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发帖数: 237 | 1 有人推荐的书。 我看完了， 觉得不错，分享一下。 书中则要
- Fair does not mean equal
Armed with knowledge that parental attentions is never distributed over 100
percent parity and that parental priorities are never exactly same for each
child in any family, you should resist responding to this complaint by
trying even harder to treat your explosive child the same as you do you
other children.
--Kids do well if they can
Plan A: Imposed your will to unsolved problem
Plan C: Drop some expectation completely
Plan B: Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS) Model
1. Empathy Step 2. Define the problem step 3. Invitation Step
While CPS model has its roots in the treatment of explosive kids, it's clear
that it's not just explosive kids who benefits from identifying their
concerns, having those concern taken seriously, taking another person's
concerns into account, generating and considering alternative solutions to
problems, working toward mutually satisfactory solutions, and resolving
disputes and disagreement without conflict. | k******s
发帖数: 237 | 2 忘记写书名
The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily
Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children
by Ross W. Greene | b***d
发帖数: 2695 | 3 多谢推荐
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【在 k******s 的大作中提到】
: 有人推荐的书。 我看完了， 觉得不错，分享一下。 书中则要
: - Fair does not mean equal
: Armed with knowledge that parental attentions is never distributed over 100
: percent parity and that parental priorities are never exactly same for each
: child in any family, you should resist responding to this complaint by
: trying even harder to treat your explosive child the same as you do you
: other children.
: --Kids do well if they can
: Plan A: Imposed your will to unsolved problem
: Plan C: Drop some expectation completely
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【在 k******s 的大作中提到】
: 有人推荐的书。 我看完了， 觉得不错，分享一下。 书中则要
: - Fair does not mean equal
: Armed with knowledge that parental attentions is never distributed over 100
: percent parity and that parental priorities are never exactly same for each
: child in any family, you should resist responding to this complaint by
: trying even harder to treat your explosive child the same as you do you
: other children.
: --Kids do well if they can
: Plan A: Imposed your will to unsolved problem
: Plan C: Drop some expectation completely
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