m**i 发帖数: 8296 | 1 谢谢。自己高考的时候家里人也去抽签的,描述得比较吻合的。
至于这个事情,今天忽然换了个角度,总算明白怎么回事了。
那位男士,基本上算是一个比较典型的NPD(自恋型人格,诊断标准在末尾)。
已婚,外在不错。喜欢年轻女孩子,也有很多女的会扑上去,会发生实质关系但不会因
为她们重组家庭。
自己虽然能明白人的一些事情,但不愿意从命理的角度去说,毕竟玄学这个自己也不是
特别懂完后是敬重为主。转而从心理形成的角度跟人讲(中年危机、原生态家庭对个人
的影响;一个孩子从小长拧巴了又祸害更多的人本来是个没有什么建设性的事情,就不
忍了)。
刚才发现,NPD最恐惧的,就是他/她装饰出来的那些外在被人穿透,内在的空虚("
emptiness")被人家发现,被人证明是错误的,和被人忽视。如果要留在NPD身边,必须
不断地告诉这个NPD你有多么地爱他/她。自己讲的刚好是人内在的核心问题,人家吃不
消自然就跑了。
(所以NPD很少会主动去心理辅导,就算被动地过去,发现被拆穿了就放弃。可是不去
心理辅导的话,是没有办法治愈的)
再想想人家一开始问的那些,原来把自己当猎物来着。+_+b~`` 期待一个正常人和一个
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R*******i 发帖数: 99 | 2 刚看到新闻上的,觉得挺有意思。不知道贴过没有。
原始LINK在这里:
http://www.quora.com/Steve-Jobs/What-are-the-best-stories-about
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Steve Jobs: What are the best stories about people randomly meeting Steve
Jobs?
If so, tell us about the situation and describe the experience?
I'm particularly curious to know what he was like outside of Apple Inc. He
had a reputation for being "difficult" to work with, or work for. I want to
know about what he was like as "the gu... 阅读全帖 |
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g**********y 发帖数: 423 | 3 The tiny proportion of women and non-white winners underscores the need to
reconfigure our human structures to allow talent to flourish
Who wouldn’t like to win a Nobel? Well, your chances do not depend on your
brilliance alone. Gender and birthplace are a major influence on the
likelihood of success.
Since the awards were first given out in 1901, men have won 836 Nobel prizes
compared to just 49 for women. Asia, Africa and Latin America hold a
combined 84% of the world’s population, but have pr... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 4 Why did IBM's OS/2 project lose to Microsoft, given that IBM had much more
resources than Microsoft at that time?
Great question. I'm the founder of Team OS/2 and IBM's first OS/2 Evangelist
, so I lived through the answer to your question for a decade. There's just
no easy answer - it's like asking what makes any given startup a success or
failure - but I'm happy to share the way I see it.
First a few facts - from memory - you might find relevant that support your
question.
IBM spent more than ... 阅读全帖 |
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st 发帖数: 1685 | 5 John Dvorak's Second Opinion
Jan. 11, 2013, 3:25 p.m. EST
BERKELEY, Calif. (MarketWatch) — Microsoft Corp. has released a new
version of its Windows software. It’s a situation we’ve seen before with
Windows Vista, an operating system that only its mother could love, except
Windows 8 is worse.
Windows 8 is a scaled-up OS for mobile devices. It’s not really comfortable
running on a desktop computer, and now we learn that for the first time in
five years PC sales are below the previous year’s level... 阅读全帖 |
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w******e 发帖数: 1187 | 6 The disposable academic
Why doing a PhD is often a waste of time
ON THE evening before All Saints’ Day in 1517, Martin Luther nailed 95
theses
to the door of a church in Wittenberg. In those days a thesis was simply
a position one wanted to argue. Luther, an Augustinian friar, asserted that
Christians could not buy their way to heaven. Today a doctoral thesis is
both an idea and an account of a period of original research. Writing one
is the aim of the hundreds of thousands of students who embar... 阅读全帖 |
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n********k 发帖数: 2818 | 7 As you folks are discussing Cori, I happened to read his autobiography and
find it both interesting and enlightening:)))...BTW, it sounds Richard Axel
is a lot nicer than what I/we have heard...or in another word, his cruelty
is rooted in his obsession with science and indifference to humanity:))); As
well, it is pretty...he noted Cori but left his ex out...pretty human or
not human?
Autobiography
Richard AxelNew York City is my world. I was born in Brooklyn, the first
child of immigrant parents... 阅读全帖 |
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r********s 发帖数: 149 | 8 Dear Colleagues:
It is with great sadness that we write to report the death of our colleague,
Simon W.-L. Chan, an HHMI-Gordon and Betty Moore Foundation Investigator.
Simon, 38, passed away on Wednesday, August 22, 2012 after a brief illness.
He is survived by his parents, Avril and Robert Chan, and sister, Caron
Chan.
In June 2011, Simon was among the first plant scientists selected for the
inaugural class of investigators funded jointly by HHMI and the Gordon and
Betty Moore Foundation to su... 阅读全帖 |
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m******g 发帖数: 467 | 9 Science 15.01.16
小知识:
1. Expectations of brilliance underlie gender distributions across academic
disciplines
个人觉得这篇paper就是个噱头…… |
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v**********m 发帖数: 5516 | 10 经济学家杂志在2010年刊发的文章。
我们都是被社会设计好的耗材。
The disposable academicWhy doing a PhD is often a waste of time
Dec 16th 2010
http://www.economist.com/node/17723223
business leaders complain about shortages of high-level skills, suggesting
PhDs are not teaching the right things. The fiercest critics compare
research doctorates to Ponzi or pyramid schemes.
These armies of low-paid PhD researchers and postdocs boost universities',
and therefore countries', research capacity。
Even graduates who find work outside... 阅读全帖 |
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G*****h 发帖数: 320 | 11 拒绝拒稿的信件的通用样板,转发给各位做参考。
Feature Christmas 2015: The Publication Game
Rejection of rejection: a novel approach to overcoming barriers to
publication
BMJ 2015; 351 doi: http://dx.doi.org/10.1136/bmj.h6326 (Published 14 December 2015)
Cite this as: BMJ 2015;351:h6326
http://www.bmj.com/content/351/bmj.h6326
Cath Chapman, senior research fellow1, Tim Slade, associate professor1
Author affiliations
1NHMRC Centre of Research Excellence in Mental Health and Substance Use,
National Drug and Alcohol Resea... 阅读全帖 |
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a**n 发帖数: 3801 | 12 他是被Fama吓到了
Fama's combination of drive and brilliance convinced Booth that maybe
academia wasn't for him after all. "He was smarter than I was and willing to
work harder--how was I ever going to compete with people like him?" he says
. "I thought there must be more like him out there. I didn't realize he was
unique."
you |
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e*****k 发帖数: 282 | 13 Why doing a PhD is often a waste of time
Dec 16th 2010 | from PRINT EDITION
from PRINT EDITION | Christmas Specials
ON THE evening before All Saints’ Day in 1517, Martin Luther nailed 95
theses to the door of a church in Wittenberg. In those days a thesis was
simply a position one wanted to argue. Luther, an Augustinian friar,
asserted that Christians could not buy their way to heaven. Today a doctoral
thesis is both an idea and an account of a period of original research.
Writing one is the aim... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1 发帖数: 5 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Physics 讨论区 】
发信人: mph2011 (mph), 信区: Physics
标 题: Postdoctoral position available in medical physics
关键字: postdoc medical physics
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 4 09:41:30 2011, 美东)
A postdoctoral position in medical physics is available in the
Department of Radiation Oncology at University of Texas Southwestern
Medical Center at Dallas. The successful candidate will work on projects
related to image-guided radiation therapy (IGRT) using cone beam CT
(CBCT), PET and fluoroscopic imaging. T... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1 发帖数: 5 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Physics 讨论区 】
发信人: mph2011 (mph), 信区: Physics
标 题: Postdoctoral position available in medical physics
关键字: postdoc medical physics
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 4 09:41:30 2011, 美东)
A postdoctoral position in medical physics is available in the
Department of Radiation Oncology at University of Texas Southwestern
Medical Center at Dallas. The successful candidate will work on projects
related to image-guided radiation therapy (IGRT) using cone beam CT
(CBCT), PET and fluoroscopic imaging. T... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1 发帖数: 5 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 Physics 讨论区 】
发信人: mph2011 (mph), 信区: Physics
标 题: Postdoctoral position available in medical physics
关键字: postdoc medical physics
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 4 09:41:30 2011, 美东)
A postdoctoral position in medical physics is available in the
Department of Radiation Oncology at University of Texas Southwestern
Medical Center at Dallas. The successful candidate will work on projects
related to image-guided radiation therapy (IGRT) using cone beam CT
(CBCT), PET and fluoroscopic imaging. T... 阅读全帖 |
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k********y 发帖数: 84 | 17
I agree with littlenorth.
Many of what FallenEmbers said in his original post are true, and are
reasonable precautions to people who are contemplating about going to law
school. However, littlenorth's corrections of certain statements are also
absolutely true. FallenEmbers, you may not know some of these facts because
of your unique position as an in-house counsel rather than working as an
associate in a biglaw firm, so I do not begrudge you about it.
As to you pointing out the fact that there ... 阅读全帖 |
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l***o 发帖数: 7937 | 18 http://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/technology/article/1256542/zhang-
No mathematician should ever allow himself to forget that mathematics, more
than any art or science, is a young man's game," the British mathematician G
.H. Hardy wrote in A Mathematician's Apology. But the older guys are now
catching up.
Since Hardy wrote those lines in 1940, it has been conventional wisdom that
mathematical breakthroughs are most often made in a moment of brilliance by
a born genius at a young age, rather than an ... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1 发帖数: 5 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 Physics 讨论区 】
发信人: mph2011 (mph), 信区: Physics
标 题: Postdoctoral position available in medical physics
关键字: postdoc medical physics
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 4 09:41:30 2011, 美东)
A postdoctoral position in medical physics is available in the
Department of Radiation Oncology at University of Texas Southwestern
Medical Center at Dallas. The successful candidate will work on projects
related to image-guided radiation therapy (IGRT) using cone beam CT
(CBCT), PET and fluoroscopic imaging. T... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1 发帖数: 5 | 20 A postdoctoral position in medical physics is available in the
Department of Radiation Oncology at University of Texas Southwestern
Medical Center at Dallas. The successful candidate will work on projects
related to image-guided radiation therapy (IGRT) using cone beam CT
(CBCT), PET and fluoroscopic imaging. The ideal candidate should have a
Ph.D. in Medical Physics, Biomedical Engineering, Electrical
Engineering, Physics, Mechanical Engineering or Computer Science.
Experience in medical imag... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 21 http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-43396008
Stephen Hawking has died at the age of 76, his family has said.
The British theoretical physicist was known for his groundbreaking work with
black holes and relativity, and was the author of several popular science
books including A Brief History of Time.
His children, Lucy, Robert and Tim, said: "We are deeply saddened that our
beloved father passed away today.
"He was a great scientist and an extraordinary man whose work and legacy
will live on for many year... 阅读全帖 |
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r******s 发帖数: 2155 | 22 Their work will shake your blief system for sure if you read into it.
I hated their brilliance. ^_^
是 |
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h*****m 发帖数: 25 | 23 Well... but this hardly compromises the brilliance of some of these people.
And some of them are actually doing probability rather than statistics, for
which a postdoc is almost a must. |
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s*********t 发帖数: 16647 | 24 你那个叫fire,不代表brilliance/brightness就好,更别说scintillation和spread了
。。。。
话说最近20年来,是更注重大太面和fire,不过传统的可是T。style
要了 |
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m********n 发帖数: 3558 | 25 来自主题: WeddingBells版 - 钻戒涨价了 跟我一样的纠结.....小石头平时我觉得不会掉的,有人说要是你去清洗啊什么的,那
种很小的小石头可能会有点问题,不过我觉得那说的也是halo setting 边上的那些小
小石头,边上paved 的应该不会吧。
还有今天问了whiteflash 的gemologist, 说大多数客人看不出G/H/I 的区别,如果你
挑最好的cut, 由于旁边金属是白色的缘故,有时候会有些reflection,即使I 应该看起
来也是白的。不过我觉得如果两边的小石头都是G/H的,中间的就尽量不要I。
还有gemologist 说SI1 有的是eye clean, 但有的会看到有小的black carbon;至于
SI2 她没说什么。我是觉得不影响brilliance 和整体之类的就行,又没有人拿着放大
镜去照。
如果想要一起戴钻戒和婚戒,钻戒又选择了paved 或者 channel 的话,可以考虑单
圈的婚戒啊;要不就做分开戴的打算;那就怎么都行。
还有如果要显的话也可以考虑halo setting.
10K 很不错了。如果不求要>1, 可以找0.8-0.9 carat 的,看起来应该差别不太大。 |
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z*******n 发帖数: 1034 | 26 免费游戏模式束缚着开发者的双手
发布时间:2014-05-22 17:11:19 Tags:付费模式,免费游戏,市场,手机平台,玩家
作者:Barry Meade
在今年的三月初,Fireproof公开了一个好消息,即自从我们的手机游戏《The Room》
和《The Room 2》发行以来已经卖出了550万份了。
在Fireproof,我们总是能听到一款手机游戏必须是休闲的,且能够免费下载的说法,
作为一种服务的游戏将永久地出现在玩家面前。但因为我们的游戏都很短,既黑暗又残
忍,不存在社交或在线元素,且不包含应用内部购买或广告,所以这便是一大问题。
the room(from d.cn)
the room(from d.cn)
我们同样也缺少足够的钱去支付专业的市场营销或PR。但是依靠着苹果的App Store的
推荐,我们这款基于7万英镑预算的游戏获得了超乎预期的成功。
在对于我们所获得的成绩的评价时,我发了一条tweet表示,也许手机游戏在免费玩家
之间的盈利战导致开发社区更加依赖于“数据之谈”,同时渐渐忽视了一款优秀的游戏
会对玩家产生怎样的影响。关于开发者一味地追求娱乐而不是... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********8 发帖数: 1018 | 27 这些小厂早晚会消亡的,大厂,诸如Chery,Brilliance的进步还是明显的 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 29 Acer Aspire AS5250-BZ853 LX.RJY02.024 Notebook PC - AMD Dual-Core E-350 1.
60GHz, 2GB DDR3, 320GB HDD, DVDRW, 15.6" Display, Windows 7 Home Premium 64-
bit $279.99 after MIR
Link:
http://www.tigerdirect.com/applications/searchtools/item-Detail
Acer Aspire AS5250-BZ853 LX.RJY02.024 Notebook PC
The Acer Aspire AS5250-BZ853 LX.RJY02.024 Notebook PC sports a classy design
along with an AMD E-350 1.60GHz processor for fast display and browsing of
rich web content, and responsive, energy-efficient per... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 30 Adorama has the Canon Pixma MG8120B Wireless Inkjet Photo All-in-One Printer
with Intelligent Touch System, 3.5in LCD, 9600 x 2400 dpi Color Print
Resolution - Brown Finish for $99.95 after applying promo code S1234567 ($
160.04 discount)
Shipping is free
Product Link:
http://www.adorama.com/ICAMG8120BR.html
Compare to BestBuy at $300:
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Canon - PIXMA MG8120B Network-Ready Wireless All-In-One Printer - Bronze/1616084.p?id=1218273043982&skuId=1616084
Compare to BestBuy a... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 31 AcerAspire AS5250-0468 Notebook
Everyday HD Computing
The sleek and stylish Aspire AS5250-0468 Notebook delivers fast browsing of
rich web content, and responsive, energy-efficient performance to the
powerful combination of AMD E-Series dual-core processor and AMD Radeon HD
Graphics. Enjoy and share full HD content effortlessly, and experience
smooth and vivid DVD & HD video playback on the vivid 15.6" HD widescreen
LCD display. Acer Clear.fi(TM) provides enhanced connectivity so you can
share ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 32 25-inch ultra-slim LED monitor / 1920 x 1080 / 3M:1 Dynamic Contrast Ratio /
250 nits Brightness / 5ms response time / HDMI / DVI-D / VGA
Dazzle your visual experience with HP 2511x 25" LED monitor. You'll love the
ultra-slim design and excellent performance for surfing the Web, viewing
videos and photos, playing on-line games, and working on projects. It's the
extra size and LED brilliance that'll grab you!
Link:
http://www.jr.com/hp/pe/HP_2511X/
219.99 - 15 off 150 Promo Code JR2012 = 204.99
J... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 33 Link:
http://www.hellogoodbye.net/shoppe/viewitem.php?category=Music&
select skittles from the drop-down menu for $0.01 price
then add to cart
score our new album near-instantly! and directly from us!
- you'll receive an email with a url and access code for your download
- HQ 320 kpbs MP3s with artwork & lyrics sheet
iTunes says, "Would It Kill You? is a near masterpiece of pop, full of songs
that will lift your spirits and fill your heart... What more could you want
from a pop album?"
Myspace R... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 34 I went to my local Target Store looking for Digital Camera and got this
Canon ELPH PowerShot 500HS Digital Camera which was on clearance for $174.98
...
On display it showed as $279.99 but one of the sales associate informed me
that they just marked it down to $174.98...It's a really good camera for the
price...I was debating between the Canon ELPH 300 HS which is more compact
and was recently dropped to ~149.98...but then I was impressed with the ELPH
500...Store had about 3 or 4 of these in st... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 35 Tittle says it all, I was surprised that there was such a thing then I
smacked my forehead and said "Of course! What brilliance!" Now there's a
good way to get me into being able to sound knowledgeable the next time I'm
asked about yoga.
quote
Synopsis: "Pure Nude Yoga - Zen Garden Goddess" artfully explores
the practice of yoga without the confinement of clothing. In Pure Nude Yoga,
beautiful 26 year old Yogini Wenona gracefully moves through a series of... 阅读全帖 |
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e*n 发帖数: 1511 | 36 http://www.stock-article.com/window-dressing.php
As investors, and we all are investors these days, it is important that we
understand the idiosyncrasies of the Stock Market pricing data we use to
help us in our decision making efforts. On Wall Street, investing can be a
minefield for those who don't take the time to appreciate why securities
prices are at the levels that appear on quarterly account statements. At
least four times per year, security prices are more a function of
institutional ma... 阅读全帖 |
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l******d 发帖数: 5255 | 37 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 the counselor 2013
(continued)
上面说的这个讲述方式,有人这么说了:“unfortunately, first-time screenwriter
McCarthy fails to realize that he's not writing a novel here. Despite the
brilliance of his literary works, he doesn't take into account the fact that
living, breathing people rarely speak in monologues, and there's scarcely
an ounce of naturally delivered dialogue in any of these exchanges.”
这个独白,在电影里是比较吓人;在舞台剧可能还好些。观众不容易接受。
另外,这个penelope cruz选的也不好,可能是刚生完孩子,粗腰胖脸,又很老。30出
头的女演员多得是,非得找快40的。还有cameron diaz(只会演... 阅读全帖 |
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l******d 发帖数: 5255 | 38 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 the counselor 2013
(continued)
上面说的这个讲述方式,有人这么说了:“unfortunately, first-time screenwriter
McCarthy fails to realize that he's not writing a novel here. Despite the
brilliance of his literary works, he doesn't take into account the fact that
living, breathing people rarely speak in monologues, and there's scarcely
an ounce of naturally delivered dialogue in any of these exchanges.”
这个独白,在电影里是比较吓人;在舞台剧可能还好些。观众不容易接受。
另外,这个penelope cruz选的也不好,可能是刚生完孩子,粗腰胖脸,又很老。30出
头的女演员多得是,非得找快40的。还有cameron diaz(只会演... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********e 发帖数: 32207 | 39 and actually there are not too many 335i in china,
if you are somebody knowing cars, sure you can tell
the difference from an Brilliance 320i and an original 335i.
If you are not, your opinion is not even considered. |
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c**e 发帖数: 3760 | 40 Brilliance碰撞实验结果惨不忍睹。那他们组装的宝马呢?
组装宝马是全部进口件还是有一部分国产件? |
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