regards,
My Name and My wife's name
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northbeach ((想认识一个小时候放过羊的朋友)) 于 (Mon Dec 30 17:45:34 2013, 美东) 提到:
赞。大家都存一个以后备用。建议可以把事情的DETAILS 加进去，比如那个女孩子的名
字，和那个女孩说过的话。
racial
daughter
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onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe) 于 (Mon Dec 30 19:47:24 2013, 美东) 提到:
nice letter, please update. thanks.
copied to civilsociety,
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ltiger2010 (tiger) 于 (Tue Dec 31 00:31:21 2013, 美东) 提到:
说的很好
racial
daughter
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tudoudou (土小豆) 于 (Tue Dec 31 01:24:16 2013, 美东) 提到:
写得非常非常好
收藏了.
希望不会用到.不过,真要用到时候,也不怕
给楼主MM留了个纸条
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YaTou22 (二姨太) 于 (Wed Jan 1 17:30:31 2014, 美东) 提到:
为啥不直接找到老师或者主要负责人说？
写信多浪费时间
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mrsdonkey (yaya) 于 (Wed Jan 1 20:57:10 2014, 美东) 提到:
写的不好 特别是detail其实不用很多
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mitbuyer (Mit Buyer) 于 (Fri Jan 3 06:54:31 2014, 美东) 提到:
(For your reference)
Dear Mrs. XXX,
I hope you enjoyed a nice holiday break.
Recently I am shocked to learn that my daughter has been subject to racially
discriminatory remarks at school by one of her classmates.
Almost on daily basis and toward directly to my daughter, the classmate
makes offensive comments such as “Chinese people are bad”, or “Chinese
people are mean”. My daughter is deeply disturbed.
It is the well-established policy for the school to maintain an education
and work environment that is free from all forms of discrimination and
harassment. We are eager to learn in much detail how school handles such
incidents effectively.
We would like an appointment as soon as possible to discuss this very issue
face to face. The attendance of Mrs.YYY(Principal) is much appreciated.
Thanks for your attention.
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lanfear (二是会传染的) 于 (Fri Jan 3 11:00:13 2014, 美东) 提到:
这种严重问题有书面记录非常重要。
跟老师开完会建议再写一封email。复述一下meeting里面各方说过的话，这样一切都白
纸黑字。
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xnnfw (牛哥虎弟) 于 (Fri Jan 3 15:07:09 2014, 美东) 提到:
mark一下，支持楼主！
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mei2013 (婧) 于 (Fri Jan 3 23:41:03 2014, 美东) 提到:
谢谢你的帮助.我们还没有给老师联系.准备下周一(开学第一天)给老师发信.
racially
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hyalite125 (小胖猴快跑) 于 (Sun Jan 5 06:59:02 2014, 美东) 提到:
支持一下！
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