l********h 发帖数: 1026 | 1 很长一段时间了,对自己对生活几乎失去了信心,和老公的关系也越来越差,想试试看
心理咨询能不能帮助我,但自己语言又不是很好,日常的交流还可以,但遇到有口音语
速快的就听不太懂,表达复杂的感情也比较困难,不知道怎么办,有提供翻译的心理医
生么? |
q******n 发帖数: 661 | 2 this is the worse piece of advise ever
it's not that difficult to find a psychiatrist
just yelp, it's not that expensive if you look for a few
don't look for psychologist, go look for 能开药的 psychiatrist.
just google "depression". depression is a physical|biological disease
caused by chemical imbalance(lack of serotonin) in the brain.
the sooner you get medication, the better, don't wait! and never listen to
people who tell you that you don't need medicine |
q******n 发帖数: 661 | 3 去开药不需要很长时间的咨询,但是如果是真的抑郁症的话,吃药非常重要,看上面的
贴。
没有华人朋友可以帮你翻译的话,可以找华人教会。
越早去越好,抑郁恶化以后一些人都出不了门下不了床
【在 l********h 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 很长一段时间了,对自己对生活几乎失去了信心,和老公的关系也越来越差,想试试看 : 心理咨询能不能帮助我,但自己语言又不是很好,日常的交流还可以,但遇到有口音语 : 速快的就听不太懂,表达复杂的感情也比较困难,不知道怎么办,有提供翻译的心理医 : 生么?
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l********h 发帖数: 1026 | 4 谢谢建议,我目前想找的还是能够做咨询,给我一些心理上的帮助的人,自己感觉还没
到抑郁症的程度。如果真的需要药物的话,我想咨询医生也会告诉我吧。
昨天找了一圈,找到两个说中文的,电话留了言给他们,看看今天能不能收到回应。
如果实在不行,还得找老美,不知道能沟通到什么程度。
【在 q******n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 去开药不需要很长时间的咨询,但是如果是真的抑郁症的话,吃药非常重要,看上面的 : 贴。 : 没有华人朋友可以帮你翻译的话,可以找华人教会。 : 越早去越好,抑郁恶化以后一些人都出不了门下不了床
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m*******g 发帖数: 7050 | 5 she just needs a psychotherapist, not psychiatrist. there's a big difference
. and googling is indeed the worst way to find a therapist.
most therapist are obtained through referral. ask your friends, colleagues,
anyone you know, to recommend a good one.
then it's your own call to decide if you like this therapist. it's like a
romantic relationship, you must have chemistry with the doctor. if u find
the person not likeable, or itimidating, or u dont want to talk to, then try
another one.
【在 q******n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : this is the worse piece of advise ever : it's not that difficult to find a psychiatrist : just yelp, it's not that expensive if you look for a few : don't look for psychologist, go look for 能开药的 psychiatrist. : just google "depression". depression is a physical|biological disease : caused by chemical imbalance(lack of serotonin) in the brain. : the sooner you get medication, the better, don't wait! and never listen to : people who tell you that you don't need medicine
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l********h 发帖数: 1026 | 6 Thanks a lot!
difference
,
try
【在 m*******g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : she just needs a psychotherapist, not psychiatrist. there's a big difference : . and googling is indeed the worst way to find a therapist. : most therapist are obtained through referral. ask your friends, colleagues, : anyone you know, to recommend a good one. : then it's your own call to decide if you like this therapist. it's like a : romantic relationship, you must have chemistry with the doctor. if u find : the person not likeable, or itimidating, or u dont want to talk to, then try : another one.
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q******n 发帖数: 661 | 7 It depends.
Neither of us is a doctor.
As far as I know, if you don't take medicine early enough, things can get a
lot worse later, and you will no longer have the strength left to call for
help or even go outside.
In US, psychologists or therapists can not give prescription.
difference
,
try
【在 m*******g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : she just needs a psychotherapist, not psychiatrist. there's a big difference : . and googling is indeed the worst way to find a therapist. : most therapist are obtained through referral. ask your friends, colleagues, : anyone you know, to recommend a good one. : then it's your own call to decide if you like this therapist. it's like a : romantic relationship, you must have chemistry with the doctor. if u find : the person not likeable, or itimidating, or u dont want to talk to, then try : another one.
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i***y 发帖数: 246 | 8 建议可以找找附近的教堂去上那里的婚姻辅导课 很多中国人教堂也有。个人感觉非常
有用。很多婚姻的问题是心里的而不是生理上的。吃药不一定有效果 |
y**s 发帖数: 563 | 9 心理咨询首先是保密。你和你老公最好去找一找family therapist。不过话又说会来,
中国人去看心理医生,十有八九都该吃药了。"对生活几乎失去了信心"-----是很严重.
【在 l********h 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 很长一段时间了,对自己对生活几乎失去了信心,和老公的关系也越来越差,想试试看 : 心理咨询能不能帮助我,但自己语言又不是很好,日常的交流还可以,但遇到有口音语 : 速快的就听不太懂,表达复杂的感情也比较困难,不知道怎么办,有提供翻译的心理医 : 生么?
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z****u 发帖数: 2629 | 10 药不要乱吃。
很多副作用。
真正到了clinical depression那就吃药。
一般人遇到depression,是因为危机trigger的,是后天的,一般来说,就是therapist
就够了。
而且shrink在美国很普遍,几乎shrink自己都需要shrink,lol
重.
【在 y**s 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 心理咨询首先是保密。你和你老公最好去找一找family therapist。不过话又说会来, : 中国人去看心理医生,十有八九都该吃药了。"对生活几乎失去了信心"-----是很严重.
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q******n 发帖数: 661 | 11 你的语气比医生还坚定?
第一,在美国除了physician|psychiatrist, 谁开得到精神药物? 何来乱吃问题?
第二,到了真正clinical depression根本就不会跑到论坛上来求救了。
到时候就真晚了,去早看医生非常重要,therapist在美国不是医生,为什么那么多人
一口咬定lz去xxx就够了
第三,美国是世界上精神病理研究最发达的国家,市场上有几百种抑郁症的药,很多副
作用极小,如果自己不乱加量减量的话,为什么跑出来用副作用什么吓唬人,抑郁不及
时治疗严重的后果就是自杀,你说这个和一点副作用比,哪个严重
当然我也不是医生,无法给lz诊断,首先告诉你要解除国人对抑郁症的不理解和歧视,
其次就是在医生的指导下循序渐进的治疗,只有有经验的医生可以告诉你你需要哪种治
疗方式。
therapist
【在 z****u 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 药不要乱吃。 : 很多副作用。 : 真正到了clinical depression那就吃药。 : 一般人遇到depression,是因为危机trigger的,是后天的,一般来说,就是therapist : 就够了。 : 而且shrink在美国很普遍,几乎shrink自己都需要shrink,lol : : 重.
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q******n 发帖数: 661 | 12 另外谁说抑郁症是先天的?
很多孕妇因为荷尔蒙混乱导致产后抑郁症。
这是一种病理,但不要怕,不是什么神经病,国人认为只有神经病才需要吃药。这个就
是误解和歧视。
therapist
【在 z****u 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 药不要乱吃。 : 很多副作用。 : 真正到了clinical depression那就吃药。 : 一般人遇到depression,是因为危机trigger的,是后天的,一般来说,就是therapist : 就够了。 : 而且shrink在美国很普遍,几乎shrink自己都需要shrink,lol : : 重.
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m*******g 发帖数: 7050 | 13 I was.
a
【在 q******n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : It depends. : Neither of us is a doctor. : As far as I know, if you don't take medicine early enough, things can get a : lot worse later, and you will no longer have the strength left to call for : help or even go outside. : In US, psychologists or therapists can not give prescription. : : difference : , : try
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l******e 发帖数: 41 | 14 Find a Chinese psychiatrist. A talk therapy is always helpful. |