Z****e
发帖数: 191 | 1 一个家长发动大家给10块钱，买group gift。我平时都是给25的giftcard的。
所以这种情况，我领导说除了group gift还得送$25 giftcard，你小留比较懂。给点建
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N*******l
发帖数: 582 | 2 礼多人不怪，
【在 Z****e 的大作中提到】
: 一个家长发动大家给10块钱，买group gift。我平时都是给25的giftcard的。
: 所以这种情况，我领导说除了group gift还得送$25 giftcard，你小留比较懂。给点建
: 议。
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N*******l
发帖数: 582 | 3 但是别让别人知道啊
【在 Z****e 的大作中提到】
: 一个家长发动大家给10块钱，买group gift。我平时都是给25的giftcard的。
: 所以这种情况，我领导说除了group gift还得送$25 giftcard，你小留比较懂。给点建
: 议。
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Z****e
发帖数: 191 | 4 没有人知道我送吧。 老师没这么无聊吧
【在 N*******l 的大作中提到】
: 但是别让别人知道啊
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N*******l
发帖数: 582 | 5 那就送，让她偷着乐吧，
【在 Z****e 的大作中提到】
: 没有人知道我送吧。 老师没这么无聊吧
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Z****e
发帖数: 191 | 6 哎，我主要是不大喜欢这个老师。一个小学老师，特别傲气，还是学前班的。
还希望你们支持我送过group就不送了，不过怎么样也不能让儿子受罪。反正就没多少钱
，还是多送点吧。
【在 N*******l 的大作中提到】
: 那就送，让她偷着乐吧，
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N*******l
发帖数: 582 | 7 得罪君子，不得罪小人，
少钱
【在 Z****e 的大作中提到】
: 哎，我主要是不大喜欢这个老师。一个小学老师，特别傲气，还是学前班的。
: 还希望你们支持我送过group就不送了，不过怎么样也不能让儿子受罪。反正就没多少钱
: ，还是多送点吧。
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Z****e
发帖数: 191 | 8 有道理
【在 N*******l 的大作中提到】
: 得罪君子，不得罪小人，
:
: 少钱
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 9 这个比较正经的，也说两句正经的。我做过差不多2年的小学teaching assistant，所
以你问对了。
对了，你家baby是在学前班，不是preschool？绝大多少老师不care谁送了，谁没送，
她们是绝对不会也不允许记录的。如果是group gift，那你就参加group gift好了。老
师不care，但是不代表parents不gossip。
老师不care gift，因为好多州有明确的法律限制。大部分老师会care about parents
和她的交流。比如说，你可以请他见面谈谈你孩子的情况，顺便一起喝coffee等等。交
流，给老师以尊重，能够让老师觉得心情愉快，比什么都重要，也是绝大部分人所在意
的。这个和中国人不怎么一样。
【在 Z****e 的大作中提到】
: 一个家长发动大家给10块钱，买group gift。我平时都是给25的giftcard的。
: 所以这种情况，我领导说除了group gift还得送$25 giftcard，你小留比较懂。给点建
: 议。
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 10
parents
You are completely wrong. They do care a lot about gifting during holiday
season. They will definitely keep it in their mind if you give only 10$
instead of the 25$ routine.
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: 这个比较正经的，也说两句正经的。我做过差不多2年的小学teaching assistant，所
: 以你问对了。
: 对了，你家baby是在学前班，不是preschool？绝大多少老师不care谁送了，谁没送，
: 她们是绝对不会也不允许记录的。如果是group gift，那你就参加group gift好了。老
: 师不care，但是不代表parents不gossip。
: 老师不care gift，因为好多州有明确的法律限制。大部分老师会care about parents
: 和她的交流。比如说，你可以请他见面谈谈你孩子的情况，顺便一起喝coffee等等。交
: 流，给老师以尊重，能够让老师觉得心情愉快，比什么都重要，也是绝大部分人所在意
: 的。这个和中国人不怎么一样。
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 11 We gift our super with cash. We never dare to decrease the amount even he is
very nice gentleman.
parents
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: 这个比较正经的，也说两句正经的。我做过差不多2年的小学teaching assistant，所
: 以你问对了。
: 对了，你家baby是在学前班，不是preschool？绝大多少老师不care谁送了，谁没送，
: 她们是绝对不会也不允许记录的。如果是group gift，那你就参加group gift好了。老
: 师不care，但是不代表parents不gossip。
: 老师不care gift，因为好多州有明确的法律限制。大部分老师会care about parents
: 和她的交流。比如说，你可以请他见面谈谈你孩子的情况，顺便一起喝coffee等等。交
: 流，给老师以尊重，能够让老师觉得心情愉快，比什么都重要，也是绝大部分人所在意
: 的。这个和中国人不怎么一样。
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 12 我有个经历，就是我那天顺手给了我儿子幼儿园的老师两张电影票，另外10块钱的电影
院买爆米花的10块钱giftcard。从此后，老师就跟我很客气。
is
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: We gift our super with cash. We never dare to decrease the amount even he is
: very nice gentleman.
:
: parents
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 13 我也搞不清到底怎么回事。
我老公的同事老婆是幼儿园老师，跟我说不用给，或是给10-15块钱就够了。
但是我孩子的老师，就是在原来地方的幼儿园，我给25块钱gc，动不动就给一张。搞得
他们对我像上客一样，每次去对我特别热情。
其实比中国好多了，我一年最多也就给个 100-150giftcard/人
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: We gift our super with cash. We never dare to decrease the amount even he is
: very nice gentleman.
:
: parents
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 14 It's probably a good idea to move away from that area and from those people.
It will be a very serious legal issue if someone felt treated unfairly in
such event. This also applies to chinese people, but problem is the most of
chinese people dont' know how to protect themselves.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: We gift our super with cash. We never dare to decrease the amount even he is
: very nice gentleman.
:
: parents
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 15 I agree. You should stay away from there. What you said just does not make
much difference and most people won't know the truth anyway.
people.
of
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: It's probably a good idea to move away from that area and from those people.
: It will be a very serious legal issue if someone felt treated unfairly in
: such event. This also applies to chinese people, but problem is the most of
: chinese people dont' know how to protect themselves.
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 16 好论点
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: I agree. You should stay away from there. What you said just does not make
: much difference and most people won't know the truth anyway.
:
: people.
: of
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 17 chinese daycare?
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 我也搞不清到底怎么回事。
: 我老公的同事老婆是幼儿园老师，跟我说不用给，或是给10-15块钱就够了。
: 但是我孩子的老师，就是在原来地方的幼儿园，我给25块钱gc，动不动就给一张。搞得
: 他们对我像上客一样，每次去对我特别热情。
: 其实比中国好多了，我一年最多也就给个 100-150giftcard/人
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 18 全老美。基本上没有中国人
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: chinese daycare?
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 19 全老美没中国人
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: chinese daycare?
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 20 There are couple of people making very stupid cases there. Somebody was
trying to comparing stealing weibi with stealing money from atm and abusing
discount code.
people.
of
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: It's probably a good idea to move away from that area and from those people.
: It will be a very serious legal issue if someone felt treated unfairly in
: such event. This also applies to chinese people, but problem is the most of
: chinese people dont' know how to protect themselves.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 21 刚灌的一篇怎么没出来，
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 全老美。基本上没有中国人
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 22 Here we go.
At some point, i thought they were blaming 2mm. It turns out they are just
retarded.
abusing
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: There are couple of people making very stupid cases there. Somebody was
: trying to comparing stealing weibi with stealing money from atm and abusing
: discount code.
:
: people.
: of
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 23 be careful then, don't make others feel treated unfairly. If so, the daycare
will be in huge problem. You will be involved in as well.
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 全老美没中国人
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 24 No, she will not.
If there are any problems, it would go with the daycare center.
daycare
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: be careful then, don't make others feel treated unfairly. If so, the daycare
: will be in huge problem. You will be involved in as well.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 25 If their ethic standards prohibit them from taking gifts, they might get
into trouble only if they are caught. But parents are group gifting anyway.
daycare
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: be careful then, don't make others feel treated unfairly. If so, the daycare
: will be in huge problem. You will be involved in as well.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 26 63rd posts. 37 to go.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: If their ethic standards prohibit them from taking gifts, they might get
: into trouble only if they are caught. But parents are group gifting anyway.
:
: daycare
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 27 do you know why people do group gift instead of individuals?
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: If their ethic standards prohibit them from taking gifts, they might get
: into trouble only if they are caught. But parents are group gifting anyway.
:
: daycare
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 28 Most of the time, group gifting could save a few bucks.
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: do you know why people do group gift instead of individuals?
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 29 you think group gifting would help with discriminating?
There will always be some parents left outside of the group.
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: do you know why people do group gift instead of individuals?
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 30 this isn't an answer.
Group gift is not banned in almost all the states, but individual gift is
forbidden or a clause with ceiling(amount limitation). Group gift can
protect those who can't afford any gift.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Most of the time, group gifting could save a few bucks.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 31 Not sure if it can protect.
When I was in school, we do group gifting too. But we signed on a card when
we chipped in. Do they expose the information when they give the gift to the
teacher?【 在 wywxm (wuyi) 的大作中提到: 】 |
S******e
发帖数: 256 | 32 it suddenly hits me again.
when
the
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Not sure if it can protect.
: When I was in school, we do group gifting too. But we signed on a card when
: we chipped in. Do they expose the information when they give the gift to the
: teacher?【 在 wywxm (wuyi) 的大作中提到: 】
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 33 I think I would probably never have a kid.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: it suddenly hits me again.
:
: when
: the
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 34 Too lazy to take all the responsibilities.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: I think I would probably never have a kid.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 35 And I want to live as simple a life as it could possibly be.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Too lazy to take all the responsibilities.
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w****a
发帖数: 6326 | 36 disagree on this
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Too lazy to take all the responsibilities.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 37 It has been a good excuses for us.
【在 w****a 的大作中提到】
: disagree on this
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 38 Still has a long way to go.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: It has been a good excuses for us.
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 39 75
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Still has a long way to go.
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 40 what you mentioned may not be same as we discussed here. In the public
service including public school, group gift will not be given with singed
card.
It's not same as someone is going to have a babe shower in a big group.
when
the
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: Not sure if it can protect.
: When I was in school, we do group gifting too. But we signed on a card when
: we chipped in. Do they expose the information when they give the gift to the
: teacher?【 在 wywxm (wuyi) 的大作中提到: 】
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 41 Ok
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: what you mentioned may not be same as we discussed here. In the public
: service including public school, group gift will not be given with singed
: card.
: It's not same as someone is going to have a babe shower in a big group.
:
: when
: the
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 42 you might be right. But she gave 25 gift card before and I think it would be
fine in her case.
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: what you mentioned may not be same as we discussed here. In the public
: service including public school, group gift will not be given with singed
: card.
: It's not same as someone is going to have a babe shower in a big group.
:
: when
: the
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 43 I think the mum who proposed the group gift idea said there will be a card t
o be signed by the kids whose parents contribute $
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: what you mentioned may not be same as we discussed here. In the public
: service including public school, group gift will not be given with singed
: card.
: It's not same as someone is going to have a babe shower in a big group.
:
: when
: the
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 44 I am sure that is fine.
I've been doing those for years
be
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: you might be right. But she gave 25 gift card before and I think it would be
: fine in her case.
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 45 Well, at least in New England area. Law forbidding the public school teacher
who received gift shows favor to giver or giver's child. And giver also
needs to follow the law that the gift will not influence the teacher's
conduct.
I brought this up because there was such law suit.
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: I am sure that is fine.
: I've been doing those for years
:
: be
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 46 don't worry.
i've moved out the place that i mentioned
teacher
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: Well, at least in New England area. Law forbidding the public school teacher
: who received gift shows favor to giver or giver's child. And giver also
: needs to follow the law that the gift will not influence the teacher's
: conduct.
: I brought this up because there was such law suit.
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 47 恩，good，向我学习，我是一个很好的resident
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: don't worry.
: i've moved out the place that i mentioned
:
: teacher
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 48 扯淡
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: 恩，good，向我学习，我是一个很好的resident
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 49 对了，老三我觉得你有点点典型的老中的答复气势。
上来就说中国人这个不知道那个不知道，然后就自己买了类。很烦这个调
【在 w***m 的大作中提到】
: 恩，good，向我学习，我是一个很好的resident
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 50 睡觉去了。。。。
明天在来翻帖子
周末愉快！
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 对了，老三我觉得你有点点典型的老中的答复气势。
: 上来就说中国人这个不知道那个不知道，然后就自己买了类。很烦这个调
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L***c
发帖数: 542 | 51 剩下32个帖子我慢慢灌
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 睡觉去了。。。。
: 明天在来翻帖子
: 周末愉快！
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g*****A
发帖数: 14950 | 52 为什么要给( ⊙ o ⊙ )啊！
我不给可以吗？
对孩子会不好吗？？？？？ |
S******e
发帖数: 256 | 53 一般没问题，但是自己心里会惦记着，
【在 g*****A 的大作中提到】
: 为什么要给( ⊙ o ⊙ )啊！
: 我不给可以吗？
: 对孩子会不好吗？？？？？
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S******e
发帖数: 256 | 54 同愉快，
【在 L***c 的大作中提到】
: 睡觉去了。。。。
: 明天在来翻帖子
: 周末愉快！
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