很多心理健康的文章看起来都太学术化抽象化了。来点简单些的。最近看了一些
codependence的描述的文章。好像在中国这样的情况不太显得突出，也没听说过。我自
己看了一下，觉得很多都符合我自己，最近正在寻思要改进。 http://www.silcom.com/~joy2meu/column.htm
The “stinking thinking” of Codependency causes us to have a dysfunctional
relationship with ourselves and others. These are some traits of that
stinking thinking:
1. Black and White Thinking:
The disease comes from an absolute black and white, right/wrong, always
and never perspective. “I will always be alone.” “I never get a break.
” Any
