m****G
发帖数: 26 | 1 分手至理名言呀.
The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
The naive forgets and forgives.
The smart forgives but never forgets. | d********g
发帖数: 7458 | | R*******1
发帖数: 134 | 3 do not see why it is necessarily so.
【在 m****G 的大作中提到】
: 分手至理名言呀.
: The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
: The naive forgets and forgives.
: The smart forgives but never forgets.
| D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 4 对善良的好人的无心过失，不但要原谅，更要忘记！
对心底恶毒的毒蛇的戕害，不但不能原谅，更不能忘记！
对好人不能原谅，心眼太小，不能够交到好朋友。
对坏人原谅，就是对好人的犯罪，也不要指望有好人与您成为好朋友。
农夫与蛇，东郭先生与狼，这个故事谁不知道？！
【在 m****G 的大作中提到】
: 分手至理名言呀.
: The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
: The naive forgets and forgives.
: The smart forgives but never forgets.
| d*****s
发帖数: 363 | 5 男的，女的写的？
我觉得这么写 not smart.
【在 m****G 的大作中提到】
: 分手至理名言呀.
: The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
: The naive forgets and forgives.
: The smart forgives but never forgets.
| W*********n
发帖数: 1694 | | d*********n
发帖数: 818 | 7 Eventually you need forgive them all because forgiving is not about them but
about you, about how you unload the past and move forward.
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: 对善良的好人的无心过失，不但要原谅，更要忘记！
: 对心底恶毒的毒蛇的戕害，不但不能原谅，更不能忘记！
: 对好人不能原谅，心眼太小，不能够交到好朋友。
: 对坏人原谅，就是对好人的犯罪，也不要指望有好人与您成为好朋友。
: 农夫与蛇，东郭先生与狼，这个故事谁不知道？！
| h*h
发帖数: 27852 | | w*******s
发帖数: 940 | 9 naive和smart搞反了
【在 m****G 的大作中提到】
: 分手至理名言呀.
: The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
: The naive forgets and forgives.
: The smart forgives but never forgets.
| s********1
发帖数: 211 | 10 never met the stupid, taught and grew up to be the naive, and pretended to
be the smart. | | | D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 11 Sincerely, I can not agree with you on this point.
First, nobody can do what you said, even God.
Second, if somebody could do what you said, it's not a human, it's a piece
of fresh without a soul.
but
【在 d*********n 的大作中提到】
: Eventually you need forgive them all because forgiving is not about them but
: about you, about how you unload the past and move forward.
| d*********n
发帖数: 818 | 12 You need a bigger heart. We human beings have shortcomings, we made bad
choices, did stupid things, wronged right persons, especially when we were
young.
As long as the mistake is not life and death, I do not think there is
nothing you cannot forgive.
As I mentioned, whether you forgive more not has little influence on the
other party, but have profound impacts on yourself: it is all about if you
want to carry the hurts for the rest of your life.
By being forgiving, you make yourself a more beau
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: Sincerely, I can not agree with you on this point.
: First, nobody can do what you said, even God.
: Second, if somebody could do what you said, it's not a human, it's a piece
: of fresh without a soul.
:
: but
| c*****t
发帖数: 115 | 13 Actually I could do just that.
So stop making judgments, ...
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: Sincerely, I can not agree with you on this point.
: First, nobody can do what you said, even God.
: Second, if somebody could do what you said, it's not a human, it's a piece
: of fresh without a soul.
:
: but
| D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 14 First, I do think that you have good points.
Second, we may have difference on what we should forgive.
What I am referring to is not an issue of love matter. What I am referring
to is mistakes that a good person made or an evil that an evil did.
We have to forgive mistakes that a good person made.
We should never forgive an evil that an evil did. Otherwise, we can not
distinguish us from evil.
being
【在 d*********n 的大作中提到】
: You need a bigger heart. We human beings have shortcomings, we made bad
: choices, did stupid things, wronged right persons, especially when we were
: young.
: As long as the mistake is not life and death, I do not think there is
: nothing you cannot forgive.
: As I mentioned, whether you forgive more not has little influence on the
: other party, but have profound impacts on yourself: it is all about if you
: want to carry the hurts for the rest of your life.
: By being forgiving, you make yourself a more beau
| c*****t
发帖数: 115 | 15 The minute you start to judge, evilness penetrates in, ...
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: First, I do think that you have good points.
: Second, we may have difference on what we should forgive.
: What I am referring to is not an issue of love matter. What I am referring
: to is mistakes that a good person made or an evil that an evil did.
: We have to forgive mistakes that a good person made.
: We should never forgive an evil that an evil did. Otherwise, we can not
: distinguish us from evil.
:
: being
| w*****n
发帖数: 76 | 16 说的是情侣分手.
原谅同时也是放过自己,但是如果全然忘记,只会重蹈覆辙
不用拓宽到那么大吧...
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: 对善良的好人的无心过失，不但要原谅，更要忘记！
: 对心底恶毒的毒蛇的戕害，不但不能原谅，更不能忘记！
: 对好人不能原谅，心眼太小，不能够交到好朋友。
: 对坏人原谅，就是对好人的犯罪，也不要指望有好人与您成为好朋友。
: 农夫与蛇，东郭先生与狼，这个故事谁不知道？！
| D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 17 Then, I am mindless, heartless, senseless. I don't know what is good, what
is bad, what is right, what is wrong.
It's not reasonable and realistic. People are living in a real world. Every
day, many people die of evil thing that
did by evils.
I am a human being. I do what I believe is right and good. I f I can not
make judgement on what I do and what
other people do. What I should follow. Once every one was born, the first
thing the parents do is to teach the
child to learn what should do and wh
【在 c*****t 的大作中提到】
: The minute you start to judge, evilness penetrates in, ...
| D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 18 If this matter, I do not have anything that is different with your points of
view.
【在 w*****n 的大作中提到】
: 说的是情侣分手.
: 原谅同时也是放过自己,但是如果全然忘记,只会重蹈覆辙
: 不用拓宽到那么大吧...
| c*****t
发帖数: 115 | 19 For the same thing happened, 10 people can have 10 different views, people
judge based on their own knowledge.
Do you really think there is right and wrong? Everything changes constantly.
Truth is silent, it does not matter how you say about it.
This is a long topic, I would have to stop here.
Now that you mentioned God, think and ask yourself why God told
the first couple not to eat any fruits from the knowledge tree, ...
Every
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: Then, I am mindless, heartless, senseless. I don't know what is good, what
: is bad, what is right, what is wrong.
: It's not reasonable and realistic. People are living in a real world. Every
: day, many people die of evil thing that
: did by evils.
: I am a human being. I do what I believe is right and good. I f I can not
: make judgement on what I do and what
: other people do. What I should follow. Once every one was born, the first
: thing the parents do is to teach the
: child to learn what should do and wh
| D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 20 I am not going to offending you. This is the last thing that I would say.
There are some sleepers and dreamers in the world. Even worse, there are
some liars who always say
something that is quite different with what they do.
“盗亦有道”
constantly.
【在 c*****t 的大作中提到】
: For the same thing happened, 10 people can have 10 different views, people
: judge based on their own knowledge.
: Do you really think there is right and wrong? Everything changes constantly.
: Truth is silent, it does not matter how you say about it.
: This is a long topic, I would have to stop here.
: Now that you mentioned God, think and ask yourself why God told
: the first couple not to eat any fruits from the knowledge tree, ...
:
:
: Every
| c*****t
发帖数: 115 | 21 你说什么都不会offend我的，因为我不care，呵呵。
就此打住挺好，握手，至少大家都有不少毛病，也都在思考人生。
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: I am not going to offending you. This is the last thing that I would say.
: There are some sleepers and dreamers in the world. Even worse, there are
: some liars who always say
: something that is quite different with what they do.
: “盗亦有道”
:
: constantly.
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