c**t
发帖数: 9197 | | S******t
发帖数: 8388 | | w*******r
发帖数: 1699 | 3 我刚刚读完了这篇文章,非常郁闷, 真想说这个mom 是个somehow abuser, 像很多我见
过的许多中国妈妈一样.为了她自己觉得的superior, 以爱的名义, 强加了多少不快乐
在孩子身上.
大家请不要拍我, 我一直觉得中国父母对孩子的权利太大了. | w*******r
发帖数: 1699 | 4 有个加拿大的十六岁的孩子这么写:"When I read about how Ms. Chua treated her
children, I thought that this is moving into emotional and physical child
abuse. (Threats of no lunch or dinner???) Sure, these children will grow up
with good grades, but what do good grades do? Good grades get you into a
good university and a good job, yes. But a good job does not equal happiness
and fulfillment in life! To believe such a thing is, in my opinion, a
shallow perception. I don't want people to remember me as a straight-A
student. I want people to remember me as a warm person who has given.
"Not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama." When I
read this, I thought this parent had totally given up on teaching morality
to her children. Basically, this is just teaching your child that "Everyone
is your enemy! Strike them down!" I wonder if her children have any friends.
.. Enough said!"
真的是很同意" I don't want people to remember me as a straight-A student. I
want people to remember me as a warm person who has given.". 如果我有小孩子
的话, 我希望自己能给他/她爱,时间,快乐的成长, 可以是很普通的孩子, 只要他/她快
乐,为人温暖. 人生短暂, 况且所谓的loser, winner 标准在更高级的外星人面前都是
浮云. | gw
发帖数: 2175 | 5 说是这么说。真做了父母，就不一样了。
什么是快乐，幸福？
我4岁的女儿就什么都想第一。
并不是我们教她的，只是她在学校里慢慢地学会的，
如果不是第一她常常会不高兴，虽然我们也开导她，只要努力就是好的。
有的快乐是一时的快乐，有的是一生的。
而一生的快乐是需要努力才能获得的，
努力就要付出
付出就难免会有暂时的不快乐 | c**t
发帖数: 9197 | 6 Both two above have excellent points.
In fact, some other people got exact the same opposite views after reading
this.
I think it is human nature. we want to see what we want to see,
when believe what we want to believe, even when presenting exact same
information.
Just like trading, you can get same number of bulls as bears when looking at
exact same chart. :)
I think all we can do is to keep an open mind.
There is always the other side/view, there is always a chance they I might
be wrong.
Trading is easy, you got win/loss pretty soon,
some other life event is harder and you might not know it for a long time,
maybe forever in some case.
but, hey, who says life is easy... | S******t
发帖数: 8388 | 7 俺越来越粉丝你了.
to keep an open mind!
你给粉丝发点包子吧. :-)
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【在 c**t 的大作中提到】
: Both two above have excellent points.
: In fact, some other people got exact the same opposite views after reading
: this.
: I think it is human nature. we want to see what we want to see,
: when believe what we want to believe, even when presenting exact same
: information.
: Just like trading, you can get same number of bulls as bears when looking at
: exact same chart. :)
: I think all we can do is to keep an open mind.
: There is always the other side/view, there is always a chance they I might
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