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发帖数: 3888 | 1 This is the first attempt in a series of guides for Chinese guys. Without
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#1 How to get numbers from strangers
Rule #1 about getting numbers from strangers is that you do not get numbers
from strangers. I have not met a single Asian chick who are willing to give
her # to a total strange, how matter how good his "game" is. You have to
find or build some kind of connection first.
Scenario 1: You're at a party at a friend's house, and you want to get to
know a new chick that you j | a********e
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numbers
give
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: This is the first attempt in a series of guides for Chinese guys. Without
: further ado...
: #1 How to get numbers from strangers
: Rule #1 about getting numbers from strangers is that you do not get numbers
: from strangers. I have not met a single Asian chick who are willing to give
: her # to a total strange, how matter how good his "game" is. You have to
: find or build some kind of connection first.
: Scenario 1: You're at a party at a friend's house, and you want to get to
: know a new chick that you j
| s******g
发帖数: 231 | | a********e
发帖数: 3771 | 4 no more?
numbers
give
【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: This is the first attempt in a series of guides for Chinese guys. Without
: further ado...
: #1 How to get numbers from strangers
: Rule #1 about getting numbers from strangers is that you do not get numbers
: from strangers. I have not met a single Asian chick who are willing to give
: her # to a total strange, how matter how good his "game" is. You have to
: find or build some kind of connection first.
: Scenario 1: You're at a party at a friend's house, and you want to get to
: know a new chick that you j
| s******g
发帖数: 231 | | c**d
发帖数: 3888 | 6 This is the first attempt in a series of guides for Chinese guys. Without
further ado...
#1 How to get numbers from strangers
Rule #1 about getting numbers from strangers is that you do not get numbers
from strangers. I have not met a single Asian chick who are willing to give
her # to a total strange, how matter how good his "game" is. You have to
find or build some kind of connection first.
Scenario 1: You're at a party at a friend's house, and you want to get to
know a new chick that you just met. What do you do? Do NOT engage in
chitchat for 10 or 15 minutes, and then out of the blue say "hey give me
your number so we can (fill in lame excuse here)." I have seen many guys
try that approach and fail. She will not be into you just because you can
do small talk for 10 minutes.
Instead, quickly find some common ground with her, either mutual friends or
common experiences, which will soothe her fears. And then you need to move
on be entertaining. While the other single guys in the room are waiting for
their turn to do the 10-minute talk, you can act spontaneous or weird... or
funny. Whatever that makes you stand out from the pack. Don't worry about
embarrassing yourself. If you find it hard to get yourself to do that, try
taking more alcohol. It's called the "social lubricant" for a reason.
At the end of the event, if she asked for your #, great. If she doesn't,
make a quick assessment how into you she is. If you feel she's only mildly
entertained, don't ask for her # then and there. Instead, go home and wait
1-2 days, and then you can add her on facebook or get her contacts from your
mutual friends or whatever. You should be connected to her one way or the
other. If you're not, just move on. |
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