c**r 发帖数: 10001 | 1 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
9. Coercion sensitivity.
You may procrastinate because you feel that people are acting bossy and
making unreasonable demands on you. You may be stubborn and refuse to do
what they ask as a way of rebelling. Other people may find this behavior
annoying and act even pushier. This leads to a power struggle, because no
one wants to give in.
Your procrastination may be an indirect way of expressing your annoyance
with the person who's nagging y | c**r 发帖数: 10001 | 2 这三节都很短,就一起敲上来了,而且觉得连内容也那么overlap,当一节看好像更合适
些.
【在 c**r 的大作中提到】 : 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9. : 9. Coercion sensitivity. : You may procrastinate because you feel that people are acting bossy and : making unreasonable demands on you. You may be stubborn and refuse to do : what they ask as a way of rebelling. Other people may find this behavior : annoying and act even pushier. This leads to a power struggle, because no : one wants to give in. : Your procrastination may be an indirect way of expressing your annoyance : with the person who's nagging y
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