d********g 发帖数: 7458 | 1 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。
SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small
number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most
people exhibit only in the first flush of love.
The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak
at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass.
A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples
who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new
lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the
same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
commonly do in the early stages of a relationship.
Previous research suggested that the first stages of romantic love, a
rollercoaster ride of mood swings and obsessions that psychologists call
limerence, start to fade within 15 months. After 10 years the chemical tide
has ebbed away.
The scans of some of the long-term couples, however, revealed that elements
of limerence mature, enabling them to enjoy what a new report calls “
intensive companionship and sexual liveliness”.
The researchers nicknamed the couples “swans” because they have similar
mental “love maps” to animals that mate for life such as swans, voles and
grey foxes.
The reactions of the swans to pictures of their beloved were identified on
MRI brain scans as a burst of pleasure-producing dopamine more commonly seen
in couples who are gripped in the first flush of lust.
“The findings go against the traditional view of romance – that it drops
off sharply in the first decade – but we are sure it’s real,” said Arthur
Aron, a psychologist at Stony Brook.
Previous research had laid out the “fracture points” in relationships as
12-15 months, three years and the infamous seven-year itch.
Aron said when he first interviewed people claiming they were still in love
after an average of 21 years he thought they were fooling themselves: “But
this is what the brain scans tell us and people can’t fake that.”
One pair of Aron’s swans are Billy and Michelle Jordon who, 18 years after
they met, still make their friends envious. The couple, who live in Newport
Beach, California, hold hands all the time. “It comes very naturally,”
said Michelle, 59.
Lisa Baber, 40, and her husband David, 46, from Bristol, say they still feel
the same frisson as when they got together 17 years ago.
“He was crazy and so exciting, he whisked me off my feet,” said Lisa. “
That excitement is very much alive. We make sure our lives are always
changing.”
Other couples who have kept their passion include Tony and Cherie Blair and
Michael and Shakira Caine. Michael Howard, the former Tory leader, and his
wife Sandra have been together for more than 30 years.
Aron said he and his wife Elaine, both 64, have a strong relationship but
were a little jealous of the swans. “Their relationships are intense and
sexually active, too, without many of the downsides of first love,” he said
last week. |
a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 2 能扫一下大脑断定哪两个人之间可以有真爱吗?
peak
couples
the
people
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。 : SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small : number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most : people exhibit only in the first flush of love. : The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak : at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass. : A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples : who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new : lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the : same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
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d********g 发帖数: 7458 | 4 前三段就是abstract
【在 i****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 有abstract或者中文版不
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c********o 发帖数: 3656 | 5 我相信我爸我妈就这样,虽然没扫瞄过大脑,可惜我是不行了
peak
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb - 中文网站浏览器
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。 : SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small : number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most : people exhibit only in the first flush of love. : The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak : at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass. : A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples : who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new : lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the : same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
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q*c 发帖数: 17993 | 6 阅,我信
peak
couples
the
people
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。 : SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small : number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most : people exhibit only in the first flush of love. : The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak : at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass. : A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples : who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new : lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the : same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 8 科学家们发现,真正的爱情。大脑扫描证明,一个小
夫妇人数20年后的回应,因为大多数与尽可能多的激情
人们展示只有在爱的第一次冲洗。
这一发现推翻传统的看法,爱情和性欲高峰
在关系的开始,然后开始下降,随着岁月的传递。
一队在纽约州立大学石溪分校夫妇的大脑进行了扫描
谁已经在一起20年,他们与新的比较
爱好者。他们发现,约10个成熟的夫妇展示了
同样的化学反应时,随着人们自己的亲人的照片
通常在关系的早期阶段。
此前的研究提示,浪漫爱情的第一阶段,
情绪波动和执着,心理学家称之为过山车
迷恋,15个月内开始淡出。经过10年的化学潮
已退至距离。
然而,一些长期的夫妇扫描透露,元素
迷恋成熟,使他们能够享受一个新的报告呼吁“
密集的陪伴和性的活力“。
绰号夫妇的“天鹅”的研究人员,因为他们有类似的
精神“爱的地图”的动物,如天鹅,田鼠生活的伴侣,
灰色的狐狸。
天鹅的反应,他们心爱的照片上确定
一阵更常见的游乐生产多巴胺的MRI脑扫描
好色冲洗心惊肉跳的夫妇。
“调查结果违背浪漫的传统观点 - 它滴
锐减的第一个十年 - 但我们相信它是真实的,“阿瑟说
阿隆,石溪分校的心理学家。
此前的研究奠定了“断裂点”作为关系
12-15个月,3年和臭名昭著的七年之痒。
阿隆说,当他第一次采访的人声称他们仍然在爱
平均21年后,他还以为他们是自欺欺人:“但是
这是大脑扫描告诉我们,人不能假的。“
对阿隆的天鹅之一是比利和米歇尔佐敦者,18年后
他们见面,仍然使他们的朋友们羡慕不已。这对夫妻,住在纽波特
海滩,加利福尼亚州,双手抱所有的时间。 “它提供了很自然的,”
米歇尔说,59岁。
丽莎巴伯,40岁,和她的丈夫大卫,46岁,来自布里斯托尔的说,他们仍然觉得
17年前,当他们聚在一起的相同frisson。
“他疯了,如此令人兴奋,他撵我我的脚,说:”丽莎。 “
这种兴奋是非常活跃。我们确保我们的生活总是
改变。“
其他夫妇保持自己的激情,包括托尼和切丽
迈克尔和夏奇拉坚。前保守党领袖迈克尔霍华德和他的
妻子桑德拉在一起已经超过30年。
阿隆说,他和他的妻子伊莱恩,64,有很强的关系,但
一个小天鹅的嫉妒。 “他们的关系是激烈,
性活跃,也没有初恋的许多不足之处,“他说:
上周。
【在 S**8 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 谁给翻译下。。。 : :)
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S**8 发帖数: 10010 | 9 英文太强啦。。。有点激动。。。
:)
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 科学家们发现,真正的爱情。大脑扫描证明,一个小 : 夫妇人数20年后的回应,因为大多数与尽可能多的激情 : 人们展示只有在爱的第一次冲洗。 : 这一发现推翻传统的看法,爱情和性欲高峰 : 在关系的开始,然后开始下降,随着岁月的传递。 : 一队在纽约州立大学石溪分校夫妇的大脑进行了扫描 : 谁已经在一起20年,他们与新的比较 : 爱好者。他们发现,约10个成熟的夫妇展示了 : 同样的化学反应时,随着人们自己的亲人的照片 : 通常在关系的早期阶段。
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 10 这是机器翻的吧
【在 S**8 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 英文太强啦。。。有点激动。。。 : :)
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 11 如果“真爱”是有生理基础的,那么当然是一件好事。
但是,紧接着要做的事情应该是赶紧找到自己的“真爱区”(大脑里?),
并且找到跟自己“真爱区”匹配的人。
peak
couples
the
people
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。 : SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small : number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most : people exhibit only in the first flush of love. : The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak : at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass. : A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples : who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new : lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the : same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
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c*****y 发帖数: 4016 | 12 看看这种人在人群中的比例。能20年,30年还有感觉,激情的肯定有。但是得看在人群
中的比例。那剩下的人怎么办?凑凑合合的过日子? |
i****n 发帖数: 13151 | 13
有句话说的好,将错就错
【在 c*****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 看看这种人在人群中的比例。能20年,30年还有感觉,激情的肯定有。但是得看在人群 : 中的比例。那剩下的人怎么办?凑凑合合的过日子?
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 14 那还不如问:如果已经抱团在一起的人,
到医院拿仪器一扫描,发现“真爱区”并不共振,
那可咋办。
【在 c*****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 看看这种人在人群中的比例。能20年,30年还有感觉,激情的肯定有。但是得看在人群 : 中的比例。那剩下的人怎么办?凑凑合合的过日子?
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q*c 发帖数: 17993 | 15 医院开展新业务,种植脑波芯片,包管真爱区共振
【在 a*****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 那还不如问:如果已经抱团在一起的人, : 到医院拿仪器一扫描,发现“真爱区”并不共振, : 那可咋办。
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S**8 发帖数: 10010 | 16 我还以为要盗梦呢。。。
:)
【在 q*c 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 医院开展新业务,种植脑波芯片,包管真爱区共振
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 17 那感情好。
有这种技术的话,就等于人造丘比特了
【在 q*c 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 医院开展新业务,种植脑波芯片,包管真爱区共振
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c*****y 发帖数: 4016 | 18 那万一,你我是剩下的人呢?所以说啊,有真爱的,但是是有比例的。万一我没有包括
进去呢?
【在 i****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : : 有句话说的好,将错就错
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d********g 发帖数: 7458 | 19 很多人性格素质注定没法拥有真爱,再怎么折腾也是枉然。
【在 c*****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 那万一,你我是剩下的人呢?所以说啊,有真爱的,但是是有比例的。万一我没有包括 : 进去呢?
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j**i 发帖数: 233 | 21 爱情本来就是人类最原始的情愫嘛
那些质疑真善美的人,没啥好教育的,她/他们成对儿就好了
这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。
SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small
number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most
people exhibit only in the first flush of love.
The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak
at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass.
A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples
who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new
lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the
same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
commonly do in the early stages of a relationship.
Previous research suggested that the first stages of romantic love, a
rollercoaster ride of mood swings and obsessions that psychologists call
limerence, start to fade within 15 months. After 10 years the chemical tide
has ebbed away.
The scans of some of the long-term couples, however, revealed that elements
of limerence mature, enabling them to enjoy what a new report calls “
intensive companionship and sexual liveliness”.
The researchers nicknamed the couples “swans” because they have similar
mental “love maps” to animals that mate for life such as swans, voles and
grey foxes.
The reactions of the swans to pictures of their beloved were identified on
MRI brain scans as a burst of pleasure-producing dopamine more commonly seen
in couples who are gripped in the first flush of lust.
“The findings go against the traditional view of romance – that it drops
off sharply in the first decade – but we are sure it’s real,” said Arthur
Aron, a psychologist at Stony Brook.
Previous research had laid out the “fracture points” in relationships as
12-15 months, three years and the infamous seven-year itch.
Aron said when he first interviewed people claiming they were still in love
after an average of 21 years he thought they were fooling themselves: “But
this is what the brain scans tell us and people can’t fake that.”
One pair of Aron’s swans are Billy and Michelle Jordon who, 18 years after
they met, still make their friends envious. The couple, who live in Newport
Beach, California, hold hands all the time. “It comes very naturally,”
said Michelle, 59.
Lisa Baber, 40, and her husband David, 46, from Bristol, say they still feel
the same frisson as when they got together 17 years ago.
“He was crazy and so exciting, he whisked me off my feet,” said Lisa. “
That excitement is very much alive. We make sure our lives are always
changing.”
Other couples who have kept their passion include Tony and Cherie Blair and
Michael and Shakira Caine. Michael Howard, the former Tory leader, and his
wife Sandra have been together for more than 30 years.
Aron said he and his wife Elaine, both 64, have a strong relationship but
were a little jealous of the swans. “Their relationships are intense and
sexually active, too, without many of the downsides of first love,” he said
last week.
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这篇我隔一年半载就贴一次,送给依然相信真爱的人。 : SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small : number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most : people exhibit only in the first flush of love. : The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak : at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass. : A team from Stony Brook University in New York scanned the brains of couples : who had been together for 20 years and compared them with those of new : lovers. They found that about one in 10 of the mature couples exhibited the : same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as people
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w*******e 发帖数: 15912 | 22 老衲震精了!真的只在大脑里?竟然跟身高,长相,房子,车子,票子,绿卡,老爹这
些因素都木关系? |
L*****s 发帖数: 24744 | |