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Ski版 - 感慨一下美国小孩的教育方式
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c*******r
发帖数: 13580
1
今天在一个ridge上,往侧面下的话黑道的坡度吧,blue ice, 30+MPH风,风扬起的雪
夹杂着小石子打在脸上生疼,能见度10米,我停了一下,看了一下道,准备下。看见旁
边有一个小姑娘,不超过7岁,她爸爸让她下,小姑娘带着哭腔说"it's so scary",她
爸爸还是鼓励她下。我下到坡底,停下来看了看,小姑娘摇摇晃晃的wedge着就下来了。
有这样的家长,小孩长大了能不tough么
m***h
发帖数: 23691
2
我们这五六岁的娃娃都自己下双黑了

了。

【在 c*******r 的大作中提到】
: 今天在一个ridge上,往侧面下的话黑道的坡度吧,blue ice, 30+MPH风,风扬起的雪
: 夹杂着小石子打在脸上生疼,能见度10米,我停了一下,看了一下道,准备下。看见旁
: 边有一个小姑娘,不超过7岁,她爸爸让她下,小姑娘带着哭腔说"it's so scary",她
: 爸爸还是鼓励她下。我下到坡底,停下来看了看,小姑娘摇摇晃晃的wedge着就下来了。
: 有这样的家长,小孩长大了能不tough么

c*n
发帖数: 2274
3
还是要看爸妈的技术。那个爸爸肯定是对自己技术有信心才会让孩子 下去的。我以前
一个学生说他小学就跟爸爸去徒手攀岩,那时候也不知道害怕,他爸爸就让他只跟着爬
,不要看其他地方。有一次手一滑,就往下掉,他爸一把就揪住了。要是他爸没有十分
的把握肯定也不会带着儿子玩命。
x***k
发帖数: 3311
4
Yeah, I know how it's exactly.
My daughter does not go skiing with me anymore because she said I always
pushed her so hard, although she could come down from some "Expert Only"
runs.
k***z
发帖数: 3522
5
I can understand your daughter, I can barely follow you myself, haha

【在 x***k 的大作中提到】
: Yeah, I know how it's exactly.
: My daughter does not go skiing with me anymore because she said I always
: pushed her so hard, although she could come down from some "Expert Only"
: runs.

n*******y
发帖数: 259
6
Can not agree with this kind of "education"...kids have their own boundary,
extra push could easily break it and
setback their expectations of the sports. Sports should be started with fun
, not fear/danger or high risk.
For any sports with high speed, ski particularly, safety is the number one
lesson everyone should learn and
should be taught to kids at the first class. Please, everyone on this board
, DO NOT risk you or your kids'
life to do those dumb daring things. A careful dad always kn
x***k
发帖数: 3311
7
Parents always set limits. You know when a kid coming down crying, it may be too far but it will be appreciated when growing up. No body can replace the true love parents have towards their children, let alone risking for injury. When we ski, I always ski behind my daugter and make wider turns just to pretect her and let her set her own pace. I did not have parents play any sports with me growing up and I so wish I did and pushed me each time.
notreally - JK!

,
fun
board

【在 n*******y 的大作中提到】
: Can not agree with this kind of "education"...kids have their own boundary,
: extra push could easily break it and
: setback their expectations of the sports. Sports should be started with fun
: , not fear/danger or high risk.
: For any sports with high speed, ski particularly, safety is the number one
: lesson everyone should learn and
: should be taught to kids at the first class. Please, everyone on this board
: , DO NOT risk you or your kids'
: life to do those dumb daring things. A careful dad always kn

T*********e
发帖数: 39815
8
skiing is about to control (speed)
if you can not control, what is the point to be fast?
I believe when parents encourage their kids to do something, they know the
boundary very well instead of pushing their kids out of boundary.

,
fun
board

【在 n*******y 的大作中提到】
: Can not agree with this kind of "education"...kids have their own boundary,
: extra push could easily break it and
: setback their expectations of the sports. Sports should be started with fun
: , not fear/danger or high risk.
: For any sports with high speed, ski particularly, safety is the number one
: lesson everyone should learn and
: should be taught to kids at the first class. Please, everyone on this board
: , DO NOT risk you or your kids'
: life to do those dumb daring things. A careful dad always kn

c*******r
发帖数: 13580
9
I believe it was within the little girl's limits and she just felt a little
scared. The steep section was pretty short with a very wide runout, I don't
think it was dangerous.

,
fun
board

【在 n*******y 的大作中提到】
: Can not agree with this kind of "education"...kids have their own boundary,
: extra push could easily break it and
: setback their expectations of the sports. Sports should be started with fun
: , not fear/danger or high risk.
: For any sports with high speed, ski particularly, safety is the number one
: lesson everyone should learn and
: should be taught to kids at the first class. Please, everyone on this board
: , DO NOT risk you or your kids'
: life to do those dumb daring things. A careful dad always kn

x***k
发帖数: 3311
10
haha... if you were my daughter - not that I were THAT old, then I did not
need the speed and BSO stuff. I would follow you instead.

【在 x***k 的大作中提到】
: Yeah, I know how it's exactly.
: My daughter does not go skiing with me anymore because she said I always
: pushed her so hard, although she could come down from some "Expert Only"
: runs.

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T*****u
发帖数: 7103
11
主要是老美干这个太多了,所以他们想起来也没啥太特别的

了。

【在 c*******r 的大作中提到】
: 今天在一个ridge上,往侧面下的话黑道的坡度吧,blue ice, 30+MPH风,风扬起的雪
: 夹杂着小石子打在脸上生疼,能见度10米,我停了一下,看了一下道,准备下。看见旁
: 边有一个小姑娘,不超过7岁,她爸爸让她下,小姑娘带着哭腔说"it's so scary",她
: 爸爸还是鼓励她下。我下到坡底,停下来看了看,小姑娘摇摇晃晃的wedge着就下来了。
: 有这样的家长,小孩长大了能不tough么

s*******m
发帖数: 2572
12

了。
俺曾经看见一个当爹带着一个撑死了五岁大的男娃和一条狗,停在mogul半道。爸让娃
滑,娃说太累了,爸还是坚持,娃耍赖脱了雪板趟在小雪包上。。。。俺当时还是新手
啊,看着那一个个的小鼓包和旁边那个跟鼓包差不多高的孩子,完全无语了。。。。

【在 c*******r 的大作中提到】
: 今天在一个ridge上,往侧面下的话黑道的坡度吧,blue ice, 30+MPH风,风扬起的雪
: 夹杂着小石子打在脸上生疼,能见度10米,我停了一下,看了一下道,准备下。看见旁
: 边有一个小姑娘,不超过7岁,她爸爸让她下,小姑娘带着哭腔说"it's so scary",她
: 爸爸还是鼓励她下。我下到坡底,停下来看了看,小姑娘摇摇晃晃的wedge着就下来了。
: 有这样的家长,小孩长大了能不tough么

m***h
发帖数: 23691
13
狗最厉害了,不管什么样的坡都敢下

【在 s*******m 的大作中提到】
:
: 了。
: 俺曾经看见一个当爹带着一个撑死了五岁大的男娃和一条狗,停在mogul半道。爸让娃
: 滑,娃说太累了,爸还是坚持,娃耍赖脱了雪板趟在小雪包上。。。。俺当时还是新手
: 啊,看着那一个个的小鼓包和旁边那个跟鼓包差不多高的孩子,完全无语了。。。。

W*****5
发帖数: 408
14
下得了三妹下的平坡吗?破狗臭猫还不给埋起来啦!

【在 m***h 的大作中提到】
: 狗最厉害了,不管什么样的坡都敢下
m***h
发帖数: 23691
15
太无知了,破狗跟我们一起backcountry的

【在 W*****5 的大作中提到】
: 下得了三妹下的平坡吗?破狗臭猫还不给埋起来啦!
N**D
发帖数: 10322
16
让it后退着地,站着下去,试试

【在 m***h 的大作中提到】
: 狗最厉害了,不管什么样的坡都敢下
q*c
发帖数: 17993
17
父亲保护好就可以了,下完了抱抱安慰鼓励和奖励一下

了。

【在 c*******r 的大作中提到】
: 今天在一个ridge上,往侧面下的话黑道的坡度吧,blue ice, 30+MPH风,风扬起的雪
: 夹杂着小石子打在脸上生疼,能见度10米,我停了一下,看了一下道,准备下。看见旁
: 边有一个小姑娘,不超过7岁,她爸爸让她下,小姑娘带着哭腔说"it's so scary",她
: 爸爸还是鼓励她下。我下到坡底,停下来看了看,小姑娘摇摇晃晃的wedge着就下来了。
: 有这样的家长,小孩长大了能不tough么

x***k
发帖数: 3311
18
That's the whole deal and the children would thank the parents later for
lifetime.

【在 q*c 的大作中提到】
: 父亲保护好就可以了,下完了抱抱安慰鼓励和奖励一下
:
: 了。

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