m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 1 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的
qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息
了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老
师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify
的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找
系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。
现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。 |
w********r 发帖数: 14958 | 2 sorry to hear about it.
你导师铁了心不要你了。 去找找工作吧, 其实比读phd强。 |
k*********u 发帖数: 2897 | 3 换导师,或者换学校。
强扭得瓜不甜,这导师操蛋的话,你趁早走人比较好。 |
m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 4 请问换学校这个怎么操作啊?要重新申请吗?
【在 k*********u 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 换导师,或者换学校。 : 强扭得瓜不甜,这导师操蛋的话,你趁早走人比较好。
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y******n 发帖数: 8667 | 5
要重新申请
另外找个老师容易些。
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 请问换学校这个怎么操作啊?要重新申请吗?
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m*******u 发帖数: 6052 | 6 这个老师很mean,你还是早日脱离苦海吧,其实不想念完了phd 找教职的话,master找
工作才是正途 |
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c*****n 发帖数: 14445 | 8 当然别跟他了
他说的已经很清楚了
找工作吧 或者换老板
或者转成master
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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E*******e 发帖数: 1309 | 9 换mentor。要不就算最后你能留下来,估计也会折磨你,给你穿小鞋,然后你就会后悔
当初没有换实验室了。
而且才第一年,换还来得及 |
c***e 发帖数: 2554 | 10 换个导师应该不难吧
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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b*********g 发帖数: 1172 | 11 太丢中国人的脸了!应该跟它说最好转Master.
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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b********t 发帖数: 5261 | |
m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 14 电子,不过我导师搞的东西偏数学,基本没有coding,就怕找工作也不好找
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 你是啥专业啊,早转早托生
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w*********i 发帖数: 39 | 15 谁丢中国人的脸了
【在 b*********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 太丢中国人的脸了!应该跟它说最好转Master. : : qualify
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b********t 发帖数: 5261 | 16 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下
部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 电子,不过我导师搞的东西偏数学,基本没有coding,就怕找工作也不好找
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l****c 发帖数: 782 | 17 估计lz还没有准备好找工作呢。。。。。
lz,如果你有9个月的时间,就放手准备一下吧。
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下 : 部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
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m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 18 是啊,完全没有准备,还有一年时间,但是要上课,而且对找工作这块完全不了解。
【在 l****c 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 估计lz还没有准备好找工作呢。。。。。 : lz,如果你有9个月的时间,就放手准备一下吧。
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l****c 发帖数: 782 | 19 谁都是一点都不了解开始的,相信自己的话就抓紧准备,早晚要准备的。
我和你很像,但是我是想quit phd,但没能成功,要是有你这个机会,我会义不容辞转
身离开的。
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 是啊,完全没有准备,还有一年时间,但是要上课,而且对找工作这块完全不了解。
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b*********g 发帖数: 1172 | 21 LZ.
这么多人自个儿打工交学费,他有钱拿还JJYY不知干吗.
【在 w*********i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 谁丢中国人的脸了
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m********g 发帖数: 2323 | |
j*****d 发帖数: 1625 | 23 你这是赚到了阿。好抱怨什么?多少人希望拿导师的钱读master找码工工作走人的阿。
你这拿C,不过1/3的qualify,看来也是一招阿。值得向广大北美猥琐男女推广阿 |
d********f 发帖数: 43471 | 24 I am an expert of fortran 66, is it OK?
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下 : 部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
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D***r 发帖数: 7511 | 25 万一lz是学术型的,喜欢research呢
码工也不是人人都能当的,需要有自学的动力
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 考 给你master还不跑路 天上掉馅饼啊
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b********t 发帖数: 5261 | 26 那您一定是大牛,一般只有大牛才用这个。
【在 d********f 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I am an expert of fortran 66, is it OK?
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m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 27 其实学术或者工业界对我都可以,但是我编程不多,也不太喜欢,要上也只能硬着头皮
上了
【在 D***r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 万一lz是学术型的,喜欢research呢 : 码工也不是人人都能当的,需要有自学的动力
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s********t 发帖数: 4150 | 28 She may be making up excuses to dump you. Just find another advisor in the
dept.
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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s**********r 发帖数: 8153 | 29 你导师做的再正常不过了。
她为啥没权利这么做阿?
只要你做的她不满意,就又权利不要你。
不过你可以找其他导师。 |
s**********r 发帖数: 8153 | 30 嘻嘻,也给我指条明路吧
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下 : 部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
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b********t 发帖数: 5261 | 31 少上mitbbs
【在 s**********r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嘻嘻,也给我指条明路吧
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g*******y 发帖数: 2783 | |
s**********r 发帖数: 8153 | |
f*******w 发帖数: 1243 | 34 导师不错了,还给一个学期funding
赶紧转master找工作去吧 |
p******k 发帖数: 911 | |
R****a 发帖数: 6858 | 36 唉. 太倒霉了.
赶紧找其他导师吧, 这样mean的导师还是不要跟得好. |
b*********g 发帖数: 1172 | 37 嫁人。
【在 s**********r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 嘻嘻,也给我指条明路吧
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m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 38 印度女人
【在 p******k 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 肯定是中国女人或者亚洲女人
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L*******9 发帖数: 936 | |
G***s 发帖数: 10030 | 40
原来跟了个印度女老板。不过我一个同学跟的印度女老板,简直太好说话了,要啥给啥
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 印度女人
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y****o 发帖数: 50 | 42 这样的老师真恶心,没人性。我同学的就这样,然后他没日没夜地干活,第二年又过了
qual,然后老师又跟没事人一样又要他了,还说当初是为了锻炼他,吐!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!
建议先把master 拿下,使劲使劲地干活,自己学好本事,然后考过qual,提高成绩,然
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m*********7 发帖数: 343 | 43 当然是换老板,强扭的瓜不甜,现在才第一年,啥都好办,要是到了中间,她给你穿小
鞋,你哭都哭不出来。mean老板到处都有,以前还听说过学生在交通事故中受了伤,被
老板停funding的呢。 |
o***a 发帖数: 1373 | 44 赶紧转master,找工作。 现在开始自学coding,算法,多做题, 明年春天开始找。
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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c********u 发帖数: 143 | 46 那你同学后来又去了吗?必须一个华丽的转身走人才对~虽然各自有各自的利益,但是
也不能一点不体谅同学的具体情况。。lz换个老师好好努力呗,让他将来后悔去,一个
老师而已,有什么大不了的
【在 y****o 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 这样的老师真恶心,没人性。我同学的就这样,然后他没日没夜地干活,第二年又过了 : qual,然后老师又跟没事人一样又要他了,还说当初是为了锻炼他,吐!!!!!!! : !!!!!!!!! : 建议先把master 拿下,使劲使劲地干活,自己学好本事,然后考过qual,提高成绩,然 : 后主动权就在你了!
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G*****9 发帖数: 3225 | 47 Ph.D. does not mean that much at all. I got one and so what? The industry
world is huge and there should be an opportunity for you. I worked so hard
for my Ph.D., and only lost several years.
Take it easy. The previous message suggesting working hard on coding and a
master degree is right. For most people, earning a Ph.D. in Engineering only
trains them the ability to convince themselves that earning it is
worthwhile. When you step out of the campus, you will know that the effort
of publishing papers and dissertation is nothing.
If you care about economic return, then perhaps the only worthwhile degrees
come from Medical School, Law School and Business School. Even for Computer
Science, it still depends on your research direction. If you don't believe
me, go to a commencement and take a look on how many engineering Ph.D. are
graduating each year. The more graduated, the less valuable the degree is.
In my eyes, a EE master + an MBA pay you much better.
If you are a Niu Ren, you don' t need a Ph.D. to prove that; if you are
unfortunately not one, like me, a Ph.D. title does not help either. You can
certainly consider investing your time on work experience, networking,
professional major degrees, etc.
Several years ago, I got an offer to the US for a Ph.D. and my friend said
he got a son. Now, I got my Ph.D. and landed on a mediocre job and my friend
's so is going to a primary school. Several years ago, I was respected to
have a dream. But the dream lasts for too long. Is it worthwhile?
Last Thanksgiving holidays, I met a full professor in my department in
school. I wondered why he was there. He said that he is working on his new
book. I asked him the question: is it worthwhile to lead an academic life,
at the costs of fighting for teaching, coaching Ph.D., applying fundings,
etc. You know what? He said that to grow up, sometimes you must learn to
avoid questions that you don't like to think over.
That is the truth. In many cases, what we need is only a reason to be happy.
Whether the reason really makes sense does not matter; you need to learn to
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S**P 发帖数: 280 | 48 re
qualify
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我Phd刚上了一年,上学期由于身体原因,导师的一门课得了C,而且这个方向的 : qualify没有过(一共三个方向,其他两个都过了,学校要求两年内过都可以),休息 : 了一暑假,现在身体康复了。但是导师竟然不想带我了,让我转成master或者找其他老 : 师,我跟她解释上学期是因为身体原因,现在好了我会补上的,而且今年还有qualify : 的机会,她总说我课没学好会影响这一年的科研,草,上课跟科研有毛关系。她让我找 : 系主任商量,这学期暂时还给我funding。 : 现在我应该怎么办呀?导师有权利这样做吗?按照学校规定我是合格的呀。
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c******4 发帖数: 4896 | 49 强re
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下 : 部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
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m*****e 发帖数: 8 | 51 谢谢,我仔细考虑考虑,脑子有点乱
only
degrees
Computer
【在 G*****9 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Ph.D. does not mean that much at all. I got one and so what? The industry : world is huge and there should be an opportunity for you. I worked so hard : for my Ph.D., and only lost several years. : Take it easy. The previous message suggesting working hard on coding and a : master degree is right. For most people, earning a Ph.D. in Engineering only : trains them the ability to convince themselves that earning it is : worthwhile. When you step out of the campus, you will know that the effort : of publishing papers and dissertation is nothing. : If you care about economic return, then perhaps the only worthwhile degrees : come from Medical School, Law School and Business School. Even for Computer
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w*********p 发帖数: 3305 | 52
这有毛丢脸的阿???
【在 b*********g 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 太丢中国人的脸了!应该跟它说最好转Master. : : qualify
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c***r 发帖数: 1570 | |
t*****l 发帖数: 5477 | 54 You know what? He said that to grow up, sometimes you must learn to
avoid questions that you don't like to think over.
你彻底烦到他了!没得商量了!
only
degrees
Computer
【在 G*****9 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : Ph.D. does not mean that much at all. I got one and so what? The industry : world is huge and there should be an opportunity for you. I worked so hard : for my Ph.D., and only lost several years. : Take it easy. The previous message suggesting working hard on coding and a : master degree is right. For most people, earning a Ph.D. in Engineering only : trains them the ability to convince themselves that earning it is : worthwhile. When you step out of the campus, you will know that the effort : of publishing papers and dissertation is nothing. : If you care about economic return, then perhaps the only worthwhile degrees : come from Medical School, Law School and Business School. Even for Computer
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G*****9 发帖数: 3225 | 55 Take your time. Allow me to speak more.
Along with the inner recognition--recognizing your ability in doing great
job, you should consider the outter value system too. For example, what kind
of social resources can a degree trade you for? There are far less M.D. in
this world and therefore to obtain an M.D. leads to the door of more social
resources, like money and social status. If you work on an exclusive field
in EE and your contributions can trade you exclusive resources, e.g.
research project of a big company and accesses to executive people,
opportunities to do a start-up, etc., you may consider pursuing the Ph.D.,
even it is in Engineering School. If there are tons of people in your area
and you are only one out of one million people working there, then, the gain
from a Ph.D. is marginal. Considering the implicit costs, you may consider
alternatives.
Most Chinese students do their Ph.D. not because of substantial outter
recognition values. Don't tell me that your parents want that -- their
opinions should not affect you at your age. I know people working in my
major who started on a field with few competitors but high market potential.
They have a successful a career, more successful than most Chinese expect.
Yes, we are engineers and so what? Their got their own patent and earn a lot
! With their success, they even get to network with more important people.
That is the real value of being a Ph.D. Few master degree graduates in my
major have the access to that.
BTW, the chance for more publications is not necessarily a good one. Note,
there are research directions with which you can win more publications. My
friend's friend did his EE Ph.D. in China. He got some good ideas and he
sold his ideas well. His company is going to IPO soon. That is also a
successful Ph.D. story.
All in all, don't care much about your advisor's comments on you. Her/is
opinion is personal and may change with time and Sh/e may not even be a
successful Ph.D. at all. Think, can a professor in a mediocre schoo,
publishing mediocre papers without any good ideas be called successful?
Unfortunately, most professors are mediocre. One medicore plus another
usually produce a mediocre Ph.D.
Don't get hurt by my bitter words. If you are not mediocre, then stop those
mediocre ideas -- working hard to make a mediocre people think that you are
brilliant. Be brave and figure out your own way. Nothing is guaranteed, but
nothing is impossible!
【在 m*****e 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 谢谢,我仔细考虑考虑,脑子有点乱 : : only : degrees : Computer
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f*****n 发帖数: 12752 | 56 我们拿时候学的好象是fortran 77
【在 d********f 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : I am an expert of fortran 66, is it OK?
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s*******i 发帖数: 698 | 57 黑女和中国女faculty不要跟 没几个好下场的 |
k********4 发帖数: 858 | 58 呵呵,中国老板和阿三老板太mean,白老头种族歧视,看来就剩下黑男和白女老板了,
可是存在这样的faculty吗
【在 s*******i 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 黑女和中国女faculty不要跟 没几个好下场的
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k********4 发帖数: 858 | 59 典型文科大妈言论
【在 b********t 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 听姐一句话,赶快自学编程,任何一种语言精通都行,你这个基础绝对可以,就看你下 : 部下工夫。找实习,找工作。除非你想当faculty,我指的可是一条明路啊。
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d******g 发帖数: 346 | 60 She is a very nice adviser to support you for another semester.
Maybe you are not of Ph.D. quality in her eye, not just because of failing
in the qualification exam.
If you really want a Ph.D. degree, talk to other Professors to see if anyone
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m*********7 发帖数: 343 | 61 这话完全没科学依据,我两个老板,一个白老头,一个中国人,都是超级好的。都是自
己很厉害,对学生很好,对学生的training也很好的那种。而且,黑男和白女老板我也
见过,并不是没有。
【在 k********4 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 呵呵,中国老板和阿三老板太mean,白老头种族歧视,看来就剩下黑男和白女老板了, : 可是存在这样的faculty吗
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