w*****t
发帖数: 4 | 1 I am a new believer. I am currently in a Baptist church where family is
redefined as the church as a whole; therefore husband and wife consider
themselves church brother and sister who happen to sleep in the same house.
The church discourages private family time and emphasizes on church member
fellowshiping and endless church activities Monday through Sunday.
I wonder what you think about this church. Although I am single and don't
have a family yet, the church teaching seems to be inconsistent |
w******0
发帖数: 1404 | 2 似乎有些离谱。要是不习惯就离开吧。
BTW, could you clarify what you mean "therefore husband and wife consider
. "?
. |
c****y
发帖数: 829 | 3 好像有点不对进， 也和圣经的教导不太符，我觉得你还是换一个教会吧。 照理
Baptist church不是这样的教导啊。
.
【在 w*****t 的大作中提到】
: I am a new believer. I am currently in a Baptist church where family is
: redefined as the church as a whole; therefore husband and wife consider
: themselves church brother and sister who happen to sleep in the same house.
: The church discourages private family time and emphasizes on church member
: fellowshiping and endless church activities Monday through Sunday.
: I wonder what you think about this church. Although I am single and don't
: have a family yet, the church teaching seems to be inconsistent
|
s****n
发帖数: 174 | 4 有人喜欢过得简朴，有人喜欢热闹。我认为这是萝卜白菜的偏好问题。这种教会不是很
main stream，可能是有特殊抱负的信徒组成的，或是一种老传统。喜欢这种风格的可
以继续呆下去，如果不是，就找另一家适合的，免得以后谁挨着谁。我个人觉得这不太
适合中国基督徒，不排除有少部分dxjm会喜欢。 |
j*****I
发帖数: 2626 | 5 小时候住大杂院的时候,2家甚至合用一个洗手间. 关系好的邻居,不觉得有啥.
关系不好的,就成为导火索. 假想有一天,经济倒退几十年,大家又被赶回那种
环境生活,不知道对基督徒的属灵生活是祝福还是灾难?
【在 s****n 的大作中提到】
: 有人喜欢过得简朴，有人喜欢热闹。我认为这是萝卜白菜的偏好问题。这种教会不是很
: main stream，可能是有特殊抱负的信徒组成的，或是一种老传统。喜欢这种风格的可
: 以继续呆下去，如果不是，就找另一家适合的，免得以后谁挨着谁。我个人觉得这不太
: 适合中国基督徒，不排除有少部分dxjm会喜欢。
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i********r
发帖数: 202 | 6
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If you and your spouse are considered to be brother and sister in the family
of God, then the time that you spend together should no longer be
considered as private family time, but is the fellowship between church
members.
Indeed, husband and wife should spend time together, be vital companion of
each other to pursue the Lord together.
BTW, what are the church activities? Are these activities focused on Christ
or the Bible? Do you feel like after joining these activities, you know more
or ex
【在 w*****t 的大作中提到】
: I am a new believer. I am currently in a Baptist church where family is
: redefined as the church as a whole; therefore husband and wife consider
: themselves church brother and sister who happen to sleep in the same house.
: The church discourages private family time and emphasizes on church member
: fellowshiping and endless church activities Monday through Sunday.
: I wonder what you think about this church. Although I am single and don't
: have a family yet, the church teaching seems to be inconsistent
|
w*****t
发帖数: 4 | 7 Thanks all !
This church focuses very much on discipleship and outreach. It was founded
and led by some Korean Americans. They push Christian life to an extreme
according to their understanding of the Bible. Many new comers are attracted
to them because they provide true friendship and warmth, yet leave after
feeling hurt and misled. I particularly have doubt about their opinions on
family vs church.
Some facts about the church:
* They are completely devoted to each other; they spend time togeth |
i********r
发帖数: 202 | 8 I will just comment a little bit according my understanding of the normal
church life.
Some facts about the church:
* They are completely devoted to each other; they spend time together almost
every evening, and help and pray to each other.
This is good practice, to know each other and get connected with each other
and to build up together.
* They don't spend much time privately with their own family; even if they
did, they feel ashamed of talking about it, because they consider that being
self
【在 w*****t 的大作中提到】
: Thanks all !
: This church focuses very much on discipleship and outreach. It was founded
: and led by some Korean Americans. They push Christian life to an extreme
: according to their understanding of the Bible. Many new comers are attracted
: to them because they provide true friendship and warmth, yet leave after
: feeling hurt and misled. I particularly have doubt about their opinions on
: family vs church.
: Some facts about the church:
: * They are completely devoted to each other; they spend time togeth
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L******N
发帖数: 1858 | 9 居然会有人觉得这个教会正常么？
圣经怎么告诉我们的？创世纪一开始就告诉我们夫妻关系是怎样的，“一体”“骨中骨
，肉中肉”。有哪个地方说，xdjm之间是这样的？
以弗所书教导夫妻关系是什么样的？是如同教会与基督之间的关系。xdjm之间的关系是
这样的么？
在结婚的时候的誓言是什么样的？是xdjm之间的誓言么？
只要很浅很浅地品尝到神所说的“夫妻合为一体”，就知道，这个关系，绝对不是xdjm
之间的关系。
如果觉得夫妻关系有碍自己奉献主，就不要结婚！ |
L******N
发帖数: 1858 | 10 我的口气有点冲，我很烦别人拿夫妻关系说事儿...
我自己觉得夫妻关系是很蒙神祝福的关系，连神都拿这个比喻他和他的选民的关系；从
夫妻关系里面我们可以理解很多神的心意。怎么能如此轻看呢！！
神虽然没有说，天堂里夫妻会以怎样的方式在一起。但是在创世纪里神最初对夫妻关系
的描述，也许就是在天堂的光景，“合为一体”“骨中骨，肉中肉”，一同坐在神的旁
边，那是终极的浪漫。。。
xdjm
【在 L******N 的大作中提到】
: 居然会有人觉得这个教会正常么？
: 圣经怎么告诉我们的？创世纪一开始就告诉我们夫妻关系是怎样的，“一体”“骨中骨
: ，肉中肉”。有哪个地方说，xdjm之间是这样的？
: 以弗所书教导夫妻关系是什么样的？是如同教会与基督之间的关系。xdjm之间的关系是
: 这样的么？
: 在结婚的时候的誓言是什么样的？是xdjm之间的誓言么？
: 只要很浅很浅地品尝到神所说的“夫妻合为一体”，就知道，这个关系，绝对不是xdjm
: 之间的关系。
: 如果觉得夫妻关系有碍自己奉献主，就不要结婚！
|
w*****t
发帖数: 4 | 11 I have doubts with them, because my understanding of Christianity is, God
calls each of us for different missions in this world; so our earthly life
has a solid purpose. We as christians should work hard during our stay in
this world to glorify God by
* loving our family, rather than hiding from it,
* exceling in our job, rather than ignoring it,
* making money and using it in Godly ways, instead of hating it,
* treasuring nature, not disregarding it.
* etc.
After all, all these earthly things, |
w******0
发帖数: 1404 | 12 You are right. You can leave them if you do not feel comfortable.
【在 w*****t 的大作中提到】
: I have doubts with them, because my understanding of Christianity is, God
: calls each of us for different missions in this world; so our earthly life
: has a solid purpose. We as christians should work hard during our stay in
: this world to glorify God by
: * loving our family, rather than hiding from it,
: * exceling in our job, rather than ignoring it,
: * making money and using it in Godly ways, instead of hating it,
: * treasuring nature, not disregarding it.
: * etc.
: After all, all these earthly things,
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j*******h
发帖数: 2 | 13 他们如何对待圣经呢？是不是唯独圣经？还有过分强调某些人的权威呢？有没有让你觉
得你的救恩与你在这间教会里某些具体的行为相关呢？ |
