b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 1 一直以为你是上海人:P
版上哪位大牛的马甲!
原来是ABC!
你咋知道的这MITBBS呢? |
s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 2 Yes, my mom is from Shanghai. But I speak Mandarin the best, also speak 粤语
. Can understand and speak a little 北方話, 閩語, 湘語, 客家話, 赣语.
I am also fluent in French, German, Spanish and can speak some Russian and
Hindi and Arabic.
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 一直以为你是上海人:P : 版上哪位大牛的马甲! : 原来是ABC! : 你咋知道的这MITBBS呢?
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i****y 发帖数: 5184 | 3 快来看仙女。。。
shning你多来这个版讲东西,我做你的fans。
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Yes, my mom is from Shanghai. But I speak Mandarin the best, also speak 粤语 : . Can understand and speak a little 北方話, 閩語, 湘語, 客家話, 赣语. : I am also fluent in French, German, Spanish and can speak some Russian and : Hindi and Arabic.
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 4 My older sister told me about the Mitbbs, she use to visit quite often, but
is now busy with her kids and work.
I am on sabbatical right now, so my sister give me a few sites to visit in
case I got bored, and she knows I like my kids to interact with other
chinese kids.
So this board become one of the few I begin to visit on daily basis now (at
least for a while)
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 一直以为你是上海人:P : 版上哪位大牛的马甲! : 原来是ABC! : 你咋知道的这MITBBS呢?
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i****y 发帖数: 5184 | 5 你是做啥的,有sabbatical?
我要是有sabbatical我一定会bored,我有一个常常list的事情要做。
but
at
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My older sister told me about the Mitbbs, she use to visit quite often, but : is now busy with her kids and work. : I am on sabbatical right now, so my sister give me a few sites to visit in : case I got bored, and she knows I like my kids to interact with other : chinese kids. : So this board become one of the few I begin to visit on daily basis now (at : least for a while)
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 6 My company offer it after 10 years working for them.
Sorry I don't want to give out too much private info here on board, hope you
can understand.
I am in management position and been with the same company since I graduated.
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 你是做啥的,有sabbatical? : 我要是有sabbatical我一定会bored,我有一个常常list的事情要做。 : : but : at
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i****y 发帖数: 5184 | 7 no worries. I probabaly shouldn't have asked.
you
graduated.
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My company offer it after 10 years working for them. : Sorry I don't want to give out too much private info here on board, hope you : can understand. : I am in management position and been with the same company since I graduated.
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b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 8 这么多语言咋学的?!!!
虽说俺曾经梦想过让俺BB学至少4种语言,
不过语言这东西除了环境,还是要有天份的。
俺们一家都没那天份。。。
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Yes, my mom is from Shanghai. But I speak Mandarin the best, also speak 粤语 : . Can understand and speak a little 北方話, 閩語, 湘語, 客家話, 赣语. : I am also fluent in French, German, Spanish and can speak some Russian and : Hindi and Arabic.
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b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 9 how old are your kids?
but
at
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My older sister told me about the Mitbbs, she use to visit quite often, but : is now busy with her kids and work. : I am on sabbatical right now, so my sister give me a few sites to visit in : case I got bored, and she knows I like my kids to interact with other : chinese kids. : So this board become one of the few I begin to visit on daily basis now (at : least for a while)
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 10 My mom speak上海话, father speak 閩語, at home we only speak Mandarin, I
learn to speak English after I go to school (day care), I also picked up
spanish from other kids in school. I studied a little french in high school
and a little german in college.
I was recruited into a special new hire problem, that put me in a rotation
program for the first 6 year (1 year in each division/office which happen to
be in six different countries), that way it will give me experience about
the company and how each division operated. After that is over, I was
assigned to work in China for a while due to that fact I can speak Chinese,
I traveled to different parts of china and picked up more dialects from
local people.
If you want your kids to learn more language, it is best to start young (
before 18 month according some studies). It is ok to only talk to your kids
in chinese at home until they go to school (they will speak english with an
accent in the beginning, but it will go away very quickly), that way your
kids are at least bilingual without much effort. Teach them to read and
write chinese can be difficult, but if you insist, they can be good (enough)
. If they can not write, make sure they can at least speak and read.
这么多语言咋学的?!!!
虽说俺曾经梦想过让俺BB学至少4种语言,
不过语言这东西除了环境,还是要有天份的。
俺们一家都没那天份。。。
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Yes, my mom is from Shanghai. But I speak Mandarin the best, also speak 粤语 : . Can understand and speak a little 北方話, 閩語, 湘語, 客家話, 赣语. : I am also fluent in French, German, Spanish and can speak some Russian and : Hindi and Arabic.
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d******d 发帖数: 2210 | 11 偶像
我们家也说两种方言,希望我们家的小ABC也能pick up一点点.
school
to
,
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My mom speak上海话, father speak 閩語, at home we only speak Mandarin, I : learn to speak English after I go to school (day care), I also picked up : spanish from other kids in school. I studied a little french in high school : and a little german in college. : I was recruited into a special new hire problem, that put me in a rotation : program for the first 6 year (1 year in each division/office which happen to : be in six different countries), that way it will give me experience about : the company and how each division operated. After that is over, I was : assigned to work in China for a while due to that fact I can speak Chinese, : I traveled to different parts of china and picked up more dialects from
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 12 Your mail box is full and I can not reply your IM because you are not online
. Please delete something from your mail box so I can get back to you.
Thanks,
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 快来看仙女。。。 : shning你多来这个版讲东西,我做你的fans。
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 13 I have 4, from 22 month to 12 year old.
I have an au pair from BJ helping me out (actually her whole family is
staying with us and help out)
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : how old are your kids? : : but : at
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 14 It is very easy, only talk to your kids in Chinese, never speak any english
to them at home and send them to chinese school on weekends to learn to read
and write simple chinese.
【在 d******d 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 偶像 : 我们家也说两种方言,希望我们家的小ABC也能pick up一点点. : : school : to : ,
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b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 15 真厉害!!:)
四个我是不敢想了现在:)
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I have 4, from 22 month to 12 year old. : I have an au pair from BJ helping me out (actually her whole family is : staying with us and help out)
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i****y 发帖数: 5184 | 16 不得不佩服我奶奶,当年生了16个
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 真厉害!!:) : 四个我是不敢想了现在:)
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x**n 发帖数: 12542 | 17 偶姥姥家是10个。现在国内的小孩太可怜了,连表兄弟姐妹都没了。
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 不得不佩服我奶奶,当年生了16个
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b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 18 真牛阿!!!
我奶奶生了八个,跨度有29年:P
俺很佩服的。
您家的比俺奶就更神了!!!
都活下来了么?
困难时候,不容易阿。
俺奶奶爷爷很不容易养活了一大家子。
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 不得不佩服我奶奶,当年生了16个
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i****y 发帖数: 5184 | 19 只活了3个。。。
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 真牛阿!!! : 我奶奶生了八个,跨度有29年:P : 俺很佩服的。 : 您家的比俺奶就更神了!!! : 都活下来了么? : 困难时候,不容易阿。 : 俺奶奶爷爷很不容易养活了一大家子。
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x**n 发帖数: 12542 | 20 太悲惨了,偶姥姥家是活下来8个,看来算比较幸运的了。
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 只活了3个。。。
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b*****n 发帖数: 10665 | 21 夜猫子阿。。。
【在 x**n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 太悲惨了,偶姥姥家是活下来8个,看来算比较幸运的了。
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S*********g 发帖数: 5298 | 22 我外婆生了10个,活下来1个。
【在 x**n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 太悲惨了,偶姥姥家是活下来8个,看来算比较幸运的了。
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x**n 发帖数: 12542 | 23 木办法呀。幸好明天不用排队。。。
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 夜猫子阿。。。
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T*R 发帖数: 25894 | 24 只活了X个是什么概念阿?只有X活过5岁还是现在活着的还有X个? |
x**n 发帖数: 12542 | 25 一般这个说法是只有x活到成年。
【在 T*R 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 只活了X个是什么概念阿?只有X活过5岁还是现在活着的还有X个?
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T*R 发帖数: 25894 | 26 貌似我父母两边,老婆母亲这边都存活了。
【在 x**n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 一般这个说法是只有x活到成年。
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z***y 发帖数: 7151 | 27 天赋异景啊同学!
在这个岗位上一坐就是8年,太不符合我的生活习性了!你当版主可有兴趣? 我和xlin
都要退休。
想选一个年富力强的。你可去站务申请。
I
picked up
school
rotation
happen to
about
was
Chinese,
from
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : My mom speak上海话, father speak 閩語, at home we only speak Mandarin, I : learn to speak English after I go to school (day care), I also picked up : spanish from other kids in school. I studied a little french in high school : and a little german in college. : I was recruited into a special new hire problem, that put me in a rotation : program for the first 6 year (1 year in each division/office which happen to : be in six different countries), that way it will give me experience about : the company and how each division operated. After that is over, I was : assigned to work in China for a while due to that fact I can speak Chinese, : I traveled to different parts of china and picked up more dialects from
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x**n 发帖数: 12542 | 28 偶还要继续奉献发光发热呢。
xlin
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 天赋异景啊同学! : 在这个岗位上一坐就是8年,太不符合我的生活习性了!你当版主可有兴趣? 我和xlin : 都要退休。 : 想选一个年富力强的。你可去站务申请。 : : I : picked up : school : rotation : happen to
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 29 Sorry, I am very new to Mitbbs, don't even know what 版主 suppose to do,
maybe after I am on here for a while. My job also be busy sometime along
with 4 kids I got, not sure I can dedicate enough time to serve here. I will
give some thinking about. Another thing, I am not sure how long we will
live in DC area.
xlin
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 天赋异景啊同学! : 在这个岗位上一坐就是8年,太不符合我的生活习性了!你当版主可有兴趣? 我和xlin : 都要退休。 : 想选一个年富力强的。你可去站务申请。 : : I : picked up : school : rotation : happen to
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 30 I think 3 to 4 is perfect.
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 真厉害!!:) : 四个我是不敢想了现在:)
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V*******9 发帖数: 54 | 31 I made a conscientious effort to speak only Chinese to my daughter at home.
However things are not as easy as you said. We do not have a Chinese-
speaking environment at home (my husband only speaks English). It was easier
for me to speak Chinese before my daughter started talking. Now she is 25-
month old and has quickly picked up English from the daycare and her dad. I
am out-numbered by the English speakers in her life. She starts showing
clear preference to English. Sadly, I found myself speaking English too just
trying to get her attention more quickly, or to better communicate with her
for fear the language barrier would hurt our mother-daughter bond. I am not
an ABC, but to be honest, I myself found it is easier to speak English than
play a mental gymnastic to translate everything into Chinese before opening
my mouth. Now I pretty much give it up. Anybody in the same boat?
english
read
【在 s****g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : It is very easy, only talk to your kids in Chinese, never speak any english : to them at home and send them to chinese school on weekends to learn to read : and write simple chinese.
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s****g 发帖数: 1028 | 32 You are a polyglot yourself, that means your kids can do too. It is best to
start young, you should never speak any english to daughter, if she want to
talk to you, she have to speak chinese.
Kids at young age can easily become multilingual, my olderest is brought up
with the help of my mother, she become naturally trilingual, she talk to
grandma in Shanghainese, talk to us (parents) in mandarin, she learns
english from school (day care). We did not have to spend any additional
effort to make her trilingual.
In fact all my children are polyglot without much effort, 2 of them are
showing potential to be hyperpolyglot like me. I do make them go to chinese
school to learn to read and write when they get a little bit older.
So do not give up, it is a gift to your child, and if possible let your
child spend summer in China, it will help a lot.
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easier
I
just
her
not
than
【在 V*******9 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I made a conscientious effort to speak only Chinese to my daughter at home. : However things are not as easy as you said. We do not have a Chinese- : speaking environment at home (my husband only speaks English). It was easier : for me to speak Chinese before my daughter started talking. Now she is 25- : month old and has quickly picked up English from the daycare and her dad. I : am out-numbered by the English speakers in her life. She starts showing : clear preference to English. Sadly, I found myself speaking English too just : trying to get her attention more quickly, or to better communicate with her : for fear the language barrier would hurt our mother-daughter bond. I am not : an ABC, but to be honest, I myself found it is easier to speak English than
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