s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 1 本人在牌室这么久，从未和人恶语相向，想不到今天居然被人在牌室极其下流地辱骂。
郁闷之余，有几个问题向大家请教：
1. 这种赤裸裸的网络凌辱，很多人都受到过攻击，难道站务没有办法阻止吗？
2. 这种行为，是典型的Cyberbullying。谁有过法律提告的经验，请和我站内联系。 | f**********i
发帖数: 1802 | 2 深受其害，抱头痛哭。。
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 本人在牌室这么久，从未和人恶语相向，想不到今天居然被人在牌室极其下流地辱骂。
: 郁闷之余，有几个问题向大家请教：
: 1. 这种赤裸裸的网络凌辱，很多人都受到过攻击，难道站务没有办法阻止吗？
: 2. 这种行为，是典型的Cyberbullying。谁有过法律提告的经验，请和我站内联系。
| g****g
发帖数: 1267 | 3 打911
【在 f**********i 的大作中提到】
: 深受其害，抱头痛哭。。
| m**n
发帖数: 9010 | 4 那是你只在牌室玩.
你要是去军版之类的, 骂街的更是多了去了. 你找站务, 他们会"阻止".
但不会有更多的手段了.
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 本人在牌室这么久，从未和人恶语相向，想不到今天居然被人在牌室极其下流地辱骂。
: 郁闷之余，有几个问题向大家请教：
: 1. 这种赤裸裸的网络凌辱，很多人都受到过攻击，难道站务没有办法阻止吗？
: 2. 这种行为，是典型的Cyberbullying。谁有过法律提告的经验，请和我站内联系。
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 5 真的没办法了？天天看着污言秽语骂大街，难受。
【在 m**n 的大作中提到】
: 那是你只在牌室玩.
: 你要是去军版之类的, 骂街的更是多了去了. 你找站务, 他们会"阻止".
: 但不会有更多的手段了.
| m**n
发帖数: 9010 | 6 能有什么办法? 封个ID, 人家另注一个上来.
何况在牌室那些骂大街的, 估计他们自个儿也知道自个儿不对, 没那么
理直气壮.
在版面上可就未必了. 有些人觉得自个儿占了理, 所以就可以开骂,
那可真是理直气壮, 觉得你就该被骂的.
我认为最有效的方法就是, 在这些人常去的地儿, 贴点他们的"语录",
号召大伙儿对他们的发言完全无视.
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 真的没办法了？天天看着污言秽语骂大街，难受。
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | | m**n
发帖数: 9010 | 8 把ID说出来, 大家都知道了就没人跟他打了.
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 牌室这个，好像一直是同一个人，一直在那闹腾。
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 9 the problem is, this guy never used MITBBS ID
the gameroom allows idevice ID, and there's no restriction on
registering idevice ID, so he could easily create tons of filthy IDs
【在 m**n 的大作中提到】
: 把ID说出来, 大家都知道了就没人跟他打了.
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 10 Hate has a reason for everything love is unreasonable.
Bullying can be classified into two categories:
direct bullying, and
indirect bullying (which is also known as social aggression)
Psychological research found bullies may be among the most popular and
socially connected in their environment. It is the case in our tlj room. The
bullies here are some high hands, they have circles, and they do indirect
bullying.
Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to
socially isolate the victim. When those high handed player laughing at/
mocking players out of their circle, kicking them, false accusing them, or
doing something like LZ doing, it is bullying, too.
天天污言秽语骂大街 certainly is a form of bullying, but it also can be a
form of reaction to bullying.
I would say to solve this we all should first stop bullying ourselves, in
any forms. For those guys been 天天污言秽语骂大街, my advice is stop
confrontation and try communicate. If you can show little empathy toward
others, for sure that is one of characteristics of bullying.
Another advice to those open black shops, black shop is a form of bullying,
too, it is psychological threat to other players, it elicits negative
responses very often. The key word here is empathy, meaning recognize
emotions that are being experienced by another party.
Advice to LZ, stop bullying and show empathy. For legal action, there are
tons of lawyers can provide you legal advice if needed. Why not pick up the
phone and use their first half hour free consultation service?
Good luck, and wish us all happy games | | | C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 11 Empathy does not work on someone who does not have empathy himself.
This guy, not only has chaotic logic, also shows no empathy at all.
There were people trying to be nice at the beginning to talk to him,
but this guy just sticks to his own logic and his own illusions.
And when he throws those dirty words towards other gamers and their
significant ones, he never ever had any empathy that he himself also
has parents, wife, and possibly son or daughters.
The
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: Hate has a reason for everything love is unreasonable.
: Bullying can be classified into two categories:
: direct bullying, and
: indirect bullying (which is also known as social aggression)
: Psychological research found bullies may be among the most popular and
: socially connected in their environment. It is the case in our tlj room. The
: bullies here are some high hands, they have circles, and they do indirect
: bullying.
: Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to
: socially isolate the victim. When those high handed player laughing at/
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 12 I got it, he/she/it is not human being.
But when you think the other party is not human being, why you are mad or
upset? How can you expect the other party treats you as human being if you
don't believe they are?
Good luck fighting, if you enjoy.
BTW, your understanding to empathy is so wrong. I did put my wording there,
if you wish to understand, do your own research. But don't misuse those
concepts deliberately.
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: Empathy does not work on someone who does not have empathy himself.
: This guy, not only has chaotic logic, also shows no empathy at all.
: There were people trying to be nice at the beginning to talk to him,
: but this guy just sticks to his own logic and his own illusions.
: And when he throws those dirty words towards other gamers and their
: significant ones, he never ever had any empathy that he himself also
: has parents, wife, and possibly son or daughters.
:
: The
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 13 I got it. hehe
,
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: I got it, he/she/it is not human being.
: But when you think the other party is not human being, why you are mad or
: upset? How can you expect the other party treats you as human being if you
: don't believe they are?
: Good luck fighting, if you enjoy.
: BTW, your understanding to empathy is so wrong. I did put my wording there,
: if you wish to understand, do your own research. But don't misuse those
: concepts deliberately.
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 14 I don't host hat(r)ed to anyone, neither am I a "high handed" player who is
presumably prone to be a bully. By all means, expressing one's frustration
by engaging a public debate does not warrant bullying.
The rule of thumb is, repeated harassment and personal attacks are wrong,
have crossed THE line, and should not be allowed in a public domain, be it a
physical location or cyber space.
The
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: Hate has a reason for everything love is unreasonable.
: Bullying can be classified into two categories:
: direct bullying, and
: indirect bullying (which is also known as social aggression)
: Psychological research found bullies may be among the most popular and
: socially connected in their environment. It is the case in our tlj room. The
: bullies here are some high hands, they have circles, and they do indirect
: bullying.
: Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to
: socially isolate the victim. When those high handed player laughing at/
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 15 赞一下弹簧的英文 :)
a
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: I don't host hat(r)ed to anyone, neither am I a "high handed" player who is
: presumably prone to be a bully. By all means, expressing one's frustration
: by engaging a public debate does not warrant bullying.
: The rule of thumb is, repeated harassment and personal attacks are wrong,
: have crossed THE line, and should not be allowed in a public domain, be it a
: physical location or cyber space.
:
: The
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 16 就会这几句。。。
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: 赞一下弹簧的英文 :)
:
: a
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 17 Correct hate to be hatred, 了不起
最后那个be it ... or ... 的倒装句, impressive, 相当出彩啊 :)
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 就会这几句。。。
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 18 倒装句，我前几天跟别人刚刚学会的。。。
我们好像歪楼了。 | C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 19 更牛了，香香不单教打牌还教文法，我对香香的景仰之情又深了一层！
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 倒装句，我前几天跟别人刚刚学会的。。。
: 我们好像歪楼了。
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | | | | C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 21 歪楼没关系，小歪怡情，调节气氛
灌纯净水，那是要抵制的。。。
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 。。。。
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 22 I guess you get me all wrong.
First I used a slang, I meant if someone hate you, they must have a good
reason. If you can love your enemy you don't need any reason.
But I guess it is too much asking you to love your enemy. In the other hand,
you might be loving someone, and you support them unreasonably, maybe, I
don't know if that suits your cases or the cases you mentioned. So your act
might not have a solid ground.
sspring, I don't understand you. At the very beginning you were asking for
help. Now you sound like an lawyer, "rule of thumb", "cross the line", you
sound that you are the authority now.
sspring, your English seems very good, so I don't have to explain again what
is empathy to you, right? You stated social behavior standard firmly, but
you didn't show empathy, did you? Do you really think you are the judge?
Anyway, I said what I wanted to say. It is up to you take it or not. Or you
can blame me like ChengCH. If that helps.
I want all of us be happy. I like what Miley Cyrus sings, share with you
haters, lol
It's our party we can do what we want
It's our party we can say what we want
It's our party we can love who we want
We can kiss who we want
We can sing what we want
To my home girls here with the big butt
Shaking it like we at a strip club
Remember only God can judge ya
Forget the haters 'cause somebody loves ya
is
a
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: I don't host hat(r)ed to anyone, neither am I a "high handed" player who is
: presumably prone to be a bully. By all means, expressing one's frustration
: by engaging a public debate does not warrant bullying.
: The rule of thumb is, repeated harassment and personal attacks are wrong,
: have crossed THE line, and should not be allowed in a public domain, be it a
: physical location or cyber space.
:
: The
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 23 哥们，我英文不好，你还是用中文吧。按照我们中国人的说法，你这叫站着说话不腰疼。
hand,
act
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: I guess you get me all wrong.
: First I used a slang, I meant if someone hate you, they must have a good
: reason. If you can love your enemy you don't need any reason.
: But I guess it is too much asking you to love your enemy. In the other hand,
: you might be loving someone, and you support them unreasonably, maybe, I
: don't know if that suits your cases or the cases you mentioned. So your act
: might not have a solid ground.
: sspring, I don't understand you. At the very beginning you were asking for
: help. Now you sound like an lawyer, "rule of thumb", "cross the line", you
: sound that you are the authority now.
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 24 赞一下爱敌人的 Romulans
可惜有些人，言行不一致，白辱没了那么好的quotation.
hand,
act
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: I guess you get me all wrong.
: First I used a slang, I meant if someone hate you, they must have a good
: reason. If you can love your enemy you don't need any reason.
: But I guess it is too much asking you to love your enemy. In the other hand,
: you might be loving someone, and you support them unreasonably, maybe, I
: don't know if that suits your cases or the cases you mentioned. So your act
: might not have a solid ground.
: sspring, I don't understand you. At the very beginning you were asking for
: help. Now you sound like an lawyer, "rule of thumb", "cross the line", you
: sound that you are the authority now.
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 25 sorry, I don't have. And I am not going to continue, I don't like being
accused, I leave...
疼。
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 哥们，我英文不好，你还是用中文吧。按照我们中国人的说法，你这叫站着说话不腰疼。
:
: hand,
: act
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 26 thanks, but I really dont know what you are implying. let us not talk about
Jesus, you mean he/she is a hypocrite, I got it, but no comments. Or are you
saying I am a hypocrite, too? Maybe, but stop attacking me, that is
uncalled for.
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: 赞一下爱敌人的 Romulans
: 可惜有些人，言行不一致，白辱没了那么好的quotation.
:
: hand,
: act
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 27 太犀利了吧。
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: 赞一下爱敌人的 Romulans
: 可惜有些人，言行不一致，白辱没了那么好的quotation.
:
: hand,
: act
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 28 你的quotation不是星球迷航里来的么？
我的评论很直白呀，就是满口说着是不算的，得做到才算。
about
you
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: thanks, but I really dont know what you are implying. let us not talk about
: Jesus, you mean he/she is a hypocrite, I got it, but no comments. Or are you
: saying I am a hypocrite, too? Maybe, but stop attacking me, that is
: uncalled for.
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 29 right, that is why I use the word hypocrite. I know you have google, so hate
should be hatred, you think?
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: 你的quotation不是星球迷航里来的么？
: 我的评论很直白呀，就是满口说着是不算的，得做到才算。
:
: about
: you
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 30 这个老兄是不是CHENGCH的粉丝？我看他到处和你对着来，吸引注意力。
唉，害得我白回了半天贴。不搞了。
【在 C*****H 的大作中提到】
: 你的quotation不是星球迷航里来的么？
: 我的评论很直白呀，就是满口说着是不算的，得做到才算。
:
: about
: you
| | | C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 31 同样的话，名人说了就是quote, 一般人么，自然是要从善如流了。
我觉得sspring改得很好啊，在他的文章里。
hate
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: right, that is why I use the word hypocrite. I know you have google, so hate
: should be hatred, you think?
| C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 32 我这不是被骚扰得没法打牌了才来灌水么，我也不搞了。 洗洗睡了
哲学高度的事儿，我可没那么大能耐能影响谁的三观，还是美容觉是实打实的。
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 这个老兄是不是CHENGCH的粉丝？我看他到处和你对着来，吸引注意力。
: 唉，害得我白回了半天贴。不搞了。
| G*********r
发帖数: 172 | 33 what? @!^%!^@%^$677$#%^%&^*&^^%()*(!!!!!&^&*!^@&!!!!!
【在 s*****g 的大作中提到】
: 这个老兄是不是CHENGCH的粉丝？我看他到处和你对着来，吸引注意力。
: 唉，害得我白回了半天贴。不搞了。
| s*****g
发帖数: 19 | 34 没看懂？我这是向你学习Empathy, think in your boots.
【在 G*********r 的大作中提到】
: what? @!^%!^@%^$677$#%^%&^*&^^%()*(!!!!!&^&*!^@&!!!!!
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