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S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 1 The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
black eye.
Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
stakeholders, is performed in an appropriate context [...]. Several
characteristics have to do with the content. Ideally, an ethical apology is:
explicitly acknowledges wrongdoing; fully accepts responsibility, expressed
regret, identifies with injured stakeholders, asks for forgiveness, seeks
reconciliation with injured stakeholders, fully discloses information
related to the offense, provides an explanation that addresses legitimate
expectations of the stakeholders, offers to perform an appropriate
corrective action, offers an appropriate compensation'
http://www.politicalreviewnet.com/polrev/reviews/JCCM/R_0966_08
Coincidentally, the above paragraph is more or less in line with the
teaching of the Buddha. | T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 2 When you don't feel peaceful.
That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
: Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
: http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
: Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
: sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
: doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
: giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
: black eye.
: Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
: Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
| J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 3 The misunderstanding of others mostly come from personal judgement of their
intentions. Loving-kindness and compassion are very important to solve the
conflicts within different people. Knowing well how the suffering are
generated in ourselves, we will understand others much better. This is what
I learnt today.
a
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
: Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
: http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
: Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
: sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
: doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
: giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
: black eye.
: Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
: Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
| S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 4 May you be peaceful.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: When you don't feel peaceful.
: That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
| T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 5 Yes, I am.
Are you peaceful?
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: May you be peaceful.
| S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 6 哦。
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: Yes, I am.
: Are you peaceful?
| Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | | b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 8 I see. 等谁扇你两耳光，你不peaceful啦，你就该向人家道歉啦。。。。。。。。
你的英文真是不是一般的差，麻烦你好好读读你都写了点什么，再发上来，行否？ I
am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I think
if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: When you don't feel peaceful.
: That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
| T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 9 again, I enjoyed your show. Continue, if you like.
am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I
think if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: I see. 等谁扇你两耳光，你不peaceful啦，你就该向人家道歉啦。。。。。。。。
: 你的英文真是不是一般的差，麻烦你好好读读你都写了点什么，再发上来，行否？ I
: am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I think
: if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
| S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 10 The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
black eye.
Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
stakeholders, is performed in an appropriate context [...]. Several
characteristics have to do with the content. Ideally, an ethical apology is:
explicitly acknowledges wrongdoing; fully accepts responsibility, expressed
regret, identifies with injured stakeholders, asks for forgiveness, seeks
reconciliation with injured stakeholders, fully discloses information
related to the offense, provides an explanation that addresses legitimate
expectations of the stakeholders, offers to perform an appropriate
corrective action, offers an appropriate compensation'
http://www.politicalreviewnet.com/polrev/reviews/JCCM/R_0966_08
Coincidentally, the above paragraph is more or less in line with the
teaching of the Buddha. | | | T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 11 When you don't feel peaceful.
That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
: Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
: http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
: Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
: sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
: doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
: giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
: black eye.
: Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
: Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
| J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 12 The misunderstanding of others mostly come from personal judgement of their
intentions. Loving-kindness and compassion are very important to solve the
conflicts within different people. Knowing well how the suffering are
generated in ourselves, we will understand others much better. This is what
I learnt today.
a
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: The title of the book said it, "I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies".
: Unless there is wrongdoing, there will be no apology.
: http://www.carnegiecouncil.org/resources/journal/22_4/review_es
: Saying "I'm sorry" shows concern and doesn't imply wrongdoing. e.g. "I'm
: sorry to hear that you are sick." shows concern for your well-being, and
: doesn't imply that I caused your sickness. In contrast, "He apologized for
: giving Tom a black eye." implied wrongdoing, that he hit Tom and gave him a
: black eye.
: Excerpt from "Crisis Management by Apology":
: Ethical apology is: truthful, sincere, timely, voluntary, addresses all
| S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 13 May you be peaceful.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: When you don't feel peaceful.
: That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
| T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 14 Yes, I am.
Are you peaceful?
【在 S**U 的大作中提到】
: May you be peaceful.
| S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 15 哦。
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: Yes, I am.
: Are you peaceful?
| Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | | b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 17 I see. 等谁扇你两耳光，你不peaceful啦，你就该向人家道歉啦。。。。。。。。
你的英文真是不是一般的差，麻烦你好好读读你都写了点什么，再发上来，行否？ I
am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I think
if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: When you don't feel peaceful.
: That's your own consciousness telling you that you should apologize.
| T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 18 again, I enjoyed your show. Continue, if you like.
am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I
think if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: I see. 等谁扇你两耳光，你不peaceful啦，你就该向人家道歉啦。。。。。。。。
: 你的英文真是不是一般的差，麻烦你好好读读你都写了点什么，再发上来，行否？ I
: am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I think
: if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
| d******r
发帖数: 5008 | 19 O也
think
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: I see. 等谁扇你两耳光，你不peaceful啦，你就该向人家道歉啦。。。。。。。。
: 你的英文真是不是一般的差，麻烦你好好读读你都写了点什么，再发上来，行否？ I
: am serious. 真是堪称，用词造句，乱七八糟，整个让人感觉说话不动大脑。 I think
: if you use Chinese, it will not be this bad.
| b******1
发帖数: 281 | | l*****a
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