t****n
发帖数: 193 | 1 快被这个女人榨干了，收到法律信函，我该怎么办？
离开这个贪得无厌的女人2年间不断收到她的各种要求，有来自她的律师的，有她个人
口头的，我都害怕她不让我见孩子，或待孩子不好妥协下来。
现在我刚有了新家，生活才有点改善她又让律师发来邮件给我。请问接下来我应该做什
么？等着她的律师给我通牒告诉我她想要什么？还是我有必要去找个律师？
刚结婚也没有什么钱去请律师，她的要求无非就是要更多抚养费，让我更少探望孩子。
我该怎样处理这事呢？
以下是邮件：
Mr. **,
Thanks for contacting about assisting with a mediation in the above
captioned matter. It is generally my policy not to contact prosepctive
mediation clients/parties until they have agreed to mediation and to use my
services. However, since Mr. ** is acting pro se at this time, I have
copied him on this email to at let him know that I am available and to
provide him with my website so he can see who I am and a little about
mediation.
My website is at ***** . My hourly fees are $150/hr split between the
parties, not the $200/hr quoted in the website, since I reduced my fees to
help with the recession. Fees are payable after each mediation session in
cash or by check. Am I correct in that Mr. ** would appear by phone? That
is relatively normal and we can work that out. Mr. ** is free to contact
me at any time at (509) 496-9714 if he decides to mediate and use my
services. I will read the court file ahead of time so I know what the file
says about the **. Saves time. My available days over the next few weeks
as of today are as listed below by week, and the days listed are for all day
, including evenings, unless otherwise stated.
Please let me know if you need more dates. A number of parties have been
these same dates, and it is first come first serve for whom confirms first.
Thanks again, and Regards,
我不知道发生了什么事，就给她的律师发了邮件请他告诉我是什么事情，她的律师回复：
No information to send you. Mediation is required in your parenting plan.
First, a disagreement about your daughter's need for counseling.
Second, you need a new parenting plan now that you are in Arizona. Mediation
exists for those two reasons.
我就只好在这里等律师通牒？还是可以采取什么行动？ 因为我都不知道她要做什么，
这律师也不告诉我。我一定要去找个律师吗？谢谢大家！ | t****n
发帖数: 193 | | l****2
发帖数: 688 | 3 帮顶
【在 t****n 的大作中提到】
: 快被这个女人榨干了，收到法律信函，我该怎么办？
: 离开这个贪得无厌的女人2年间不断收到她的各种要求，有来自她的律师的，有她个人
: 口头的，我都害怕她不让我见孩子，或待孩子不好妥协下来。
: 现在我刚有了新家，生活才有点改善她又让律师发来邮件给我。请问接下来我应该做什
: 么？等着她的律师给我通牒告诉我她想要什么？还是我有必要去找个律师？
: 刚结婚也没有什么钱去请律师，她的要求无非就是要更多抚养费，让我更少探望孩子。
: 我该怎样处理这事呢？
: 以下是邮件：
: Mr. **,
: Thanks for contacting about assisting with a mediation in the above
| P**5
发帖数: 7467 | 4 我默认你是中国男人
１ 把孩子尽量合法抢过来自己（或自己父母）养，不要女方一分钱。中国人是父系社
会，孩子理应归父亲所有。美国这套抚养费把戏不适合中国人。
２ 彻底不要这个孩子，一个钱也不要付，比如逃回中国。 | l*****e
发帖数: 1275 | 5 滚你的“孩子理应归父亲所有",穆斯林印度国家很父系，滚去那吧。
【在 P**5 的大作中提到】
: 我默认你是中国男人
: １ 把孩子尽量合法抢过来自己（或自己父母）养，不要女方一分钱。中国人是父系社
: 会，孩子理应归父亲所有。美国这套抚养费把戏不适合中国人。
: ２ 彻底不要这个孩子，一个钱也不要付，比如逃回中国。
| s*******3
发帖数: 59 | 6 if u ask for 50% of child custody, you don't need to pay child support, 50%
of time spending with your child is important for his or her growth. I have
a couple of divorced friends are doing that, why can't u give that a try
then you won't be bothered by your ex for money and time to spend with your
kid? |
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