l*******t 发帖数: 506 | 1 Living Social has a great deal on the 9/25 Chargers Game, anyone
interested to go together? $84 or $90 includes a game ticket and a sea world
ticket and $20 coupon for food at Daphanes. Link is below, I'm buying the $
90 package.
http://livingsocial.com/deals/128497?ref=personalized-link-box-
if three more people buy the ticket using this link, I get the ticket free,
the four of us will evenly share the total cost.
Let me know. Thanks. | l*******t 发帖数: 506 | 2 Anybody???
Go Chargers!! | I*****y 发帖数: 6402 | 3 i think it's against the board rule to post any referral link that benefits
the posters (in this case, you!).
world
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【在 l*******t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Living Social has a great deal on the 9/25 Chargers Game, anyone : interested to go together? $84 or $90 includes a game ticket and a sea world : ticket and $20 coupon for food at Daphanes. Link is below, I'm buying the $ : 90 package. : http://livingsocial.com/deals/128497?ref=personalized-link-box- : if three more people buy the ticket using this link, I get the ticket free, : the four of us will evenly share the total cost. : Let me know. Thanks.
| y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 4 referral link
BM, please remove.
world
,
【在 l*******t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Living Social has a great deal on the 9/25 Chargers Game, anyone : interested to go together? $84 or $90 includes a game ticket and a sea world : ticket and $20 coupon for food at Daphanes. Link is below, I'm buying the $ : 90 package. : http://livingsocial.com/deals/128497?ref=personalized-link-box- : if three more people buy the ticket using this link, I get the ticket free, : the four of us will evenly share the total cost. : Let me know. Thanks.
| l*******t 发帖数: 506 | 5 My post clearly states the referal benefits not just myself, but everyone
that eventually join me. It would be a win-win for everyone interested. If
you don't like the post, you can simply ignore. is that so hard??? How the
hell did my post bother you that you have to jump in? Who do you think you
are? watch dog policing other people's posts? don't you have better things
to do??? get a life, do yourself and everyone else a favor!
在 IVYtony (村委书记) 的大作中提到: 】
benefits | y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 6 publicly offering a referral link is against the board rules
if you have a problem with that, go ask BM to have the rules changed.
until then, please respect the rules everyone adheres to.
【在 l*******t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My post clearly states the referal benefits not just myself, but everyone : that eventually join me. It would be a win-win for everyone interested. If : you don't like the post, you can simply ignore. is that so hard??? How the : hell did my post bother you that you have to jump in? Who do you think you : are? watch dog policing other people's posts? don't you have better things : to do??? get a life, do yourself and everyone else a favor! : 在 IVYtony (村委书记) 的大作中提到: 】 : benefits
| l*******t 发帖数: 506 | 7 I have no problem with any rules. I do have a problem with certain people's
certain behavior/comments on my post. That's all. If the BM determines that
my post violates any rules, any actions taken by BM, I fully support.
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : publicly offering a referral link is against the board rules : if you have a problem with that, go ask BM to have the rules changed. : until then, please respect the rules everyone adheres to.
| p*****r 发帖数: 361 | 8 I do think he has a point. Do not be that rigid. Sometimes you need to know
where you can bend the rule.
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : publicly offering a referral link is against the board rules : if you have a problem with that, go ask BM to have the rules changed. : until then, please respect the rules everyone adheres to.
| y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 9 I see his point as well
people make rules. people break the rules. people make new rules.
I understand rules can and do change.
during last year's debate, I proposed an alternative,
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/SanDiego/31486299.html
I've given it another thought regarding the referrals on SD board. here are
my proposals,
option 1, provide a direct link to the deal, referral link is not allowed,
mention that you can refer, so interested party can contact you offline.
this way it becomes a private matter between the referrer and referee, and
you two should work things out in private. none of other people's business.
option 2, provide both the direct and referral link, spell out whether you,
as a referrer, are willing to share the benefit or not. If you do, give a
practical way to compensate the referee for using your referral - paypal,
amazon payment, BofA transfer, Chase quickpay, amazon e-gift card, cash in
person, a buffet treat, etc.
just some random thoughts for BM and all of you to consider.
In my opinion, it is better to have the rules in place than bend the rules
as we go.
know
【在 p*****r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I do think he has a point. Do not be that rigid. Sometimes you need to know : where you can bend the rule.
| p*****r 发帖数: 361 | 10 No, you did not see his point.
He is actually calling for a group buy, not you-buy-and-I-get-commission
type. He specifically mentioned "the four of us will evenly share the total
cost". This kind of activities are allowed, right? At least I saw a couple
of times ladies buy cosmetics in that way.
I agree with you that a rule is a rule and we should not bend it easily.
However, life is not just black and white. Sometimes you do need to know how
to deal with bordorline cases.
Have to say BattleMage is quite good in this regard.
are
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I see his point as well : people make rules. people break the rules. people make new rules. : I understand rules can and do change. : during last year's debate, I proposed an alternative, : http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/SanDiego/31486299.html : I've given it another thought regarding the referrals on SD board. here are : my proposals, : option 1, provide a direct link to the deal, referral link is not allowed, : mention that you can refer, so interested party can contact you offline. : this way it becomes a private matter between the referrer and referee, and
| | | y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 11 it is a bit of stretch to say this referral is a group buy. the distinction
between the two is clear. if you must, it is more like a group buy organizer
receives a kick-back and decides to share it with other group members.
exceptions or borderline issues should be extraordinary. when they become
the norms, you know it is time to change the rules. we do need an open-
minded BM to make judgement calls once in a while, but well-thought-out
rules can deal with the majority of the violations. To be honest, I trust a
system rather than an individual no matter how good he/she is.
BTW, I actually think it is not a good idea to organize a group buy mainly
on SD board. a more efficient way would work like this, make an announcement
on the board, recruit the participants who are interested, then share the
info and updates via a private mailing list.
I've PMed BattleMage the link of this thread to bring his attention to the
referrals on the board. I surely hope he can comment on this problem.
total
how
【在 p*****r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : No, you did not see his point. : He is actually calling for a group buy, not you-buy-and-I-get-commission : type. He specifically mentioned "the four of us will evenly share the total : cost". This kind of activities are allowed, right? At least I saw a couple : of times ladies buy cosmetics in that way. : I agree with you that a rule is a rule and we should not bend it easily. : However, life is not just black and white. Sometimes you do need to know how : to deal with bordorline cases. : Have to say BattleMage is quite good in this regard. :
| p*****r 发帖数: 361 | 12 Man, I don't know what to say - you sound like a saint, just a bit boring...
BBS is a place for small chat and information exchange. If there are so many
no-nos,it just kills joy...
distinction
organizer
a
announcement
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : it is a bit of stretch to say this referral is a group buy. the distinction : between the two is clear. if you must, it is more like a group buy organizer : receives a kick-back and decides to share it with other group members. : exceptions or borderline issues should be extraordinary. when they become : the norms, you know it is time to change the rules. we do need an open- : minded BM to make judgement calls once in a while, but well-thought-out : rules can deal with the majority of the violations. To be honest, I trust a : system rather than an individual no matter how good he/she is. : BTW, I actually think it is not a good idea to organize a group buy mainly : on SD board. a more efficient way would work like this, make an announcement
| B********e 发帖数: 1199 | 13 嗯,这种情况好像比较难处理。我看先这样:
1. 我先把你原帖中的Refer链接去掉,以后你可以换成原链接。(direct link)
2. 你可以提示有兴趣的同学跟你私下联系,然后你给他们你的Referral链接。这样你
们可以均摊费用。
大家看还有没有更好的办法?
world
,
【在 l*******t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Living Social has a great deal on the 9/25 Chargers Game, anyone : interested to go together? $84 or $90 includes a game ticket and a sea world : ticket and $20 coupon for food at Daphanes. Link is below, I'm buying the $ : 90 package. : http://livingsocial.com/deals/128497?ref=personalized-link-box- : if three more people buy the ticket using this link, I get the ticket free, : the four of us will evenly share the total cost. : Let me know. Thanks.
| y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 14 points well taken //hehe
I'm flattered to be compared with a saint. To me, I'm more like that
annoying, nagging uncle in every family who always tell you to do the right
things.
believe it or not, I'm a fun loving person, too. all I was trying to say is
to have fun and have fun responsibly (take a look at a beer bottle).
if you happen to know a public place on Earth where you can have fun at your
please, do let me know. I'd like to indulge myself once in while to escape
from my boring life. :-)
Since BattleMage has spoken on this issue, I'll just shut up.
Have a great weekend!
..
many
【在 p*****r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Man, I don't know what to say - you sound like a saint, just a bit boring... : BBS is a place for small chat and information exchange. If there are so many : no-nos,it just kills joy... : : distinction : organizer : a : announcement
| l*******t 发帖数: 506 | 15 没意见. 我之前是不知道有此版规...
Enjoy the weekend and the Game tomorrow. Chargers will rout the pats. Go
Chargers!!!
【在 B********e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嗯,这种情况好像比较难处理。我看先这样: : 1. 我先把你原帖中的Refer链接去掉,以后你可以换成原链接。(direct link) : 2. 你可以提示有兴趣的同学跟你私下联系,然后你给他们你的Referral链接。这样你 : 们可以均摊费用。 : 大家看还有没有更好的办法? : : world : ,
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