s***x
发帖数: 293 | 1 有个同事人很好，我们关系不错。可突然最近感觉如果在一起太近，比如吃饭坐一个饭
桌，就全身不舒服，距离稍微远一点，就没事。我们没什么矛盾，总觉得这种感觉怪怪
的。
能分析下么，谢谢！ | b****o
发帖数: 35 | 2 It is more about what your comfort zone and physical boundary is. People may
be different on this. Normally, people would feel ok if they are 1m away
from others (e.g. strangers). The closer relationship you have with somebody
, the more comfortable you will feel when you are closer to this person.
From what you said, it seems ok to me. Just for reference~ | s***x
发帖数: 293 | 3 Thanks! But that distance between he and me was fine before, and in my side,
I think we are still closed friends as before. It is very strange!
may
somebody
【在 b****o 的大作中提到】
: It is more about what your comfort zone and physical boundary is. People may
: be different on this. Normally, people would feel ok if they are 1m away
: from others (e.g. strangers). The closer relationship you have with somebody
: , the more comfortable you will feel when you are closer to this person.
: From what you said, it seems ok to me. Just for reference~
| j*********u
发帖数: 609 | 4 就这一个人还是其他人也是这样？
【在 s***x 的大作中提到】
: 有个同事人很好，我们关系不错。可突然最近感觉如果在一起太近，比如吃饭坐一个饭
: 桌，就全身不舒服，距离稍微远一点，就没事。我们没什么矛盾，总觉得这种感觉怪怪
: 的。
: 能分析下么，谢谢！
| b****o
发帖数: 35 | 5 Normally if you feel psychologically closer to someone, you will be able to
stay with a closer physical distance as well. But these two concepts do not
always go hand in hand. Say in your case, it would be the psychological
distance is closer than the physical one. As long as you feel ok about this,
you may not want to worry to much about it. However, if these two are too
different, say, you feel close to him psychologically, but would only be
comfortable when he is 10 metres away from you. Then |
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