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发帖数: 323 | 1 没有必要为了没话找话跟同事说看sports吧，如果不赶兴趣，我想看起来还是很受罪的。
首先自己要让别人觉得你想跟别人交流，自己也可以主动点，不是没次都要别人来找你
说话才说话。再就是，有很多sport以外的东西可以聊如果你真的根他们很熟悉了。年轻
单身同事一天到晚谈找男/女朋友的事，买房子的事，跳槽的事。。。。 中年同事谈小孩，
每次有小宝宝的新照片就拿来看，或者向他们抱怨有了房子的“痛苦”。年级再大点，
你一问他们点事，他们老会跟你说many many years ago.... hehe... 如果有猫狗，这也
是个很好的话题。我们还有一趣事就是下午4-5点开始就相互乱弹橡皮筋。我们这个行业
也许比较特殊，大部分的associates年龄相仿，都是大学/研究生刚刚毕业，所以大家很
容易谈得来。其实不要觉得美国人一定根美国人才玩得来，我们这也就是我一个外国人，
我一点也不觉得什么。 刚刚开始一定要找到1-2个能说得来得朋友，慢慢的跟别的同事
也会熟了。
Good luck! | x****g
发帖数: 51 | 2 Why care in the first place?
I didn't like those indians who seem to watch sports for the sole reason of
talking with americans. I'd rather talk with someone about things we both
like. I like to talk about history with one of my american co-worker. I
found some female americans are very much in depth. I never met an american
guy who likes history.
But, to talk like a native speaker is always desirable. Not that to please
anyone, just basic politeness when you are in their country.
大多
司唯
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