i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 1 2nd this
lz MM 现在有些depress了
grief 5个阶段
denial and isolation
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance
需要时间也需要外援
理智上认为可以和应该原谅，move on
感情上真的走到这一步，需要很多时间地 |
|
z*****g
发帖数: 592 | 2 welcome to the crowd.
This is part of grief being a landlord. Get real. |
|
z*****g
发帖数: 592 | 3 welcome to the crowd.
This is part of grief being a landlord. Get real. |
|
d****n
发帖数: 1637 | 4 //look this, it might help
***********How To Hire A Data Scientist***********
http://blog.bright.com/2012/11/13/how-to-hire-a-data-scientist/
The most challenging positions to recruit for are often the newest hot
profession. It must have been fun to find a silicon semiconductor
specialist in 1954 — who wanted to study sand before the transistor was
invented? An HTML expert in 1996? SGML experts all had cushy government
jobs or worked for publishers. In the last two years, a new creature known... 阅读全帖 |
|
n********e
发帖数: 41 | 5 楼主 看到 你 isDiffByOne 函数就知道你必然要超时
Leetcode免费给你用 就别挑剔了。凡事要先从自身找问题
你那个测试不是大数据
真正的大数据在这里：
start = "nanny";
end = "aloud";
String[] d = {"ricky","grind","cubic","panic","lover","farce","gofer
","sales","flint","omens","lipid","briny","cloth","anted","slime","oaten","
harsh","touts","stoop","cabal","lazed","elton","skunk","nicer","pesky","
kusch","bused","kinda","tunis","enjoy","aches","prowl","babar","rooms","
burst","slush","pines","urine","pinky","bayed","mania","light","flare","
wares","wom... 阅读全帖 |
|
c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 6 From http://www.kalzumeus.com/2011/10/28/dont-call-yourself-a-programmer/
How to value an equity grant:
Roll d100. (Not the right kind of geek? Sorry. rand(100) then.)
0~70: Your equity grant is worth nothing.
71~94: Your equity grant is worth a lump sum of money which makes you about
as much money as you gave up working for the startup, instead of working for
a megacorp at a higher salary with better benefits.
95~99: Your equity grant is a lifechanging amount of money. You won’t feel
rich —... 阅读全帖 |
|
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 7 我不是智者。 我看来：
您的家庭不幸不是正常的，
您的GRIEF反应却是正常的。
您得找人倾述。
找COMMUNITY。
孩子太小。只好为了孩子
而坚强。 生命好像就是这样
BUILD RESILIENCE的。
祝战胜煎熬，健康幸福。 |
|
i*******6
发帖数: 234 | 8 Healing the Trauma: Entering Motherhood with Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (
PTSD)
by Jennifer Jamison Griebenow
© 2006 Midwifery Today, Inc. All rights reserved.
[Editor's note: This article first appeared in Midwifery Today Issue 80,
Winter 2006.]
Making the leap to parenthood is a challenging transition even at the best
of times. For some mothers that transition is made even more difficult by
additional challenges in the postpartum period. Most people know about the
baby blues, and the m... 阅读全帖 |
|
az
发帖数: 16686 | 9 http://www.bostonherald.com/news/regional/view.bg?articleid=132
A 4-year-old Dudley boy died of his injuries Saturday after plunging from an
escalator onto a glass case inside a Sears department store, authorities
said.
The boy fell Friday evening about 6:35 p.m. while riding the escalator with
family and a friend at the Auburn Mall, said Worcester County District
Attorney Joseph Early in a statement. Police told the Telegram & Gazette of
Worcester the boy grabbed onto the escalator railing and ... 阅读全帖 |
|
s**********n
发帖数: 432 | 10 很能理解lzmm的难过.我流产过双胞胎,那种强大的grief没有经历过的都很难理解.有一
阵子看不得孩子,看了就流眼泪啊.时间是你的好朋友,吃好睡好,多聊天,多锻炼身体.保
重好自己,相信那个有缘分的孩子就在不远的将来等着你呢.
我姐姐也有流产过,现在又怀上了.据说第二次再自然流产的几率小于3%.mm一定要对自
己对未来有信心!
Bless! |
|
s**********n
发帖数: 432 | 11 很能理解lzmm的难过.我流产过双胞胎,那种强大的grief没有经历过的都很难理解.有一
阵子看不得孩子,看了就流眼泪啊.时间是你的好朋友,吃好睡好,多聊天,多锻炼身体.保
重好自己,相信那个有缘分的孩子就在不远的将来等着你呢.
我姐姐也有流产过,现在又怀上了.据说第二次再自然流产的几率小于3%.mm一定要对自
己对未来有信心!
Bless! |
|
c******i
发帖数: 4091 | 12 赞洞察力。
我在这“吵架”其实也是帮助那些愚昧父母做regression therapy，DABDA grief好几
个阶段呢。
借花献佛，祝苏小妹周末愉快，呵呵 |
|
y****6
发帖数: 26 | 13 24岁，统计学博士，一个未来的人才，就被两个黑人小流氓给毁了。真是让人窝心阿！
Dear GSAS students and other members of the GSAS community,
A tragic incident last night occurred involving one of our GSAS
students. Minghui Yu, a PhD student in Statistics, was struck by a vehicle
Friday evening at Broadway and W. 122nd Street. Mr. Yu passed away as a
result of his injuries. We are grief stricken at the loss of this member of
our Columbia graduate community. His parents, family, friends, and
colleagues in the Department of |
|
i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 14 来，苦菜花们群抱一个！
苦菜花的心理路程，大概就是grief的5大步骤：
1. Denial and Isolation.
2. Anger.
3. Bargaining.
4. Depression.
5. Acceptance
详细的，自己古吧
述说过去找父母摆平等等都有用
另外，欧觉着更重要的一点，就是充实自己，让自己热爱生活，让自己快乐起来，让自
己的日子快乐起来，人在满足的状态下，很容易感受和自然地实施慷慨与宽容 |
|
O*******d
发帖数: 20343 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: OverCloud (天马行空), 信区: Military
标 题: 小孩子的风度教育，对大人也适用
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 10 22:58:50 2011, 美东)
尤其是不要高声评论路上走在前边的女人的大屁股。
25 Manners Every Kid Should Know By Age 9
Helping your child master these simple rules of etiquette will get him
noticed -- for all the right reasons.
By David Lowry, Ph.D.
Your child's rude 'tude isn't always intentional. Sometimes kids just don't
realize it's impolite to interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe that
the lady walking in fr... 阅读全帖 |
|
s****y
发帖数: 1574 | 16 All of us at Kidpower, in each of our Centers around the world, join
countless others in mourning the loss of the children and adults in Friday's
shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary. We are asking hard questions that have
complex answers.
And we are holding the children in our lives even more closely right now,
cherishing them, and longing to give them a safer world in which to live.
While you may have had the conversation about what happened at Sandy Hook
Elementary with the children you care a... 阅读全帖 |
|
l*******g
发帖数: 271 | 17 (ZT) From Tim and the Change.org team:
As Americans process the grief, fear, and anger stemming from last Friday's
tragic shooting in Newtown, Connecticut, many are calling for action. In
response to the shooting, more than 1,000 people -- including many in and
around Newtown -- started petitions on Change.org, calling for tighter gun
laws, stronger mental health services, and support for the victims' families.
Here are a few petitions calling for meaningful action in response to the
tragedy at ... 阅读全帖 |
|
q********n
发帖数: 3248 | 18 有帖子问如何让孩子适应美国的school culture，这个挺好的。
希望孩子从小懂得礼节，是全世界各个国家都致力的一件事，请大家见识一下美国孩子
9岁之前需要掌握的25种基本礼节，体味一下美国版的弟子规。
1.When asking for something, say "Please."
向别人询问事情，说“请”。
2.When receiving something, say "thank you."
当接受东西时，说“谢谢”。
3.Don't interrrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there
is an emergency.They will notice you and respond when they are finished
talking.
除非有意外，否则切勿打断大人们的交谈，大人谈完话后会注意到你并回答你。
4.If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase"excuse
me" is the m... 阅读全帖 |
|
J*******p
发帖数: 1129 | 19
LZ妈妈真不容易，同情...祝福...
很同意这位的回复。孩子爸爸在世的时候一定很爱女儿的吧？让孩子知道，可以给她看
爸爸和她小时候的照片，讲爸爸怎样爱她的细节。楼上说得非常好，可以和女儿分享爸
爸生前的种种：喜欢的食物，爱好的活动，小时候的糗事，读书工作上的成就，等等。
孩子需要也可以借着这些来自你和其他家人朋友提供的点点滴滴，逐渐在她心目中建起
一个属于她的爸爸的形象。这过程中，难免会有grief, 但是最终是一个有益孩子健康
成长的过程。 |
|
n********h
发帖数: 13135 | 20 I am one of six adult children of gay parents who recently filed amicus
briefs with the US Supreme Court, asking the Court to respect the authority
of citizens to keep the original definition of marriage: a union between one
man and one woman to the exclusion of all others, so that children may know
and may be raised by their biological parents. I also live in Canada, where
same-sex marriage was federally mandated in 2005.
I am the daughter of a gay father who died of AIDS. I described my
experi... 阅读全帖 |
|
u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 21 RIP
Speaking to graduating seniors of the Benjamin Franklin High School in New
Orleans, Luke Z. Tang ’18 had a message for his classmates.
“There are no bad people in this world, only complex ones,” Tang said. “
Everyone has a story whether you know it or not ... everyone has the
capacity for good and evil.”
Tang, who was a sophomore in Lowell House, died on Saturday suddenly and
unexpectedly.
The message of empathy and faith that he delivered to his high school
classmates that spring day is one... 阅读全帖 |
|
z********6
发帖数: 852 | 22 Chappaquiddick incident
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Chappaquiddick incident
Location Chappaquiddick Island, Massachusetts, U.S.A.
Date July 18, 1969
Result Kennedy pleaded guilty to leaving the scene of the accident;
refused to run for president in 1972 and 1976
The term "Chappaquiddick incident" refers to the circumstances
surrounding the death of Mary Jo Kopechne, whose body was discovered
underwater inside an automobile belonging to Senator Edward M. Kennedy.
Kopechne's bod... 阅读全帖 |
|
b******y
发帖数: 9224 | 23 今天发现spammer终于消停了, good grief.
重新开启了网站的注册功能，但现在需要人工审核才能开通账号了，比较保险的做法。 |
|
v****e
发帖数: 19471 | 24 My point is, why can't someone grief the dead, bath the dog, and enjoy a lit
tle spirit, on the same day?
deaths |
|
g*****u
发帖数: 14294 | 25 AGO looks strong, even though munis start to give grief.
What's WL? |
|
a*********g
发帖数: 8087 | 26 都說是週三挂的
Steven P. Jobs, the Apple Inc. chairman and co-founder who pioneered the
personal computer industry and changed the way people think about technology
, died Wednesday at the age of 56.
His family, in a separate statement, said Mr. Jobs "died peacefully today
surrounded by his family...We know many of you will mourn with us, and we
ask that you respect our privacy during our time of grief."
Read more: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702304447804576410753210811910.html#ixzz1ZxQ6... 阅读全帖 |
|
g*****u
发帖数: 14294 | 27 Not bad. What's ur grief? |
|
y*******o
发帖数: 6632 | 28 you are so wrong
she got so much bless from here just want to find a place to share her grief
.
I feel sorry for you for such cruel heart you have |
|
m****r
发帖数: 5435 | 29
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-rv/politics/special/whitewater
Hillary Clinton Futures Trades Detailed
By Charles R. Babcock
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, May 27, 1994; Page A01
Hillary Rodham Clinton was allowed to order 10 cattle futures contracts,
normally a $12,000 investment, in her first commodity trade in 1978 although
she had only $1,000 in her account at the time, according to trade records
the White House released yesterday.
The computerized records of her trades, which the Wh... 阅读全帖 |
|
l*********m
发帖数: 16971 | 30 What typically happens in these situations is that the victim company has to
massively dilute its share structure from the constant paying of the
monthly burn rate with money received from the selling of “real” shares at
artificially low levels. Then the goal of the naked short sellers is to
point out to the investors, usually via paid “Internet bashers”, that with
the, let’s say, 50 billion shares currently issued and outstanding, that
this lousy company is not worth the $5 million market cap i... 阅读全帖 |
|
W***n
发帖数: 11530 | 31
r u talking about ur mother, good grief! |
|
k*j
发帖数: 2317 | 32 The energy sector has been hammered as oil prices hover near multiyear lows,
but Morgan Stanley is pretty darn bullish.
Chief U.S. Equity Strategist Adam Parker says energy remains one of his team
's top recommendations, although they did reduce their position in the
sector by 1 percent at the start of this month.
Still, energy remains at the top of their buy list, per the chart below.
So what's the energy thesis?
Parker and his team cite four key reasons to buy, supported by four charts.
The fi... 阅读全帖 |
|
d***y
发帖数: 2567 | 33 Hillary Clinton Futures Trades Detailed
By Charles R. Babcock
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, May 27, 1994; Page A01
Hillary Rodham Clinton was allowed to order 10 cattle futures contracts,
normally a $12,000 investment, in her first commodity trade in 1978 although
she had only $1,000 in her account at the time, according to trade records
the White House released yesterday.
The computerized records of her trades, which the White House obtained from
the Chicago Mercantile Exchange, show for... 阅读全帖 |
|
y***r
发帖数: 16594 | 34 看看livemore怎么说 tips and rumors的吧。
If there is anything that Livermore hated, it was tips. He preferred to
trade alone based on his own strategies and analysis, but when he did listen
to tips, it almost always caused him grief. “Tips! How people want tips!”
he noted. “They crave not only to get them but to give them.” Livermore
said that trading on tips cost him hundreds of thousands of dollars,
especially the kind casually given on the street by uninformed acquaintances
. “I know from experience ... 阅读全帖 |
|
j******a
发帖数: 1582 | 35 5 stages of grief
精英们还在第一、二阶段Denial and Anger
得等5个阶段都过了，他们才有心思反省
还得一段时间 |
|
|
i****a
发帖数: 36252 | 37 Your pet turtle died and you need time to deal with the grief |
|
F********r
发帖数: 1748 | 38 The 5 stages of loss and grief:
denial, angry, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
老兄你现在还在一期。 |
|
p***y
发帖数: 18037 | 39 上上星期在纽约版贴了这个影片的告示，但是忘了贴台湾版，不知道布教授和奶油豆同学有否去看？明後天最後两天了。
＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝＝
Casting Light on Taiwanese Cinema
By MIKE HALE
Published: May 8, 2011
At the turn of the century Taiwanese cinema had a moment, albeit a quiet one that the average American filmgoer probably missed. Edward Yang’s magnificent family drama “Yi Yi” was named the best film of 2000, in any language, by the National Society of Film Critics. Hou Hsiao-Hsien and Tsai Ming-Liang, Mr. Yang’s compatriots in t... 阅读全帖 |
|
S****n
发帖数: 46 | 40 i am watching 将爱情进行到底 right now. i like it very much.
those 偶像剧 are so romantic. they live in the ideal world.
even though they experience love, joy, grief and desparation,
they don't need to worry too much about triviality.
//sigh the real life is quite simple.
day after day, we sleep, getup, have meals, go to work/study, and entertain
ourselves. when we are emotiionl, happy or sad to death, no music is
around
we have dreams. you don't know what was mine last night.
i dreamt of subletting an ap |
|
s*******w
发帖数: 2257 | 41 Tsarnaev guilty in Boston bombing
smilhaNew 快速回复 快速引用
Boston (CNN)[Breaking news update, posted at 2:19 p.m.]
So far, jurors have found Dzhokhar Tsarnaev guilty of 10 of 30 counts. The
verdict still is being read.
[Breaking news update, posted at 2:13 p.m.]
Jurors in the Boston Marathon bombing trial have found Dzhokhar Tsarnaev
guilty of using a weapon of mass destruction resulting in death, and aiding
and abetting, a charge that carries a possible penalty of death.
[Breaking news update, p... 阅读全帖 |
|
s*******h
发帖数: 2148 | 42 看见大家都挺爱玩的，把别人发到我信箱来的贴一份，以供参考。
Friday:
'Aladdin'
7:30pm (also 11am Saturday, 2pm Sunday) ImaginOn, $18-24
This condensed but often magical version of the Disney musical runs through
Sunday in Children's Theatre of Charlotte's handsome production
Charlotte Symphony: 'Planets!'
7:30pm Knight Theater, $30 (includes appetizers and a drink ticket)
Gustav Holst's symphonic work will accompany breathtaking NASA footage in
this multimedia spectacular. Outside the theater, take a peek at the stars
in a po... 阅读全帖 |
|
g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 43 She made a statement. 她的发言非常得体 ...
On behalf of our family, we are so deeply sorry for the devastation my
brother has caused. No words can express our sadness that 32 innocent people
lost their lives this week in such a terrible, senseless tragedy. We are
heartbroken.
We grieve alongside the families, the Virginia Tech community, our State of
Virginia, and the rest of the nation. And, the world.
Every day since April 16, my father, mother and I pray for students Ross
Abdallah Alameddine, Brian R... 阅读全帖 |
|
|
t**********p
发帖数: 2672 | 45 Statement from Michelle Yu family:
==================================================
Over the course of the last four days, our family has fought to keep hope
alive that our beloved Michelle would come home to us after an exhausting
ordeal on Mount Baldy. We are simply devastated to know now that she will
not.
Our family cannot adequately express our grief at the untimely passing of
our vibrant, incredible Michelle; but, we have been so touched by and
grateful for the outpouring of support from... 阅读全帖 |
|
e*******y
发帖数: 5613 | 46 每年年末都想起这首歌
The undeletable history is though forgettable. Almost all the moments, grief
or joy, glory or shame, will pass away finally in life. So few, would stay
in heart and last till eternity...
Why waste time on those people/things you don't really care and who do not
care you at all... or reside on mistakes you have already made and have
never a chance to change....
There is a new year...
祝同学们新年新气象 20个包子 熟ID优先 |
|
|
|
|
|
