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发帖数: 1440 | 1 Talk About Life Meaning
We humans appear to be meaning-seeking creatures who have had the misfortune
of being thrown into a world devoid of intrinsic meaning. One of our major
tasks is to invent a meaning sturdy enough to support a life and to perform
the tricky maneuver of denying our personal authorship of this meaning. Thus
we conclude instead that it was “out
there” waiting for us. Our ongoing search for substantial meaning
systems often throws us into crises of meaning.
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发帖数: 1440 | 2 from 。这是一本很有趣的书，写给新一代therapist和他们的
patients 的公开信(Yalom 不愧是畅销书作者，一网打尽）, 这里有志于做这方面工作
的，或者认为自己正在做类似工作的网友，以及寻求帮助的网友，都可以买来读一读。 |
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发帖数: 1440 | 3 Never (Almost Never) Make Decisions for the Patient
Some years ago, Mike, a thirty-three-year-old physician,
consulted me because of an urgent dilemma: he had a
time-sharing condo in the Caribbean and planned to
leave on vacation in one month. But there was a problem—a
big problem. He had invited two women to accompany him and
both had accepted—Darlene, his long-term girlfriend, and
Patricia, a sparkling new woman he had met a couple of
months before. What should he do? He was paralyzed with
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发帖数: 1440 | 4 Avoid Diagnosis (Except for Insurance Companies)
Today’s psychotherapy students are exposed to too much
emphasis on diagnosis. Managed-care administrators
demand that therapists arrive quickly at a precise diagnosis
and then proceed upon a course of brief, focused therapy
that matches that particular diagnosis. Sounds good. Sounds
logical and efficient. But it has precious little to do with reality.
It represents instead an illusory attempt to legislate scientific
precision into being when it is |
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发帖数: 1440 | 5 避免诊断 - 这段儿跟Carl Rogers的理论就很符合了。 |
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发帖数: 10001 | 6 嗯，前阵子还听几个therapist讲她们几乎不太用诊断，唯一的用处就是要写给
保险公司一个名目，另外偶尔有时候，给病人一个诊断反而让病人感觉终于安心
了，除此外就很少了。
多谢推荐。
btw, 我对Chinese Restaurant joke有点敏感。
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: Avoid Diagnosis (Except for Insurance Companies)
: Today’s psychotherapy students are exposed to too much
: emphasis on diagnosis. Managed-care administrators
: demand that therapists arrive quickly at a precise diagnosis
: and then proceed upon a course of brief, focused therapy
: that matches that particular diagnosis. Sounds good. Sounds
: logical and efficient. But it has precious little to do with reality.
: It represents instead an illusory attempt to legislate scientific
: precision into being when it is
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发帖数: 1440 | 7 Empathy: Looking Out the Patient's Window
It’s strange how certain phrases or events lodge in one’s mind
and offer ongoing guidance or comfort. Decades ago I saw a
patient with breast cancer, who had, throughout adolescence,
been locked in a long, bitter struggle with her naysaying
father. Yearning for some form of reconciliation, for a new, fresh
beginning to their relationship, she looked forward to her
father’s driving her to college—a time when she would be alone
with him for several hours. |
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发帖数: 1440 | 8 Empathy可能是区别一位真正优秀的therapist和其他人的地方, 这是一个技巧,但更像
一种天赋. 人生最本质和高深的道理, 往往不能告诉和教训, 更显得Therapist工作的
艰难和重要. |
c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 9 sigh, 很难呀。
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: Empathy可能是区别一位真正优秀的therapist和其他人的地方, 这是一个技巧,但更像
: 一种天赋. 人生最本质和高深的道理, 往往不能告诉和教训, 更显得Therapist工作的
: 艰难和重要.
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 10 哦哦。。好象我做的一个测试说我有
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: Empathy可能是区别一位真正优秀的therapist和其他人的地方, 这是一个技巧,但更像
: 一种天赋. 人生最本质和高深的道理, 往往不能告诉和教训, 更显得Therapist工作的
: 艰难和重要.
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 11 有管啥用，要看程度，:D
【在 w****r 的大作中提到】
: 哦哦。。好象我做的一个测试说我有
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