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发帖数: 4651 | 1 if you were the strong kid at school, when others make fun of
you, you can choose to not respond; however if you were the weak kid, in the
same situation, you better respond, otherwise next time more ppl will pick
on you. of course how to respond is a Q.
Chinese is the "weak kid" in US, which is the fact, even though you live a
good life as an individual. your coworker may like you, more important they
should feel some "awe" towards Chinese, which makes them not to ignore the
feeling of Chinese and pick on Chinese.
Why they dare not make the same joke against black & jews?
because they worry they may get themselves into trouble.
why they make fun of Chinese?
because they do not care.
it does not make sense to compare Chinese to white American, because we are
not
comparable, we are the minority
also, if we feel offended, we feel offended. not because others are ok, and
we should be ok. we are not feeling others' feeling. if you are Chinese and
do not feel offended, its absolutely fine, which, however, does not make you
right and others wrong |
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