l****i
发帖数: 4609 | 1 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？ |
t**e
发帖数: 2379 | 2 control anger的一个办法是跳出这个正在发生的事情，想想更大更远的东西，随它去
吧。
如果让你生气的是一个事物，就这么办；
如果是一个陌生人，有气力的话就跟他斗下去，或者无视；
如果是家人朋友，一定要忍，冷静下来，回头想想再慢慢谈。
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
d*********2
发帖数: 48111 | 3 控制不了的， 控制了也没啥好处。
人都会有anger的， 你看似大度容人的， 其实是因为他们境界高， 会引起怒气的事情
更重要， 看不上你身边的鸡毛蒜皮。
所以与其学习anger control, 还不如提高境界， 让那些鸡毛蒜皮随风去吧。
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
F***s
发帖数: 178 | 4 MM能展开说说吗？什么事情这么生气？
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
T*********s
发帖数: 17839 | 5 家事？
忍
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
l****i
发帖数: 4609 | 6 Response to 18:06 12/16/2011 Incident
I worked on plans of several projects on December 16,2011 till 17:59. I left
my office and went to the main level to have a break. I stood behind the
glass since it was raining outside. Six minutes later the security officer
on duty stopped me when I was on the hallway to the elevator. He asked
me to signature on the log . I did. He checked his sheet saying I could not
return to my office since my name was not on the night list this week.
I showed him my badge and explained to him I was working late today due to
the deadlines. The security insisted that I could not return to my office
because it is the rule. At that moment, his supervisor came by. I explained
to the supervisor again and requested whether either of them could escort
me to my office. I need to get my car key to go back home. I would
immediately leave the building once I get my car key. They both refused.
I asked whether there was any way I could go back to my office for my car
key. I was told the only choice I have is to have the Chief Officer in this
building be physically present at the scene..
I eventually ignored them and walked to the elevator to my office. One of
the security officer tried to grab me. I defended myself and responded him
with " Sons of bitch, you guys!"
I went back to my office. I got my car key. I locked all the files in the
drawers and left the building immediately. I was threatened that this
incident would be reported to the Chief of XXXX and I got to be responsible
for it.
【在 F***s 的大作中提到】
: MM能展开说说吗？什么事情这么生气？
|
l****i
发帖数: 4609 | |
t**e
发帖数: 2379 | 8 zan!
你一发彪他们就song了，等他们report吧，你肯定会有解释的机会的。
left
not
to
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: Response to 18:06 12/16/2011 Incident
: I worked on plans of several projects on December 16,2011 till 17:59. I left
: my office and went to the main level to have a break. I stood behind the
: glass since it was raining outside. Six minutes later the security officer
: on duty stopped me when I was on the hallway to the elevator. He asked
: me to signature on the log . I did. He checked his sheet saying I could not
: return to my office since my name was not on the night list this week.
: I showed him my badge and explained to him I was working late today due to
: the deadlines. The security insisted that I could not return to my office
: because it is the rule. At that moment, his supervisor came by. I explained
|
l****i
发帖数: 4609 | 9 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？ |
t**e
发帖数: 2379 | 10 control anger的一个办法是跳出这个正在发生的事情，想想更大更远的东西，随它去
吧。
如果让你生气的是一个事物，就这么办；
如果是一个陌生人，有气力的话就跟他斗下去，或者无视；
如果是家人朋友，一定要忍，冷静下来，回头想想再慢慢谈。
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
|
|
d*********2
发帖数: 48111 | 11 控制不了的， 控制了也没啥好处。
人都会有anger的， 你看似大度容人的， 其实是因为他们境界高， 会引起怒气的事情
更重要， 看不上你身边的鸡毛蒜皮。
所以与其学习anger control, 还不如提高境界， 让那些鸡毛蒜皮随风去吧。
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
F***s
发帖数: 178 | 12 MM能展开说说吗？什么事情这么生气？
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
T*********s
发帖数: 17839 | 13 家事？
忍
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: 大家谈谈anger control 吧， 今天我差点失去了理智。
: 你们过去有没有气的发疯的事情？讲讲？
|
l****i
发帖数: 4609 | 14 Response to 18:06 12/16/2011 Incident
I worked on plans of several projects on December 16,2011 till 17:59. I left
my office and went to the main level to have a break. I stood behind the
glass since it was raining outside. Six minutes later the security officer
on duty stopped me when I was on the hallway to the elevator. He asked
me to signature on the log . I did. He checked his sheet saying I could not
return to my office since my name was not on the night list this week.
I showed him my badge and explained to him I was working late today due to
the deadlines. The security insisted that I could not return to my office
because it is the rule. At that moment, his supervisor came by. I explained
to the supervisor again and requested whether either of them could escort
me to my office. I need to get my car key to go back home. I would
immediately leave the building once I get my car key. They both refused.
I asked whether there was any way I could go back to my office for my car
key. I was told the only choice I have is to have the Chief Officer in this
building be physically present at the scene..
I eventually ignored them and walked to the elevator to my office. One of
the security officer tried to grab me. I defended myself and responded him
with " Sons of bitch, you guys!"
I went back to my office. I got my car key. I locked all the files in the
drawers and left the building immediately. I was threatened that this
incident would be reported to the Chief of XXXX and I got to be responsible
for it.
【在 F***s 的大作中提到】
: MM能展开说说吗？什么事情这么生气？
|
l****i
发帖数: 4609 | |
t**e
发帖数: 2379 | 16 zan!
你一发彪他们就song了，等他们report吧，你肯定会有解释的机会的。
left
not
to
【在 l****i 的大作中提到】
: Response to 18:06 12/16/2011 Incident
: I worked on plans of several projects on December 16,2011 till 17:59. I left
: my office and went to the main level to have a break. I stood behind the
: glass since it was raining outside. Six minutes later the security officer
: on duty stopped me when I was on the hallway to the elevator. He asked
: me to signature on the log . I did. He checked his sheet saying I could not
: return to my office since my name was not on the night list this week.
: I showed him my badge and explained to him I was working late today due to
: the deadlines. The security insisted that I could not return to my office
: because it is the rule. At that moment, his supervisor came by. I explained
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